To be honest, I don’t know that we really need another book—yet another book—on guidance and the will of God. Having said that, there is probably no genre of book I recommend more often than this simply because experience shows that many Christians, too many Christians, do not understand how God expects us to know his will and how we may expect him to guide us to those things that please him. We are blessed to have some excellent resources at our disposal. The best known of these is Garry Friesen’s Decision Making and the Will of God, a book that many of the others depend on, but one that is perhaps a little intimidating due to its size (528 pages in the most recent edition). Dave Swavely’s Decisions, Decisions is the one I recommend most often as it serves as a useful condensed version of Friesen’s work. Similar titles have been written by John MacArthur, Bruce Waltke, J.I. Packer, Phillip Jensen and many, many others.
The author who seeks to add something to this genre is entering into a very crowded field and is going to need a unique angle. Kevin DeYoung takes on this challenge and succeeds admirably, crafting a short but powerful book that really packs a punch. His unique angle is reflected in the title: Just Do Something! “My goal,” he says, “is not as much to tell you how to hear God’s voice in making decisions as it is to hear God telling you to get off the long road to nowhere and finally make a decision, get a job, and perhaps, get married.” He fears that many Christians, because of their unbliblical understanding of knowing and doing the will of God, are wasting their lives doing nothing when they should just be doing, well, something! “I’d like us to consider that maybe we have difficulty discovering Gods wonderful plan for our lives because, if the truth be told, He doesn’t really intend to tell us what it is. And maybe we’re wrong to expect Him to.”
DeYoung’s understanding of the will of God and God’s guidance is very consistent with Friesen and Swavely and a whole host of others. He distinguishes between God’s secret will (or will of decree), God’s revealed will (will of desire) and God’s will for our lives (will of direction). God’s will of decree is his secret will, ordained from all of time—a will that is going to come to pass and that no man can thwart. God’s will of desire is his will as revealed in Scripture—a will we sometimes obey and at other times disobey. God’s will of direction is the one that answers those questions we have about jobs and spouses and houses and all the rest. Here’s the real heart of the matter, according to DeYoung. “Does God have a secret will of direction that He expects us to figure out before we do anything? And the answer is no.” Though we are free to ask for his direction and though we ought to be devoted to prayer in all matters, God does not burden us with seeking his will of direction ahead of our decisions. “God does have a specific plan for our lives, but it is not one that He expects us to figure out before we make a decision.” “Trusting in God’s will of decree is good. Following his will of desire is obedient. Waiting for God’s will of direction is a mess.” The solution is simple: we are to have confidence in God’s hidden will, we are to search out and believe and obey God’s will, and we are then to use wisdom to make decisions that God will bless. We are to use what Dave Swavely aptly terms “sanctified reasoning.” DeYoung leaves the reader to consider this: “If there really is a perfect will of God we are meant to discover, in which we will find tremendous freedom and fulfillment, why does it seem that everyone looking for God’s will is in such bondage and confusion?”
Here, then, is how we are to live within God’s will: “So go marry someone, provided you’re equally yoked and you actually like being with each other. Go get a job, provided it’s not wicked. Go live somewhere in something with somebody or nobody. But put aside the passivity and the quest for complete fulfillment and the perfectionism and the preoccupation with the future, and for God’s sake start making some decisions in your life. Don’t wait for the liver-shiver. If you are seeking first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, you will be in God’s will, so just go out and do something.” God’s will for your life is really not as complicated as you may be making it out to be.
The book has occasional spots of appropriate levity. Writing about a young man whose affection for a woman was not reciprocated because “the Holy Spirit told me no,” DeYoung writes, “Poor guy—he got rejected, not only by this sweet girl, but by the Holy Spirit. The third person of the Trinity took a break from pointing people to Jesus to tell this girl not to date my roommate.” Pastoral throughout, DeYoung also covers the kinds of topics that people ask in relation to God’s will—issues related to work and wedlock. In a concluding chapter that certainly does not detract from the book even if it does not seem to add a whole lot, he pays tribute to his grandfather who has lived a long and productive life for God’s glory without ever concerning himself with discovering God’s hidden will.
In a brief Foreword, Joshua Harris says that this is his new go-to book on the subject of God’s will and decision making. I am inclined to agree with him, at least for those who are looking for a kind of entry level book. Friesen is still the most thorough and the one who lays the foundation, but this title is certainly much easier to read and much more likely to be read. I am quite convinced that any Christian who reads Just Do Something will benefit from it. I unreservedly recommend that you do just that.






Comments (16) »
1. Michael Duenes
April 7, 2009
9:18 AM
Thanks for the review and the recommendation, Tim. As you said, this topic is always relevant and there is much confusion on it. I know from my own experience of people who believe that they need to have a sensed, feelings-based perception of God’s will before they will move on any decision; and I know of people who will make a decision based on the wisdom they have and then if the decision doesn’t turn out precisely as they’d hoped, they question whether they actually heard God’s will. It can be paralyzing and it also leads people to not trust God now that their decision has been made.
2. Chris Giammona
April 7, 2009
10:47 AM
Tim
Thanks for the review. I am also looking for that go to book on this subject to recommend to people. Friesen’s book has been the standard, though I have not read Dave Swavely’s Decisions, Decisions.
Chris
3. Daniel Abbey
April 7, 2009
11:00 AM
I recently listened to John MacArthur tackle the subject of knowing God’s will and thought it was the most solid presentation on the subject thus far. Sounds like this book reaches the same conclusion as Dr. M does – that you can basically do whatever you want as long as you practice what are clearly described as God’s will in the Bible (MacArthur lists 6 things the Bible decrees are God’s will, i.e. that you be saved, be sanctified, be thankful etc).
In short, it’s great advice. Instead of waiting around for something to happen, just make it happen! If you’re walking in the Spirit, you’re in the center of God’s will. The rest will all fall into place.
Nice review btw. I hope to buy the book if it shows up in my country. If not, it’s back to Amazon and a delivery delay of a couple of months. Ah the wonders of third world living.
4. Jeri
April 7, 2009
11:26 AM
i just read this book, also, and would recommend it, as Tim says, as a great entry level book into this topic. I have many friends who do not know at all that God has a will of decree and a will of desire. They haven’t considered that the only will of His for us that we can certainly know is revealed in His word, and they are held captive to worries that they’ve missed His will in some of their choices. They don’t know about His providential guidance. This book is very accessible for Christians who don’t yet have a lot of good theology under their belt, and will hopefully increase their comprehension of the greatness and love of God. Very good review, Tim, thanks.
5. Nancy
April 7, 2009
11:52 AM
Great book! Finished it last night! I have recommended to the Headmaster, Dean of Students and Guidance Counselor at the Christian school where I currently serve, that this book be required reading for our juniors and/or seniors. I have also recommended that this book be placed on our church book table - and be used as a study guide by the youth group.
Yup - I am that concinved htat the clear (and as you said - sometime humorous) writing makes it an understandable “read” and it’s length make is appealing to those who think they might be too busy to take the time to read it!
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED - read it with a highlighter in your hand and go back again and again to refresh your understanding of what it means to walk in the will of God.
6. Mason
April 7, 2009
1:26 PM
“So go marry someone, provided you’re equally yoked and you actually like being with each other. “
That’s crazy! There is obviously a group of people who are unbalanced when it comes to looking for subjective guidance. However, to deny any subjective guidance on major decisions equally unbiblical.
7. Yooper
April 7, 2009
3:39 PM
With regards to the will of God the following verse comes to mind:
Micah 6:8 He has shown you, O man, what is good; And what does the LORD require of you. But to do justly, To love mercy,
And to walk humbly with your God?
8. Stephen Cathers
April 7, 2009
4:45 PM
Mason,
If that’s crazy, then so was the Apostle Paul, because it’s basically a restatement of his advice.
1 Cor. 7:39 (ESV) - A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
9. humanitas remedium
April 7, 2009
5:01 PM
Thanks for the review. I look forward to interacting with this work.
10. Mason
April 7, 2009
5:36 PM
Stephen,
Thanks for the reply. 1 Corinthians 7:39 is a statement to teach liberty for a specific group of people (widows) in a specific situation (remarriage). It is pushing the verse well beyond it’s limits to use it as a all-encompassing proof text for the above premise.
Again, I would reiterate that I know of groups who look for subjective guidance for which shoes to put on in the morning. Such obvious error doesn’t need comment. However, in large decisions such as marriage and missions (Acts 16:7), it seems wise to seek guidance beyond mere logic.
11. Tim Challies
April 7, 2009
8:13 PM
That’s crazy! There is obviously a group of people who are unbalanced when it comes to looking for subjective guidance. However, to deny any subjective guidance on major decisions equally unbiblical.
Do realize that the quote I excerpted was just that—excerpted. This would not be the totality of what DeYoung teaches about marriage, but rather a quick, dirty and somewhat humorous summary of it. He dedicates half a chapter to a more nuanced description.
12. Witsius
April 8, 2009
2:08 AM
“simply because experience shows that many Christians, too many Christians, do not understand how God expects us to know his will”
Amen!!
and
Amen!!
As I have said, also, it may be the most serious underlying flaw in popular evangelicalism today.
Only quibble, you didn’t mention Gary Gilley’s book Is That You Lord?
http://www.svchapel.org/is-that-you-lord
is small, to the point, and excellent.
Thanks for the review!
Harry Ludwig
13. Jason Nolte
April 8, 2009
7:53 AM
Mason
I would agree with you. I would like to hear some thoughts on Psalm 32:8-9 “I will instruct you and teach you in the way that you should go; I will guide you with my eye. Do not be like the horse or like the mule which have no understanding, which must harnessed with bit and bridle else they will not come near you.”
Having spent some time around horses, my daughters did some barrel racing a couple of years ago, I know that often a horse turns away from you and avoids you until you get the lead rope around his neck. Then once the bit is in his mouth he usually does what ever you ask.
It is hard for me to imagine that The Holy Spirit permanently dwells inside of believers with out any intent to guide the life of believers. Is it true that the only guiding He does is to open our minds to the truth of God’s word?
I also thought about when Peter was coming down off the roof to meet Cornelius’s servants. Acts 10:19 says, “And while Peter was pondering the vision, the Spirit said to him, “Behold, three men are looking for you. Rise and go down and accompany them without hesitation, for I have sent them.” Does the Spirit of God not in any way still operate this way?
I too have read John MacArthurs’s book on this subject. I even taught through it in a Wed. night Bible Study. I did add a caution at the end of our study. It would take about a nano second for our flesh to flare up in any given situation. So to blankly say “as long as you are in the six or so revealed wills of God just do what ever you want” seems to me to be dangerous.
I am humbly interested in what anyone has to say about my comments as I am usually one that sits around, in error, waiting for a lightning bolt from God before I make a decision.
14. Nancy
April 8, 2009
9:05 AM
Jason - I would recommend especially Chapter 8 - The Way of Wisdom. In this chapter, DeYoung discusses the principles to be applied for godly living - and be extension - godly decision making. Chapter 9 then applies those principles to two major decisions - work and marriage.
The principles:
Search the Scriptures
Get Wise Counsel
Pray
He concludes Chapter 8 with these words:
And then after you’ve prayed and studied and sought advice, make a decision and don’t hyper-spiritualize it.
Study the Scriptures, listen to others, and pray continuously. And as you engage in these practices, don’t forget to make a decision - always with wisdom, always with freedom, and sometimes even with speed.
15. Mason
April 8, 2009
9:18 AM
Tim,
Thanks for that clarification. I do intend to read his thoughts.
Jason,
I agree with much of the emphasis of men such as MacArthur. I once did a study of the “will of God” usages in the NT. I can’t remember exactly, but there were roughly 25 instances. Of those instances the majority deal strictly with sanctification (see Mark 3:35; 1 Thess 4:3; 1 Jn 2:17 for a few examples). The remaining instances usually pertain to Paul’s apostleship (see Col 1:1; Eph 1:1; 2 Tim 1:1, etc) Only two references deal with geography (Rom 1:10; Rom 15:32). I’m running mostly off memory here but that is roughly the stats.
Our thinking should be conformed to the burden of Scripture. And the emphasis of Scripture on this issue is most certainly Christlikeness. There is much to be commended in the statement “walk in Christlikeness and do whatever you want”.
However, that is not the full picture of the Biblical teaching. The Spirit was active in guiding the early church (eg Acts 16:6-7) and I find no biblical warrant that God would not help us in the same way.
Let me add that if you ever find yourself feeling “paralyzed” over this issue in decision making you have yet to find the Scriptural balance.
I hope this helps brother. If you have any additional thoughts feel free to email me as masonvann@gmail.com. I will try to get an article or two by Martyn Lloyd-Jones who has some good thoughts on the issue.
16. Stephen Cathers
April 8, 2009
3:51 PM
Mason,
I think it’s a mistake to think that because God may give supernatural guidance that we should expect him to in our normal decision-making process. For instance, the example you cited in Acts doesn’t even support your own position, since it says nothing about Paul seeking that guidance. Rather, Paul would make plans and then follow them unless God intervened.
I also don’t believe that 1 Cor. 7:39 was being pushed beyond its limits. Rather, I think that it’s a decent summary of the Bible’s teaching on marriage, which says nothing about seeking a specific word from the Lord but rather leaves us with the freedom to marry whomever we choose, so long as they are a believer. Although Paul spends all of 1 Cor. 7 talking about marriage issues, he never commands anyone to seek a word from the Lord about it.