Book Review - Marley and Me
I recently decided that I would attempt to read not only books that are published and widely read within the Christian community, but also in the mainstream. To that end I walked into a Los Angeles Barnes & Nobles on Saturday and decided I would buy whatever was listed as being the current top seller among non-fiction. It just so happened that this dubious honor went to Marley & Me: Life and Love with the World’s Worst Dog by John Grogan, a columnist for the Philadelphia Inquirer.
“John and Jenny were just beginning their life together. They were young and in love, with a perfect little house and not a care in the world. Then they brought home Marley, a wiggly yellow furball of a puppy. Life would never be the same.” That description from the slip cover, obviously written by an editor, does not quite do justice to the back-story, but does give a general idea of the premise for this story. John and his wife, newly married, decided to sharpen their parenting skills, which they thought they would soon need, by purchasing a dog. They ended up with Marley, a crazy, loveable Labrador Retriever. In my experience, Labs tend to come in two flavors: mellow or crazy. Marley was of the crazy variety. And he wasn’t only crazy, but also big, tipping the scales at nearly 100 pounds. And he was active. And perhaps most noticeably, he was mentally unstable. He was the type of dog most people would have given up on.
Grogan, an accomplished and skillful writers, goes on to tell the story of the following thirteen years of his life, showing the centrality of Marley in the lives of the growing family. The story is, on the whole, quite clean, though there is the occasional expletive worked into the text - this is a story that is more appropriate for adults than children. More than being only the story of a dog, this is the story of a family and the crazy pet that they all loved (most of the time). Marley was a part of the family, constantly challenging the love and patience (and pocketbooks) of his owners. He shared in the joys and pains of the family, even to the point of comforting Jenny in the aftermath of a heartbreaking miscarriage.
Marley & Me isn’t the type of book that will change a life. But it will warm a heart and provide more than a few good laughs. Those readers who own dogs, and Labs in particular, will probably nod their heads knowingly more than a few times. It is a tale of nearly infinite love and patience. It is the story of a man who loves his animal far more than I ever could. And I guess that is an admirable thing.




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1. Dallas Pymm
March 6, 2006
1:51 PM
When my wife and I first got married I did not like dogs at all. They seemed dumb, dirty, and I did not want to waste my time with them. Well…my wife pleaded with me to get a dog. When my friend was giving away free miniature dachsunds, we got one. Bottom line, I absolutely love this dog. He has become such a good companion. He used to sit with me while I did my quiet times in the morning, but now he lays in bed with my wife and another new dachsund puppy whom I also love. Dogs bring out some great emotions. I cried when he ate an entire box of chocolate knowing he could have died. He did not. And we laugh every day at the funny things they do. Dogs are a lot smarter than I thought. I feel no desire to have kids now that I have two dogs.
If you are able to get a dog, do it. They are such a joy. Well, mine are anyway.
2. wfseube
March 6, 2006
2:08 PM
Dallas, you are so right. We got a dog about 1.5 years ago because we wanted to do something for our younger son. We had never had any pets except hermit crabs! My wife was a non-dog-person, as she didn’t want hair everywhere, “messes” on carpets, etc.
Well, our experiences are the same as yours. He is a wonderful companion for all of us and is (pretty much) as much a member of the family as any of us. When I accidentally hurt his leg while we were playing, I could have shot myself over it (thankfully, he wasn’t hurt badly and he was perfectly fine within a week, but watching him limp around just broke my heart).
My wife is a dog convert. She loves him like one of our children. Hair is still an issue for her, but it’s only an annoyance.
I agree. Get a dog. Other pets don’t measure up to dogs… :-)
3. RosaMarie
March 6, 2006
2:37 PM
I love my dog. And he’s not even officially mine. My husband got him for our son over 11 years ago. He’s an Akita/Husky mix ( absolutely beautiful dog and we got him as a puppyfrom the pound! ) and at 120 pounds, he’s quite large but man, is he good company. Makes me laugh, is obvious about what he wants and feels and loves ME more than anyone else, lol. Ideal pet for us. His hips are giving him problems these days and I don’t know how much longer we’ll have him with us but I’m grateful for the companionship and stability he’s provided. We’ve moved around a lot and with our son now in college, it’s nice to be able to say that.
4. wayne and maureen
March 6, 2006
2:48 PM
This is the best kind of dog to own:
http://bunnyherolabs.com/adopt/customize.php?mc=dog.swf
Seriously though, I’m glad you’re doing this, Tim - i.e. reviewing “mainstream” books.
Wayne
5. Steve L
March 14, 2006
2:41 PM
Living in Philly, I’ve grown accustomed to Grogan as a mediocre, at best, columnist. (Lots of stock columnist devices, like letters to whatever public figure is in the news, etc.) Perhaps he was working on his book. It shocked me to see his name atop the bestseller list. I wasn’t sure it was the same guy.
All the same, I am glad to see you reviewing and engaging with the best-sellers. One of the strengths of a Reformed worldview is the ability to engage with the world while not compromising our beliefs, so keep up the good work!
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