A Blessed Assurance
“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes…”
Dr. Criswell, long-time pastor of First Baptist Church of Dallas, was once traveling by plane to attend a speaking engagement on the East Coast. After boarding the aircraft and getting himself settled and situated, he was thrilled to recognize the man in the seat beside him as a well-known Christian theologian. Criswell greatly admired this man and was eager to get to know him. Soon the plane left the ground and after it settled into cruising altitude, Criswell introduced himself and the two began to speak.
The theologian told the pastor how he had recently lost his four-year old son to a terrible illness. It had begun innocently enough when the child was sent home from school one afternoon after developing a fever. At first the parents thought it was a typical childhood illness that would soon run its course. But the young boy’s condition continued to worsen and that evening his concerned mother and father took him to the hospital. The doctors ran a battery of tests and told the parents tragic news—their son had a virulent form of meningitis and there was nothing they could do for him. The child was beyond medical help and was going to die.
The loving parents did the only thing they could do, which was sit with their son in a death vigil. Not even a week later, in the middle of the day, the illness began to cause the little boy’s vision to fade. He looked up at his daddy and said softly,”Daddy, it’s getting dark, isn’t it?”
The professor replied, “Yes, son, it is dark. It’s very dark.” And for the father it was.
The little boy said, “I guess it’s time for me to get to sleep, isn’t it?”
“Yes son, it’s time for you to sleep,” said the father.
The theologian explained to Dr. Criswell how his son liked his pillow and his blankets arranged just so because he liked to lay his head on his hands while he slept. He told how he helped the child fix his pillow and how his boy rested his head on his hands and said, “Good night daddy. I’ll see you in the morning.” With that the little boy closed his eyes and fell asleep. Only a few minutes later his little chest rose and fell for the last time and his life was over almost before it began.
The professor stopped talking and looked out the window of the airplane for a good long while. Finally he turned to Dr. Criswell and with his voice breaking and tears spilling onto his cheeks gasped, “I can hardly wait for morning to come!”
Though it may merely sound like the cry of a grief-stricken parent, the father’s words speak of far more. They speak of a profoundly beautiful truth, for the Lord Jesus Christ, the One who cannot lie, promised us that the morning will come. Death has been defeated and even now we eagerly await the dawn when Christ will return and death shall be no more. Only through Jesus can we have the hope of eternal life that sustains the grief-stricken father. Only through Jesus can we have assurance that he “will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying.” (Revelation 21:4) Little boys will be reunited with their fathers so together they can dance for joy before the One who tasted and defeated death so others could have life.
God offers such assurance only to those who will look to Him. Do you believe in Him? Have you looked to Jesus and cried out for Him to give you life? Call out to Him today and do business with God. He will give you hope and will give you the blessed assurance that the dawn will soon break. You’ll hardly be able to wait for morning to come.
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away” (Revelation 21:1-4).




Comments (33) »
1. John Hollandsworth
October 30, 2007
10:26 AM
Tim, Thanks for posting that. It really touched me. I’ve never had to deal with anything so painful as the loss of a child, but everyone has to deal with some sort of loss, grief, or pain. We all need to be looking with expectant joy toward morning.
2. Terry Rayburn
October 30, 2007
11:41 AM
Wow.
Thanks, from the dad of a son, for the reminder, not only of the gracious end of tears and death, but the reminder of the preciousness of loved ones who are still with us.
And thanks for the memory of ‘ol Dr. Criswell. I attended his church in 1981, and still remember the power of this man’s gift to make God’s Word real.
He preached without notes, like a big lion roaring and whispering from the stage. And though he had become a bit of an aristocratic rich guy, he had a heart that caused him to weep at the lostness, and the salvation, of men.
Across the street from the church was a YMCA where the church had an evangelistic ministry to the down and out.
I mean really down and out.
And every week there were a few who had professed Christ that week, who were paraded in front of the proper congregation. The men were unshaven, dressed in dirty ragged clothes, and no doubt were mortified at being put on display in front of the suits and dresses.
Criswell showed both his aristocracy and his heart by calling these men things like, “the lowest form of humanity”, and “the dregs of society”, right in front of the chagrined men, but with his voice cracking, and real tears pouring down his face, as he praised the Savior for His work, before shuffling the men out the side door with the YMCA evangelist.
Needless to say, his tears have been wiped away.
3. Levi
October 30, 2007
11:49 AM
Gosh darnit, Tim. You made my cry in the middle of my office.
4. Josh Buice
October 30, 2007
11:56 AM
Tim,
Thanks for the great post! I have never lost a child, and I shake at the thought of it. I lost my best friend several years ago in a tragic automobile accident. I still recall the last moment we had together. I long for the morning to come so that I can see him again - one day it will come - because of the Grace of our awesome God!
For the glory of God!
Josh Buice www.deliveredbygrace.com
5. Richard Campeau
October 30, 2007
12:03 PM
Thanks, Tim
What a heartbreaking story but what a great hope we have as we await the morning.
Holding on to the Anchor,
Richard
6. Ray Miller
October 30, 2007
12:06 PM
Tim: Was this taken from a book or article and if so, can you identify the source? If so, I would like to read more.
Ray
7. Tim Challies
October 30, 2007
12:25 PM
Was this taken from a book or article and if so, can you identify the source? If so, I would like to read more.
I’m not sure, really. I’ve come across it a couple of times, but don’t know the actual source.
8. Scott Christensen
October 30, 2007
1:07 PM
This brought tears to my eyes. I recently performed a funeral for an 80 year old woman who trusted Christ about 2 years ago. Her husband of 57 years is not a believer but is unbelievably grief-striken. I am praying for the opportunity for the gospel to penetrate his life. I might think about seeing whether this piece may be of help to him. Thanks
9. Doug
October 30, 2007
1:34 PM
I think I’m worthless the rest of the day. Like any loving father, my prayer would be, “Father, take me before this little one!” A crushing story.
10. Andrew Comings
October 30, 2007
2:11 PM
Thank you so much for the touching story. Things like this put “feet” on our theology.
11. Ken Davis
October 30, 2007
2:54 PM
Tim, Thank you for the plea for people to turn to Christ and “do business with God”. A lady in our church called me today to say that her daughter, in the tropics, has dengue fever and may die, and does not know Christ.
I can’t imagine the pain of the father in Criswell’s story, and I hope that all four of my children outlive me by a long shot. But if they do not, I can say with him that I’ll see them tomorrow. How great of you to make this a Gospel story. The pain in that lady’s heart today for a daughter who is on the brink of eternity, unprepared, brings home to me today that that is what the real issue is, even beyond the length of days God grants us here. May there be many who read your brief Gospel presentation and go in the direction you led them. Wouldn’t that make all of these 1460 days worth it?
12. Renee
October 30, 2007
3:37 PM
I read this followed by the Mac-n-Cheese article on Prodigal Jon’s site. What does Joel Osteen do with grief like this? There is no health and wealth in the death of a child without knowing the entire counsel of God’s word. I am so grateful that I know,,,that my heart has been enlightened with the hope of the inheritance of the saints and is not dependent on anything I have done or not done, but on what my Lord done and did.
13. SamKnisely
October 30, 2007
9:23 PM
Thank you. Just recently my Dad was diagnosed with cancer which has brought many thoughts…
Thank God for the cross, the empty tomb, and our Savior and Hope.
14. Tara Barthel
October 30, 2007
9:54 PM
Thank you, Tim.
“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” Ps 116:15
This life truly is not our Home.
15. Kim K.
October 30, 2007
10:09 PM
Thanks for this. In a few weeks we’ll mark the 1 year anniversary of losing our son. We long for that morning to come, too.
16. Rev John Telfer Brown
October 30, 2007
11:32 PM
Tim, a wonderful post, I have linked to it at Scotwise.
Be encouraged. GBYAY
17. Joy Sworder
October 31, 2007
6:07 AM
“He calls His own sheep by name, and He leads them out.” John 10:3
18. Joy Sworder
October 31, 2007
6:08 AM
“He calls His own sheep by name, and He leads them out.” John 10:3
19. Ann
October 31, 2007
7:59 AM
Thank you for this post, I lost a newborn child, it must be even harder to lose an older child. It’s a wonderful comfort to know that the Lord has counted our tears,he knows about them and He will wipe them away.
20. donsands
October 31, 2007
8:22 AM
Man, that was heavy. We need to hear these painful things, though we don’t ever want to. And we need to always hear of our Savior, and His resurrection.
I know parents who lost a four year old son. I never saw anything more trajic. And yet our Savior is there in the midst of the heavy sorrow for all His children, whom He dearly loves.
21. Terri Grabb
October 31, 2007
10:03 AM
Thank you for that beautiful blog. My husband and I lost our 23 month old son after a long and painful battle with a congenital heart defect. We watched him undergo heart sugery after heart surgery. We watched him wither in pain and cry out from suffering. We watched as the disease ravaged his body.
Then we held him, told him the truth of what was to come. We were able to whisper in his ear as he breathed his last breaths the story of the gospel. We were able to sing “Forever” as he took his last breath while in my arms. It is only by God’s grace we can survive the grief of losing our son. It is because of the hope and truth of what our savior has done for us that we eagerly await “The Morning”.
Standing Firm Under the Cross Terri and Travis Grabb
22. RJones
October 31, 2007
10:24 AM
Thanks for the post Tim. We buried my grandfather yesterday who such a Godly man and influence on the entire family. It is really so amazing to see how the grace of God sustains us in a time of loss because of His promises! While we mourn our loss we rejoice in the fact that grandpa is with his Savior and that I will see him again one day! As the hymn writer said “What a Day that will Be”.
23. Steve Lamm
October 31, 2007
11:31 AM
Tim,
This story reminds me of the great importance of preaching sound doctrine to my congregation. It helps prepare them for the painful trials which will inevitably come (and have come) into the lives of many of them. Only the sound and systematic preaching of God’s Word builds within them a strong foundation which will sustain them in the storm.
Thanks, Steve Lamm
24. Rob Singleton
October 31, 2007
12:02 PM
As a pastor of a large young church I have been stunned this year by the death of 4 young fathers — all for different causes and at different times. It’s been tough, but remembering what awaits us makes it not only possible to endure, but also a joyful anticipation of the reunion that awaits all those who have found new life in Christ Jesus!
25. jack
October 31, 2007
12:24 PM
Mercy. I just broke down crying while reading this precious article. My dear grandson just turned 4 this month. My daughter and son-in-law do not know the Lord.
I will be praying for the right time to either email this or give it to them on paper. May the Lord be pleased to touch their hearts with His grace.
Thank you for sharing.
26. beth
November 1, 2007
12:37 AM
thankyou
27. Rob Singleton
November 1, 2007
9:57 AM
I commented the other day about what we have gone through in terms of losing young fathers within our congregation this year, but I left out the one silver lining. At 2 of the funerals almost 100 people gave their lives to Christ! That is the one good thing that has come of all of this. Actually, there is more than that, my young son has become best friends with the four boys from one of the families.
Here are the posts I wrote after each memorial service. Check them out and give God the glory!
http://www.robsingleton.net/2007/08/15/the-silver-lining-turns-to-gold/
http://www.robsingleton.net/2007/08/23/finding-great-joy-in-the-midst-of-tremendous-pain/
28. Rob Singleton
November 1, 2007
9:59 AM
I commented the other day about what we have gone through in terms of losing young fathers within our congregation this year, but I left out the one silver lining. At 2 of the funerals almost 100 people gave their lives to Christ! That is the one good thing that has come of all of this. Actually, there is more than that, my young son has become best friends with the four boys from one of the families.
Here are the posts I wrote after each memorial service. Check them out and give God the glory!
I’ll put the other link in another post so the anti spam filter doesn’t get it :)
29. Rob Singleton
November 1, 2007
10:00 AM
Here is the other link…
2, 2. http://www.robsingleton.net/2007/08/23/finding-great-joy-in-the-midst-of-tremendous-pain/
30. Rob Singleton
November 1, 2007
10:04 AM
Oops, hey, you’re pretty fast!
31. threegirldad
November 1, 2007
5:01 PM
Thank you for this post. My first daughter died many years ago at the same age after complications from surgery. Our pastor ended her funeral service by reading Rev 21:1-4. It has always been a tremendous comfort and encouragement to remember the promise of that passage.
32. DLE
November 2, 2007
8:28 AM
Tim,
Very touching story and well-written.
33. Drew
November 13, 2007
12:01 PM
Hey Tim, I just wanted you to know that after reading your post I decided to preach on Revelation 21:1-4 this past Sunday. Our congregation has lost a lot of loved ones this year and it ended up being a precious time of being comforted by God’s word. I just wanted to say thanks for turning me on to this passage.