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Tuesday June 19, 2007
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The Dangerous Book for Boys

The Dangerous Book for BoysYears ago I found a beat-up old box that contained a stack of musty books. I suppose they must have belonged to my father or grandfather and that they had long since been forgotten. They were interesting books, clearly targeted at boys of a different age. They had stories of pirates, heroic tales of valor and suggestions for activities that would appeal to any boy. It seems that books like this were all the rage once upon a time. Children needed to entertain themselves and this type of book gave them the suggestions they needed to keep busy.

The Dangerous Book for Boys looks just like those old books I uncovered. It is hardcover and over-sized with old-school gold printing on the cover. Even the inside covers are covered with that old marbled paper that used to adorn books. It looks like a relic of days gone by and that is clearly exactly as the authors want it. Already a runaway bestseller in Britain, the book has recently been Americanized and launched to great acclaim here in North America where the publisher expects to sell several million copies.

The book is for boys. Most girls will find little to enjoy and very little to inspire them. It is dangerous only to companies like Sony and Nintendo (and perhaps the occasional rabbit) as it teaches boys to love the outdoors and to use their imaginations to see the wonder of the great outdoors. It teaches them what they need to know to be busy, energetic, adventurous boys (which is exactly what God intends for boys!). The chapters read like a list of the things I loved to do and to read as a boy: How to Play Stickball; The Greatest Paper Airplane in the World; Fishing; Table Football; Secret Inks (and no, they don't shy away from suggesting that urine is useful in creating secret messages); Extraordinary Stories; Skipping Stones; Juggling; Insects and Spiders; Books Every Boy Should Read; and on and on through 270 pages.

The following brief excerpts will serve to provide an idea of the content. The first two come from a section entitled "Essential Gear" which describes things an adventuresome boy will need to keep in his pockets at all times:

Handkerchief - "There are many uses for a piece of cloth, from preventing smoke inhalation or helping with a nosebleed to offering one to a girl when she cries. Big ones can even be made into slings. They're worth having."

Needle and thread - "Again, there are a number of useful things you can do with these, from sewing up a wound on an unconscious dog to repairing a torn shirt. Make sure the thread is strong and then it can be used for fishing."

Later in the book is a section about how to hunt, clean and cook a rabbit:

Skinning the Rabbit

This is not a difficult process, though it is a little daunting the first time. If you have a heavy-bladed cleaver, simply chop off the four paws. If you are stuck with only a penknife, break the forearm bones with a quick jerk, then cut the skin around the break in a ring. Remove the head in the same way. A serrated edge will cut through the bones, but a standard kitchen knife is likely to be damaged if used as a chopper.

The section discussing girls is not only filled with useful advice, but also downright hilarious. And, in fact, that quirky British humor is in evidence from the first to the last. Like most young boys, the book does not take itself too seriously.

Christian parents will want want to be aware of a couple of small concerns. When discussing ancient history and dinosaurs, the book turns, as we'd expect, to evolution as its explanation of the world's origins. Also, while the list of suggested reading is really quite good, it does offer a handful of titles, especially for older boys, that may not be entirely appropriate (such as books by Stephen King). There are a few titles that wouldn't top my list of recommendations. Finally, one of the suggested activities involves role playing games (with Dungeons & Dragons heading the list) and this may make some parents uncomfortable. There is no great cause for concern, though, as the book has far more positives than potential negatives.

Books like The Dangerous Book for Boys may be just the antidote we need to see boys begin to break the inactivity that seems to plague so many of them these days. There is something delightfully politically incorrect about a book with instructions on how to kill, skin and cook a rabbit. And for a boy, there is something delightfully challenging about trying it. Bound to be a popular gift item this Christmas (and probably this summer as well), I gladly recommend this book and trust it will drag many boys outside to enjoy the beauty and wonder of nature and to just enjoy being boys. Those childhood years don't last long enough. This book is sure to create many great memories of those years.

Comments (21) »


1. Jason R. Kaiser Sr.
June 19, 2007
10:20 AM

Just got this book for Father’s day, I’ve been making paper airplanes for the kids ever since then!


2. Tim Challies
June 19, 2007
10:24 AM

“Just got this book for Father’s day, I’ve been making paper airplanes for the kids ever since then!”

I’ve got to admit—I was underwhelmed by their instructions for making paper airplanes. I haven’t actually tried any of their designs yet, but they didn’t seem very well explained…


3. Tim Ellsworth
June 19, 2007
10:25 AM

I bought and read this book a few weeks ago. My son’s only 4, and many of the activities are for boys older than him. But I figure in a couple of years this book will be really handy.


4. Gary
June 19, 2007
10:27 AM

Tim,

I saw the advert for this book on Sunday. My 20 year old son ran out and purchased it on the same day. We are enjoying skimming through it together, recognizing the call to manhood (western-style) in the pages. He’s currently preoccupied with snaring, skinning and eating rabbits from our back yard, getting up early to try and bag one!


5. lisa4given
June 19, 2007
11:02 AM

This book complements the book “Backyard Ballistics” by William Gurstelle… as far as doing activities with boys that are fun.


6. Justin
June 19, 2007
11:39 AM

I was reading my friends copy of this book the other day, and I must say I was impressed. As a seventeen year old who already has above average experience in “Dangerous Boyish Skills,” I still found the book immensely interesting. I’m about to purchase a copy for my young cousin.

(If nothing else the book was worth it for the paper airplanes alone.)


7. Randy
June 19, 2007
11:54 AM

We bought this book for my 9-year-old son who does not like to read. In the 45-minute ride home, he read about 18 pages and made several paper airplanes. I am impressed with any book that can get my son to read, but especially this one.


8. Natasha
June 19, 2007
12:08 PM

Hey Tim,

I’d have to take you up on one of your comments in this article. I know many (and am one of) the girls that would have loved to have this book when I was a kid. (Actually, if I were going to get another (I already have a collection of survival/handy books & such) I might even get this book nowadays) Adventure is not only appealing to the male sex. Contrary to popular stereotype, most girls (at least before puberty hits) are not just obsessed with playing house. Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh, but I tend to get peeved when these kind of assumptions are made. : )


9. Melanie
June 19, 2007
12:52 PM

I bought this book for my husband this past Father’s Day - he loved it and plans to get a copy for his Dad. Our four year old son was also quite taken with the book’s pictures and immediately wanted to make the paper planes.
I agree with the commenter above, there is much in the book that will appeal to many girls (those we once called “tomboys”) - BUT I am glad the book is targeted at boys and named as such - there is far too little out there affirming good, fun masculine ways.


10. Brian @ voiceofthesheep
June 19, 2007
1:03 PM

Sounds like it’s worth the time and money.

Some places may find rabbits few and far between…hopefully people won’t begin to notice their cats gone missing!


11. carissa
June 19, 2007
1:39 PM

natasha,
i’ve got to agree with you. in a family of all girls, somebody has to break the girly mold if you ever want to see the ‘dangerous’ side of childhood, and (sometimes at least) the somebody was me.

on the other hand, just about every little boy i can think of would be interested in at least some parts of this book. meanwhile, i can think of lots of girls who wouldn’t be interested in one single page, or at least who would be much more selective about which pages were of interest (even the more ‘adventurous’ girls).

boys and girls are different. but girls can still be pirates and (if they want, i guess) skin rabbits. poor rabbits.


12. Sewing
June 19, 2007
2:22 PM

Al Mohler, of all people, wrote up a review of the book on his blog (link). It looks interesting. I’m too young to remember “Boys’ adventure comics” or that sort of thing, although I read every Tintin book at least once through, plus most of the Asterix & Obelix comics as well, and remember them all fondly.


13. Suzanne Calhoun
June 19, 2007
3:00 PM

“Most girls will find little to enjoy and very little to inspire them”
This book sounds wonderful but don’t discount it’s appeal to girls. I teach outdoor education to children. The appeal of nature is almost universal, even now. In many groups there is the boy who is uneasy holding a tadpole and the girl expert at catching snakes. Both genders, find it necessary to test themselves against the stinging nettle plant in about the same proportions. Rigid gender stereotypes are dangerous to both boys and girls. Both genders must be encouraged to show curiosity, embrace risk, enjoy adventure and lead. Gender matters but not in the narrow way you think it does.


14. Anna
June 19, 2007
6:13 PM

I work in a daycare during my summers off from college. It’s so hard for me to see the school-aged boys who are there for the summer being cooped up in a classroom all summer long, where they aren’t allowed to run, yell, or do anything remotely masculine (just kidding about that last part). Of course, boys need to learn how to be respectful, quiet, attentive, and obedient. But they also need their fair share of time to be BOYS. I wish I could distribute this book to all of them and let them play outside all summer!


15. Vaughan Smith
June 19, 2007
7:05 PM

Looks great. I want a copy for myself. My wife comments on how my spare time is often spent on boyish pursuits, so this should make her very happy ;)


16. Nath @ Reformed Geek
June 19, 2007
9:42 PM

Being the Reformed Geek, this book sounds like something I wish I had read when I was a kid. :) Glad to know there are other Dad’s out there that are reading this book, and that it’s not just a good book for ‘boys’.

I’ll be informing my wife that she might like to get this for me on Father’s Day (in Australia, Father’s Day is in September).

Thanks for this review Tim.


17. Gary
June 20, 2007
12:49 PM

A Dangerous Update:

My son bagged and skinned a rabbit last night. Tonight we cook it!

As I watched him complete the process, he told me, while quaking, that “it’s the most manly thing I’ve ever done.” I couldn’t argue, especially since I can’t bring myself to do it!


18. Gary
June 21, 2007
10:53 AM

Final Dangerous Update:

Last night my son parboiled his rabbit and I grilled it for a few minutes. After giving it a try, we concluded that it tasted like…you guessed it.

Now he’s curing the pelt.

We’re looking forward to trying another Dangerous thing in that book.


19. TulipGirl
June 25, 2007
12:36 AM

This was ordered last night for my oldest son’s upcoming birthday. I also have in my collection an actual early 1900s book of this sort called The Boy Mechanic” It’s still my book—but one day it will be for my boys.


20. lisa4given
June 25, 2007
8:14 AM

BTW… when we first got this book, my 12 and 13 year old boys couldn’t put it down. It has been a great resource for many adventures and conversations. The section on girls is hilarious.


21. aj
July 2, 2007
7:03 PM

Hi thks for the review for what is a great book,in fact an important book in my opinion..

It really is a fresh of breath air, i may be able to tear my nephew away from his playstation !!!

You may be interested to know that Conn Iggulden reached number one in both fiction and non fiction, with this book and one of his Emperor series (i think it was a first)

GB
aj


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