Last week Paul (who, for those who haven’t made the connection, happens to be my pastor) wrote about an article in the Canadian media which stated that “The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada will recommend next month that all expectant mothers undergo screening for fetal abnormalities such as Down’s syndrome — not just those over the age of 35, as is the practice.”
Dr. Andre Lalonde, a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Ottawa and the executive vice president of the SOGC, said the society decided to issue the recommendation so that a greater number of women would have the option to terminate their pregnancies should fetal abnormalities be detected.“Yes, it’s going to lead to more termination, but it’s going to be fair to these women who are 24 who say, ‘How come I have to raise an infant with Down’s syndrome, whereas my cousin who was 35 didn’t have to?’” Dr. Lalonde said. “We have to be fair to give women a choice.”
“The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada will recommend that all expectant women younger than 40 be given nuchal translucency screening, followed by genetic counselling and amniocentesis if their risk for Down’s syndrome appears high.” Based on this article, Paul wrote:
I reject this proposal from personal experience. Although we rejected amniocentesis as an option in our son’s pregnancy (for the simple reason it might have killed him), we were given indicators through non-invasive testing that there might be a genetic problem. Readers of my blog will know that my son was born with a genetic defect labelled Williams Syndrome - a full-orbed physical and mental disability.Is my son an accident? A faltering of the progressive cycle of evolution? A drain on society and its money? A thing not as valuable as a fully-functioning “normal” person?
My son is my flesh and blood and his worth is bound up in the fact he was made in the image and likeness of God, knit together in his mother’s womb and held together by the grace and power of Jesus Christ right now. If he never moved a muscle, never spoke a word, never made my life happier at any point, he would be no less valuable to the One who made Him. And no less valuable to me.
One does not have to be at our church for long, or to be with Paul and his family for long, to see how much joy this little boy brings to his parents, his sisters, and his church family. He is greatly valued and treasured because he is a treasure of great value. But in a sense this is really irrelevant, for the value of life is in the fact that it comes from God and is not affected by our desires, whims or preferences. Paul and his wife had no right to interfere with that life (and thankfully had no desire to interfere with it).
The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada recommends genetic counseling to those whose tests turn up anomalies or abnormalities. This counseling will, of course, address the issues that will be faced in raising a child with Down’s syndrome or another similar condition. It will raise abortion as the preferred course of action. In an article he published in response to discussion over the first article, Paul described his experience with genetic counseling:
When my wife was pregnant with our son, we were advised to seek “genetic counseling” due to some statistical abnormalities that appeared during routine blood work. We made an appointment at the Credit Valley Hospital and met with a genetic counselor.We were told that there was a small percentage that our son would be born with Down Syndrome and advised to have an amniocentesis. The counselor spoke in hushed tones with a very serious look on her face then left us to watch a video.
The video showed two boys of equal age playing in a living room. One of the boys was cute and active and bright. The other was drooling on himself, with a disfigured face, frumpy clothes and awkward small motor skills.
The video asked us: Is this what you want?
The question, of course, is irrelevant. We do not get to decide if this is what we want. God gives life and we are to accept it as the treasure it is.
It has struck me recently that the issue of abortion has evolved from “Is this what you want?” (a matter of personal inconvenience) to “Is this what you want for your family?” (a matter of wider inconvenience) to “How can you do this to us?” (a matter of societal inconvenience). Those who learn that their child may be born with Down’s syndrome or another condition will feel pressure to abort this child for the good of society. They will be told, even if only tacitly, that to bring a disabled child into the world is unfair to everyone in society. It is, after all, my tax dollars that will need to support this child through special education and special vocation, and my children whose tax dollars will pay for his retirement. Paul felt this pressure, for he writes “Parents are placed under enormous pressure when they walk in to medical establishments that pop off lots of statistics, show propaganda and use the power of suggestion. In our situation, I can identify all three of those things.”
On the weekend I decided to put my copy of the Outdoor Bible to the test in a variety of situations. I placed Matthew and Mark in the freezer, put Luke out in the snow, let my daughter chew on Acts, and stuck John to the wall of the shower. I happened to read the ninth chapter of John while it was hanging there (tricky business, this concurrent showering and reading) and came across the story of Jesus healing a man who had been blind since birth. I was so grateful that God sovereignly arranged things so that I might encounter this passage. You know the story. The disciples asked Jesus “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” Jesus replied simply “It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him.” Those words, “that the works of God might be displayed in him” took me right back to Paul’s article and to the deeper issue of aborting any children who are deemed abnormal. Not many parents today would wrestle with the issue of who sinned that a child was born blind. Neither would they wrestle with whether this child should even be born. Blindness would be sufficient cause for many parents, and perhaps even most parents, to abort the child and try again, hoping for a better result the next time. And yet this particular blind man was to serve a purpose that had been sovereignly ordained.
F.F. Bruce makes an important point about this story: “This does not mean that God deliberately caused the child to be born blind in order that, after many years, his glory should be displayed in the removal of the blindness; to think so would again be an aspersion on the character of God. It does mean that God overruled the disaster of the child’s blindness so that, when the child grew to manhood, he might, by recovering his sight, see the glory of God in the face of Christ, and others, seeing this work of God, might turn to the true Light of the World.” John MacArthur summarizes “God sovereignly chose to use this man’s affliction for His own glory.”
I love Matthew Henry’s treatment of this passage. He draws out two applications for the fact that this man was born blind so that the works of God might be displayed in him. The first is that “the attributes of God might be made manifest in him.” Among the attributes of God seen in the life of this man are God’s justice in making sinful man liable to such grievous calamities and His ordinary power and goodness in supporting a poor man under such a grievous and tedious affliction. God’s goodness was specially and miraculously manifested in curing him. The second application is “that the counsels of God concerning the Redeemer might be manifested in him. He was born blind that our Lord Jesus might have the honour of curing him, and might therein prove himself sent of God to be the true light to the world. Thus the fall of man was permitted, and the blindness that followed it, that the works of God might be manifest in opening the eyes of the blind. It was now a great while since this man was born blind, and yet it never appeared till now why he was so.” This man had been born blind so that the power of God might be displayed in him.
Henry draws a final application: “the intentions of Providence commonly do not appear till a great while after the event, perhaps many years after. The sentences in the book of providence are sometimes long, and you must read a great way before you can apprehend the sense of them.” Those who abort their children do not read to the end of those long sentences. Rather, thinking selfishly and looking only a few words ahead, they make the terrible decision to end a life, destroying the gift of God. Henry also writes “Those who regard [God] not in the ordinary course of things are sometimes alarmed by things extraordinary. How contentedly then may a good man be a loser in his comforts, while he is sure that thereby God will be one way or other a gainer in his glory!” (You may, as I did, have to read that last sentence a few times to gain the sense of it.) Those who choose abortion are unwilling to lose their comforts that God may gain His glory. This glory may not be miraculous as it was in the case of the man born blind, but God is glorified in every life that enters this world. Every one of us testifies to the Creator’s wisdom, power, love and goodness. Countless millions have been destroyed and tossed away and we have never been able to rejoice in the gift of life God gave them. We have not been able to marvel in the attributes of God displayed so clearly in their lives.
When we abort those who are infirm, physically or mentally, we destroy boys and girls, men and women, in whom we ought to see the works of God displayed. We miss out on marvelous opportunities to see the works of God displayed in their lives. We miss opportunities to see God’s glory increase, even if this involves a requisite decrease in our comfort. This ought to be a small price to pay.




Comments (21) »
1. Bill
January 16, 2007
11:21 AM
Good insight, Tim. My daughter ( 5 months pregnant) was told a few weeks ago her baby has Potters syndrome, a case where the baby has no blatter or kidneys. Most likely the bably will be still born or die within hours after birth.
To her credit she decided not to abort which was the “preferred method” but rather carry the baby full term. She told me that this could be an opportunity for God to work a miracle for His glory.
Please pray that He does.
2. Mason
January 16, 2007
11:29 AM
Bill - Thanks for sharing that with us. That is a tremendously encouraging.
3. Dana
January 16, 2007
12:10 PM
Yes, Tim, thanks for this excellent posting. My 20 year old daughter also has a major disability, and she has brought great joy to us, deepened our faith, and pointed us to Christ countless times. But let your readers take one more step: go to www.joniandfriends.org and spend some time on that website. Joni Eareckson Tada is a remarkable, gifted woman and a hero to every family with a disabled member. Learn about the wonderful ministries that local churches carry out to people with disabilities. Make sure your churches are not “ignoring the forgotten” but rather reaching out to them and bringing them in. How many Christian families will be tempted by “therapeutic” abortion when this difficult news comes because they have never heard or seen anything about this in their local church? Pastors, like Tim’s pastor, Paul, write about it, preach about it, and mobilize your people to build a strong ministry to those with special needs.
4. John K
January 16, 2007
12:33 PM
This got me to thinking about the Hippocratic oath that doctors take upon graduating and entering their field. Granted it is an ancient even originally a pagan, oath, but it is interesting to see the changes to it reflecting current values. There is a link here detaining some of the changes.
Quote: ”According to a 1993* survey of 150 U.S. and Canadian medical schools, for example, only 14 percent of modern oaths prohibit euthanasia, 11 percent hold convenant with a deity, 8 percent foreswear abortion, and a mere 3 percent forbid sexual contact with patients—all maxims held sacred in the classical version.”
I don’t suppose more comment is necessary. It pretty much speaks for itself.
Take Care
5. Jeri
January 16, 2007
2:31 PM
Tim, very good article and great title along with the excerpt from Matthew Henry.
Bill, prayer going up for you and your family.
6. Rob Karch
January 16, 2007
2:33 PM
We live in Canada and we have a 7-month old daughter who had an abnormality throughout my wife’s entire pregnancy. Today, Constance is completely healthy (If we would have followed the advice to have an abortion, which we made very clear from the start we were opposed to, we would have aborted a perfectly healthy baby). But that is not the point. Throughout the pregnancy, my wife and I were reminded by God again and again that children are a gift from Him, period. Sure it was an emotional time for us as a couple, but I’ll tell you what, our faith was strengthened and God was radically glorified, and many who do not know Christ were wide open to talk about Him and His amazing grace as a result.
Great post. Thank you for bringing this VERY important issue to the forefront.
7. Stuart
January 16, 2007
5:38 PM
Maybe I am slow, but I am a little fuzzy on the differences between how you see God working in the blind man and, say, a more arminian position.
In the article the pt. is made that we should not assume that God caused the man to be born blind. Very well, but then how does this differ from the belief that the man was born blind outside of God’s will, but then God stepped in and performed the miracle.
I am not sure if I am making my questions clear. I often hear talk of sovereignty and God ordaining events. The take on these disabled unborn children and the blind man does not seem to speak of God ordaining anything, rather that it happens and he simply ensures that he is glorified anyway…how is your position different from the Arminian one?
This is a genuine question and not meant to anger or poke fun. I really do seek your wisdom on this matter.
In Him
8. carissa
January 16, 2007
5:58 PM
thanks for this post; i was really encouraged by it. i love matthew henry’s beautiful application: “the sentences in the book of providence are sometimes long”… how true, in so many circumstances of our lives. if/when i have children someday this is the sort of attitude i’d like to keep close to my heart.
9. Brian @ voiceofthesheep
January 16, 2007
6:08 PM
When Pam was pregnant with Joshua (our 2nd) back in ‘97, the pregnancy was red flagged for possible genetic disorders. We went through all the fretting and genetic counseling where they give you all the probabilities of what the baby may have wrong so that you can make an informed decision regarding what to do.
All it did was cause a lot of worry over nothing, as Joshua was completely healthy. Since the information wasn’t going to alter our choices in the least, we made the decision to forego the genetic testing from there on out.
The point is that we were trusting in the Providence of God to give us the children that He ordained we were to have, and no amount of testing or foresight as to their possible health or lack thereof was going to change our minds about letting the pregnancies progress all the way through.
Resting in Providence is truly freeing, and us humans can NEVER read far enough into the sentences of the book of Providence to be able to circumvent what may or may not be.
Great post, Tim.
10. deanna
January 16, 2007
7:44 PM
children with down’s syndrome have a high risk for medical abnormalities including heart and bowel conditions, conditions which may require surgery and special procedures immediately after birth. therefore the knowledge of such medical conditions for those delivering and treating the baby after birth would be beneficial- surgeons and specialist could be present at the birth and ready for any necessary treatments. therefore, an amniocentesis would not be done with the intentions of ultimately hurting (aborting) the baby but to help the baby.
11. Anne
January 16, 2007
7:47 PM
Thank you for your insightful post. I have been reading for a abou a week or so now and look forward daily to your comments.
The quote from Matthew Henry really resonated with me…that while I know the beginning of the story, God is the only one who knows the ending and I have to trust Him as sovereign to end the story in a way that brings glory to Him.
Thank you
12. Randy Hurst
January 16, 2007
11:45 PM
Tim,
Those long sentences in the book of our Lord’s Providence have to be held up against lives that are but a mist that vanishes with the lengthening of the day. Life here is short. One of my fathers last remarks was how quickly his 80+ years had past. I can identify. With a diagnosis of cancer it seems like the chrono-accelerator is pushed to the floor.
We all have imperfections in someones estimation. When consideration of giving any human the power to eliminate those they deem less desirable we open a Pandoras Box of possibility that any one of us could be the next choice.
One of my short careers was as a Vocational Rehabilitator. I helped train young adults in Human Services capacities in suburban DC. I watched as beautiful Vietnamese Boat People worked in specialized Day Cares engaging handicapped children in their charge. The boat people were outcasts and disposabe within their culture. But they found joy and gave joy by giving themselves to the care of those that ended up in their Providential path.
My cousin Diana is a Downs wonder of Love. She is a delight to be around, always making us smile. Oh, that I give my Creator as much joy.
13. lisa
January 17, 2007
1:07 AM
So many things come to mind that I would like to say here. Besides the fact that tears are flowing, I appreciate your gift for writing and getting to the heart of the matter. I use to be a pro-life speaker. I think I have shared this before, but this post made me think not only about my personal experiences with this issue, but the grueling research I did to prepare for speaking engagements. This is sadly one of those “bury your head in the sand” issues that most would prefer not to know the goings on behind the scenes. Wretched stuff that I can only compare to the horridness of Hitlers reign.
Your conclusive paragraph… All I can say is “Well said dear brother… Well said”
14. lisa
January 17, 2007
1:08 AM
So many things come to mind that I would like to say here. Besides the fact that tears are flowing, I appreciate your gift for writing and getting to the heart of the matter. I use to be a pro-life speaker. I think I have shared this before, but this post made me think not only about my personal experiences with this issue, but the grueling research I did to prepare for speaking engagements. This is sadly one of those “bury your head in the sand” issues that most would prefer not to know the goings on behind the scenes. Wretched stuff that I can only compare to the horridness of Hitlers reign.
Your conclusive paragraph… All I can say is “Well said dear brother… Well said”
15. Jerry M
January 17, 2007
7:16 AM
Excellent post, Tim. We have always passed on the amniocentesis for all the reasons you gave [abortion not an option]. It is also my understanding that the procedure can actually harm a healthy baby in the womb. I don’t know if there is any stats to back that up.
Exodus 4:11 - ‘And the Lord said to him, “who has made man’s mouth? or who makes him dumb or deaf? Or seeing or blind? Is it not I, the Lord?”
16. Mandi
January 17, 2007
7:30 AM
Tim as a Peer Counseling Supervisor at a crisis pregnancy center I truly appreciate your words here. I have a friend who recently had a son with Down’s Syndrome. They were able to diagnose him via ultrasound by looking at folds of skin. One thing that she told me really struck me in the gut. She said that 80% of women carrying a Down’s baby will miscarry. Out of the remaining 20% — 90% of them will abort. I know of people who are getting abortions because the ultrasound showed their child was missing a finger.
Deanna - I will agree that it was helpful for my friend to know of her son’s diagnosis before he was born. Unfortunately a majority of the medical professionals aren’t doing these tests to help prepare the parents or themselves. They are doing them to pressure parents to abort. About a year ago I was working with a couple whose child suffered from a condition where his bowels were forming on the outside of his body. The specialist at the children’s hospital was putting them under a tremendous amount of pressure to abort. This is a man who has dedicated himself to “saving” children…..yet this case would be difficult and instead of rising to the challenge of treating this child his solution was to kill him and everyone would be much better off. I advised her to find a new doctor immediately. Unfortunately this is all too common.
17. Jeri
January 17, 2007
10:06 AM
Stuart,
I am by far not the best qualified around here to help with your question, but I can simply say to you that the doctrine of “God’s sovereignty and ordaining events” is from the Scripture, not just talk. You can learn more about that doctrine from careful and prayerful Bible study. I’ve been very helped at www.desiringgod.org by reading and listening to John Piper’s sermons.
Jeri
18. BJ
January 17, 2007
10:11 AM
Tim-
I am a regular and always find food for thought in your posts. However, I’ can’t say that I agree with Bruce and MacArthur on the John 9 passage. I know that this is not the main point, but the plain rendering in John 9 is that somehow, this happened so that work of God might be displayed. In response to Moses’ reluctance to do what God had told him because he humbly admitted of being “slow of speech and tongue,” What was the LORD’s response? “Who gave man his mouth? Who makes him deaf or mute? Who gives him sight or makes him blind? Is it not I, the Lord? (Ex 4:11)”
Can you imagine one of the disciples telling Jesus in John 9, “Lord, are you saying that God is responsible for this man being born blind? Why, this is an aspersion on the character of God.” I would think a rebuke and a quote from Exodus 4:11 would have been in order. Contra Bruce and MacArthur, this idea of sovereinty over the blindness of the man is consistent with what Scripture says although we may not fully comprehend it. What do you think?
19. Justin
January 17, 2007
10:29 AM
When our child was born with Down Syndrome the immediate passage that the Lord brought us to was John 9. All things are for His glory and so must be stewarded in that way. By God’s grace we never had one thought of judgement being cast upon us by the birth of our son. The only tears that were shed were tears of joy and tears of “how is that God sees fit to bless us with this great stewardship opportunity?!”. We were barely 20 years of age when Eli was born - defying the “odds”.
The Lord has opened unending ministry opportunities for us as a family and for Eli himself, now 9 years old. He truly has a contagious passion for Christ which leads to many opportunities. We have a small ministry to encourage families with special needs children through family retreats and other resources - the Lord has blessed indeed!
We are changed people by whatever means God so chooses to accomplish His purposes. The life events leading up to Eli’s birth are so amazing and so obviously Sovereignly appointed that we many times just sit back in awe at how He works. Now as we work with other families in similar straits or provide encouragement to the many people who are told that they have a xx% chance of a disorder or abnormality in their child (which is more often then not incorrect) we see that God works so far beyond our finite little minds!
Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow - whether humanly intact or not!
20. puritanicoal
January 17, 2007
9:42 PM
Tim, I don’t comment often, mostly due to time issues, but always read your posts. This one hits home for me as I have a 2-year old daughter with Down Syndrome.
The scripture we go to for encouragement is Numbers 11. Israel was complaining to Moses about all the great food they ate while slaves in Egypt. They explicitly rejected the day-by-day blessing of Manna - the miraculous daily provision from God. Our prayer has been to accept with gratitude our manna. Far from the burden predicted by many, she truly has been a daily blessing to our family.
21. Roger
January 20, 2007
5:25 PM
Joni Eareckson aand Nigel Cameron have written a book called “How to be a Christian in a Brave New World.” I posted a review on my blog and would recommend it to everyone. Perhaps we could be ahead of the curve on these issues rather than behind as we were with the abortion issue.