A La Carte (6/15)

Five for Father’s Day - I meant to do this last week, but never mind—there is still time to order before Sunday. Here are five books you may want to get for dad this Father’s Day: one, two, three, four and five.

Sometimes It’s Just Plain Hard - Denise Spencer, wife of the late Michael Spencer, writes about Michael’s death. She shares the false hope of a “beautiful” death and contrasts that to the harsh reality. “Michael’s illness was just plain hard. I’m not complaining; it could have been a thousand times worse and I know that. Yet from the day he got sick in late November until he died on April 5, he never again had even one good day. His life became throwing up in a bucket or trying to sit perfectly still so he wouldn’t throw up. My life became driving him to medical appointments in the dead of winter through rain and sleet and snow and fog and sometimes all of the above. I’ll condense the story for your reading enjoyment. Michael got worse. Life got harder. Then he died.”

How Soccer Explains the World - Writing for Scriptorium, Allen Yeh shares some interesting reflections on soccer. Like this one: “Football is nationalism.  Unlike the Olympics or other sporting events, the World Cup is hosted by a country, not a city.  This breeds tremendous national unity, not just provincialism.  So, while it is Rio de Janeiro who will host the 2016 Olympics, it is Brazil who will host the 2014 World Cup.  Huge difference.  The whole country unites under one flag during the World Cup.”

5 Favorite Koinonia Posts - The editors of Zondervan’s blog list their 5 favorites Mounce articles.

The Religious Lives of Young Adults - Maybe this ought to be filed in the “Well, duh” file. But I think it’s still good to have reaffirmed: parents are massively influential in the religious lives of their children. “We live in a culture where mothers and fathers hover over their children in school, on athletic fields and even on social media sites such as Facebook. Yet why do so many parents take a hands-off approach to religion and spirituality, setting youth adrift in crucial areas of moral reasoning and finding meaning in life?”

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What Denise Spencer shared is candid and honest. Death in many cases is just plain ugly and hard. We can wax poetic and brave but when it devours someone you deeply love and are involved in caring for , it is really a heavy load .Watching my Mother die from cancer after being diagnosed in Jan of 92 to her death Sept 92 , at the age of 52 was hard . She went through 2 major surgeries and radiation therapy . They opted not to do Chemo for they were fearful it would kill her in her weakened state. Ironic as that sounds. But the constant throwing up ,the headaches, the weakness and then near the end being amped on morphine for pain and asking you to smother her , to put her out of her suffering , well lets just say God and I had many personal conversations that I hope He is forgiving.I’m thankful it wasn’t any longer and know she is with the Lord now but when you are going through those waters it is very deep and overwhelming . I can understand Denise’s words. Praying for her and her family.

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I feel bad changing the subject to something so silly, but here I go…there is so much great writing about the World Cup out there right now! Why link to this guy with his stolen-title snobbery? The book “How Soccer Explains the World” is interesting and amusing and I wonder why Yeh feels at liberty to use this title for his own explanation. As an American soccer fan who can’t stand to watch football (or baseball or basketball…but then again, I’m a girl) I am appalled at his assertion that America should like soccer just because the rest of the world does. Sport is a matter of taste. Let Americans decide if they want to like soccer or not. As great as I think soccer is, I know that if it became the dominant sport in the US like it is in most of the rest of the world, we’d lose a significant chunk of cultural heritage.