Last week I received a moving email from a reader of this site. She revealed that she has wrestled with the issue of doubt and assurance and often wonders if she is truly saved. “I have prayed the salvation prayer numerous times because I thought that maybe I was not saved. I just prayed today and I know that I am saved. I know that Jesus saves. I know that all doubt has been removed.” And yet she knows that this assurance may be short lived. “Now I am worried. Exactly how do I know whether I am saved or whether I am lost. I prayed to receive Jesus. I have backslidden and I do not know if now if I have accepted Jesus by backsliding or by faith. How do I know? I do not know for sure. Would someone unsaved have those doubts?”
I’d like to address this issue today and tomorrow, though it is something I have written about in the past. I will mostly summarize what I’ve written in five or six previous articles. First, though, I’d encourage this reader and anyone else who struggles with this subject to turn to the local church. This is exactly the kind of issue that should be part of a conversation with a pastor or elder. It is in the local church that this issue can best be addressed. Still, there are some principles I’d like to share today that may prove helpful.
I’d like to begin with three important affirmations regarding assurance.
First, it is possible and even normal for the Christian to experience assurance of salvation. Based on his studies of the Bible, John MacArthur calls assurance of salvation “the birthright and privilege of every true believer in Christ.” This assurance is not only possible but should be the normal experience for any believer in Christ. Romans 8:16 teaches that assurance of salvation is part of the ministry of the Holy Spirit. “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God…” 2 Peter 1:10 goes so far as to command us to pursue this assurance. “Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to make your calling and election sure, for if you practice these qualities you will never fall.”
Yet even more clear than these verses is 1 John 5:13. As John closes this epistle he reveals his purpose in writing it. “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God that you may know that you have eternal life.” God has seen fit to provide us an entire book in the Bible that will teach us to know that we have eternal life. Surely, then, we can agree that God intends that we have assurance that we are His children.
Having seen that it is both possible and normal for the Christian to experience assurance of salvation, we now turn to a point which seems nearly contradictory.
Second, it is possible and even normal for the non-Christian to experience a false assurance of salvation. A foreshadowing of one of the most terrifying scenes the world will ever experience unfolds in Matthew 7, in a section often titled “I Never Knew You.” “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’” When the final judgment comes, there will be many who will be shocked to learn that they are not true believers. They will go to the grave confident that they are saved, but come to the judgment and find that they are to be cast out of Jesus’ presence. This ought to be sobering for all who consider themselves Christians. No wonder that Paul sought confidence in his salvation, declaring in 2 Timothy 1:12 “I know whom I have believed, and I am convinced that he is able to guard until that Day what has been entrusted to me.” Clearly assurance of salvation is a very important issue.
We’ll now turn to our third affirmation, which should provide great comfort to those who struggle in this area.
Third, it is possible and even normal for Christians to have doubts about their salvation. There is nothing unusual about occasionally doubting one’s salvation. The only thing unusual about doubt would be to experience it and not deal with it, wrestling with it, until it has been quelled by the power of the Spirit. A survey of many of the great believers of our day or of days past would prove that it is common to deal with some level of doubt. This is usually not a consuming doubt that drives a person to constant depression and despair, but a more occasional doubt that can be overcome by the ministry of the Spirit. So some level of doubt is normal, but overwhelming, consistent doubt is not typical.
Don Whitney has listed several important understandings about this type of “normal” doubt. First, doubting assurance is not the same as experiencing unbelief. A person can have a strong, vibrant faith in Jesus Christ while still feeling some level of doubt. We must not make doubt and unbelief synonymous terms, lest a person feel that his brief periods of doubt indicate serious unbelief in his heart. Unbelief presupposes a denial of many important points of doctrine where as doubt is mere uncertainty about them. Second, there are many causes of doubt. We can doubt because of the attacks of Satan, because of trials or difficult circumstances, because of sin in our lives or even a mental or physical condition. Doubt is not necessarily brought about by overwhelming sin in our lives. Third, spiritual immaturity may contribute to doubt. With greater maturity comes a greater understanding of God and our position before Him through Jesus’ atoning death. Thus we would generally expect doubts to decrease as a person grows in spiritual maturity. Fourth, sensitivity to sin may cause confusion about assurance. Believers, through their reborn hearts, are blessed with a greater sensitivity to sin. This heightened understanding of the gravity of sin may lead young Christians to doubt. Yet it should be noted that this increased understanding of sin is actually a mark of the Spirit’s work with a person’s heart. Fifth, comparisons with other believers may cloud assurance. Comparing oneself to other believers may emphasize the immaturity of a person’s faith. We must understand that people mature only with great effort and over a great amount of time. It is often unrealistic to compare oneself with a believer who is far more mature. Finally, childhood conversion may affect assurance. A person who was converted as a child may feel that he was deceived when he made the decision. He may feel that his decision is somehow less meaningful because Christianity is all he has ever known.
We see, then, that there are many possible reasons that may lead Christians to lose their assurance of salvation. Some of these are internal factors and some are external. Some of them may, in fact, be given by God Himself to test and sharpen us. So the believer can have confidence that some doubt is common to the Christian life and that, while doubt is a symptom of living in a sinful world, it is not necessarily sinful to struggle with it.
By way of brief review, we have seen that assurance of salvation is possible for the believer, that false assurance of salvation is possible for the unbeliever and that it is normal for Christians, from time to time, to experience doubt about salvation. I’ll wrap this up tomorrow with an examination of the true basis of assurance.






Comments (20) »
1. Esau
March 20, 2007
10:10 AM
Everything you write is spot on. I do think that an improper or imperfect apprehension of the doctrines of grace can also feed, if not lead, to doubt.
When salvation is something I can seize for myself, it’s also something I can lose for myself. When I do good, I must be saved. When I ‘backslide’ or sin, I must not be saved.
A real remedy is to lift one’s gaze to Christ and realize that his work is an efficacious one. It helped me to realize that no matter what I do or don’t do or think or say or whatever, Jesus’ atoning death on the cross propitiated God’s wrath once and for all. We need to avoid the idea that Salvation is by grace but sanctification is by works. If somehow we would please God, we must work very hard to do so in our sanctification and, if we slip, we imperil even our salvation. Of course, this is with an eye on Scriptures such as James 2 that lay out clearly that fruitful works are evidences of the Spirit’s work in our lives.
Jerry Bridges deals with this well in his book, Transforming Grace. It deals with how we tend to base our relationship with God on performance and not grace. Once we get a real grip on this, it helps in the doubt struggle. (Or, at least, it helped me…) It’s a far cry from knowing we sin and offend our God but have remediation through Christ to knowing we sin and feeling that is possible proof we are not saved to begin with.
2. David Pearson
March 20, 2007
10:22 AM
I would highly recommend the book “Heaven on Earth” by Thomas Brooks.
http://www.monergismbooks.com/heavearth3565.html
I have also struggled with this issue and found this book to be most helpful and rich.
3. Charles Churchill
March 20, 2007
10:31 AM
The thing that I always found interesting about those who stand before God and say “Lord, Lord” is that there claims to salvation lay specifically through works (prophecy, demons, mighty works). They are not standing there claiming to be washed in the blood of Jesus Christ and saved by the precious grace of God, and I think that’s significant.
Thanks for the article. I look forward to tomorrow.
Charles
4. Alex
March 20, 2007
12:28 PM
Thanks for the post Tim……… I liked Sproul’s comment during the first session of his conference. If you have any affections for Christ then he would say you are a believer, because you could not have put those affections there yourself, that is only a work of the Holy spirit. If you do have affections for Christ, then that’s an amazing gift and assurance of your faith. If you don’t then I would encourage you to pray to a God who is merciful and let others know so that they may pray with/for you as well.
5. Scott Moonen
March 20, 2007
1:01 PM
I struggled with assurance growing up. God has given me great assurance in recent years, and I now think that my early lack of assurance had a lot to do with a slightly skewed misunderstanding of the gospel and conversion. I’ve written about this a little on my blog: “Christ our assurance”.
6. Michelle
March 20, 2007
1:10 PM
This is thoughtful and thought-provoking piece. I would like to mention, though, that spiritual maturity might lead to greater doubt before it leads to greater faith, depending on how we came to faith in the first place.
Did the reader in question say what exactly she meant by the “salvation prayer”? If a person has been told that the way to get saved is to “ask Jesus into your heart” (I’m thinking of this article) then a lack of assurance would be completely reasonable, because there can be a lack of understanding of redemption. As our understanding of God grows, there can be doubts while we come to terms with our prior misconceptions.
7. Kelly
March 20, 2007
1:41 PM
Doubt can also be a good thing. Last year I struggled heavily with doubt. It consumed everything I did. What it actually was, was God calling me to Himself. I said a prayer at 18 and did nothing else with it. I was truly not saved, even though for a very long time I thought I was. The doubt caused me to think deeper and deeper until a sermon was preached on Romans 3 vs. 21-26, and it literally opened my eyes. That was the turning point of my doubt into assurance.
8. janelle
March 20, 2007
1:41 PM
Funny you should mention people of old who struggled…Martin Luther struggled with this, too, even after he started his ministry! But as you read on later into his life, you see the power of the Spirit to bring assurance to him. If Luther can struggle with it, I think normal everyday Christians can struggle with it!
9. Chris Taylor
March 20, 2007
1:43 PM
I’ll pass along something I heard another pastor recommend to those who came to him doubting their salvation. His simply advised them to go and read I John for 30 days in a row. At the end of the 30 days they were to return to him and discuss their assurance or lack thereof.
Peace.
10. donsands
March 20, 2007
2:44 PM
“Second, it is possible and even normal for the non-Christian to experience a false assurance of salvation.”
That’s scary isn’t it? But it’s the truth.
I have spoke with many who struggle as this reader does.
I have seen some become more assured, but it only comes from commitment to a church, so that you can read, study, and gain understanding of the deep doctrines of the Scriptures.
Two books that I have read that have helped me with my own assurance are Holiness, by JC Ryle, and Assured by God, with many authors.
This is an essential subject for us all, no matter how mature we are, we all need to hear good thoughts on this subject.
Thanks for this post.
11. Mike
March 20, 2007
2:46 PM
When I struggled with this, I read a review somewhere that Religious Affections by Jonathan Edwards will make it clear as to whether or not you are saved. So I bought the book and worked my way through it. Sure enough, JE laid the matter to rest and haven’t struggled with this since (I read it 3.5 yrs ago). It was a very enlightening book.
When I struggled, I often heard, “pray the prayer and mean it with all your heart and you will be saved” and by grace I struggled, as I realized that I cannot get my heart to be completely honest. So much for self-salvation.
But anyways, I reconmend the book to all.
-Mike
12. John K
March 20, 2007
3:56 PM
From the article linked to by Michelle:
Salvation is not a work of man for God, but a work of God for man, which one must choose to receive.
The article had a lot of good to say, but I must disagree with this. I don’t believe man can actually “choose” to believe. Faith is given by God, even when we least expect it and it is not a matter of our actively or consciously “receiving” it, but thanking Him for giving it. We do not “choose” to receive the Holy Spirit, and once we have received Him, He is with us forever.
Take Care
13. Larry
March 20, 2007
4:01 PM
I certainly agree with Tim that the local church ought to be the place where a person with these struggles can go for help. But isn’t it sad that so many churches and so many pastors give wrong and potentially destructive answers to those who are asking this important question?
I have dealt with people in ministry whose lives reflect that they ought to have doubt about their salvation, but who have had it so beaten into their minds that ‘they prayed the prayer, and should never question that they might not be saved’ that they seem to be unable to actually think seriously about verses like Matthew 7:21-23.
May God raise up pastors and churches who will give questioning people solid, biblical answers, rather than lead people down the broad road to destruction in the name of ‘pastoral care’.
Larry
14. Armen
March 20, 2007
8:58 PM
Good post Tim.
I think Spurgeon once said, he doubted the man that had never dfoubted.
15. Andrew Moody
March 20, 2007
10:21 PM
Thanks Tim,
I think the Puritans referred to false assurance as “false peace.” I’ve met countless people in the Bible belt who profess Christ, but want nothing to do with His body, the church. They prayed a prayer and walked the aisle a decade or two ago, but have never darkened the door of a church sense.
The Westminster Confession of Faith Chapter 18 “Of the Assurance of Grace and Salvation” says:
1. Although hypocrites and other unregenerate men may vainly deceive themselves with false hopes and carnal presumptions of being in the favor of God, and estate of salvation (which hope of theirs shall perish): yet such as truly believe in the Lord Jesus, and love him in sincerity, endeavoring to walk in all good conscience before him, may, in this life, be certainly assured that they are in the state of grace, and may rejoice in the hope of the glory of God, which hope shall never make them ashamed.
2. This certainty is not a bare conjectural and probable persuasion grounded upon a fallible hope; but an infallible assurance of faith founded upon the divine truth of the promises of salvation, the inward evidence of those graces unto which these promises are made, the testimony of the Spirit of adoption witnessing with our spirits that we are the children of God, which Spirit is the earnest of our inheritance, whereby we are sealed to the day of redemption.
3. This infallible assurance doth not so belong to the essence of faith, but that a true believer may wait long, and conflict with many difficulties before he be partaker of it: yet, being enabled by the Spirit to know the things which are freely given him of God, he may, without extraordinary revelation, in the right use of ordinary means, attain thereunto. And therefore it is the duty of everyone to give all diligence to make his calling and election sure, that thereby his heart may be enlarged in peace and joy in the Holy Ghost, in love and thankfulness to God, and in strength and cheerfulness in the duties of obedience, the proper fruits of this assurance; so far is it from inclining men to looseness.
4. True believers may have the assurance of their salvation divers ways shaken, diminished, and intermitted; as, by negligence in preserving of it, by falling into some special sin which woundeth the conscience and grieveth the Spirit; by some sudden or vehement temptation, by God’s withdrawing the light of his countenance, and suffering even such as fear him to walk in darkness and to have no light: yet are they never utterly destitute of that seed of God, and life of faith, that love of Christ and the brethren, that sincerity of heart, and conscience of duty, out of which, by the operation of the Spirit, this assurance may, in due time, be revived; and by the which, in the meantime, they are supported from utter despair.
http://opc.org/wcf.html
http://opc.org/documents/CFLayout.pdf (with Scripture proofs)
Sorry for the length, but I think it’s worth the read!
Grace and Peace,
Andrew
16. francisco
March 21, 2007
12:04 AM
Good post Tim.
I’ve found ‘preaching the gospel to myself every day’ to be a very helpful discipline. I am thankful to God for the ministry of men like C. J. Mahaney in “Living the Cross-centered life” (a must read). Also I’ve found a lot of food for thought in John Piper’s “What Jesus demands from the world” (a majestic book!).
In conclusion I believe God grow us through Christ-centered preaching to humbly rejoice in the gospel so that by treasuring Jesus above all we may have solid assurance!
Btw, I began reading Edwards’ Religious Affections very recently. If you can’t buy it, read it online, beginning here:
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/edwards/works1.vii.html
17. Charley
March 21, 2007
12:34 AM
God has placed this issue in front of me many, many times in the past three weeks. Is He trying to tell me something??? Here are three suggestions for addressing the issue:
The first is a sermon by Paul Washer, a Southern Baptist missionary and pastor. It is powerful…but beware…he pulls no punches! It can be found here.
The second is an article by John Piper on helping people have an assurance of salvation. It can be accessed here.
The third is John MacArthur’s book, “The Gospel According to the Apostles.” Although it’s primary emphasis isn’t on assurance of salvation, there are parts that pertain to the issue.
Charley
Get Serious Blog
HomeDisciplingDad Blog
18. Charley
March 21, 2007
12:41 AM
Oops… here’s one more resource I forgot to include in my previous response…an article from Steve Camp:
It can be accessed here.
Oh…and I think whoever suggested reading through 1 John every day for 30 days is a wonderful way to work through the assurance issue. Saying the “Sinner’s Prayer” doesn’t save anyone. It’s the repentance and belief (trust). We are commanded to examine ourselves…something most of us don’t do nearly enough…and 1 John is a marvelous way to do just that.
Charley
19. Jack
March 21, 2007
7:03 AM
I recomened the ‘Good Person Test” www.wayofthemaster.com
20. Wonkyhead
March 21, 2007
10:17 AM
VERY interesting topic! I have always wondered why a particular individual would have any interest at all in Jesus Christ or the things of God if the Holy Spirit had not placed those desires in his/her heart to begin with; after all, the heart of man is desperately wicked and the Scriptures say that no one seeks after God but for the Spirit’s intervention.
Andrew:
I think there can be many reasons why people shun the Body of Christ by not attending church or fellowshipping with other believers. I know folks who have been hurt very badly by careless shepherds and/or toxic teaching. One of my closest friends is stll trying to recover from such an experience, and she is seriously gun-shy. I went through a period of time back in the 90’s when I was not particularly interested in attending church myself; I had had enough of people with flip, pat responses to the very real, very devasting circumstances I had been in for several years, and I simply didn’t want to hear another well-meaning but completely ignorant person say to me “Well if you had more faith…” I was a Christian and I was, frankly, very put off the by the Church.
I also felt overwhelmed by the proliferation of
Jesus(es) out there - so many of them! So I asked God for truth and an end to the confusion - I wanted to know the the real Jesus, the Jesus of the Gospels, the Jesus who died, rose and ascended to the right hand of the Father - NOT the North American Jesus preached in many churches who is, at best, an anemic version of the real deal.
I am happy to repoort that I am over my argument with church attendance and became part of a church plant several years ago (unfortunately it didn’t last, so my husband and I now attend a Sovereign Grace church and we like it very much).
That said, I also know the pews to be full of people have no relationship with God through Christ, so church attendance, either way, doesn’t tell the whole story.
I think I read somewhere that over 80% of Americans identify themselves as Christians. If that were true, of course, revival would be spreading across the globe like wildfire and obviously it isn’t.
Perhaps Jesus is talking to people who believe that “religion” is a duty one does in order to be a “good” person? Perhaps he is talking to people who are culturally Christian or Christian in a passive sense (they aren’t Buddhists, Muslims, etc.)? How about people for whom religion is simply a career choice?