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Thursday November 6, 2008

Dominican Republic - Ordinary Superheroes

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This is our last day in the Dominican Republic. Tomorrow morning we will head for the airport and from there we will fly for home, leaving the developing world and returning to the developed world. As much as I’ve enjoyed this experience, I can’t deny that I’ll be glad to be home. I’ve been to many homes here in Dominican Republic but I don’t know if I’ll remember any of them more vividly than Julia’s house. I wrote about Julia yesterday, describing the kind of poverty she had experienced as a girl—poverty that forced her to wear a borrowed dress just to have her photo taken for Compassion’s sponsorship program. Now a university student as part of Compassion’s Leadership Development Program, tears spilled from her eyes as she remembered the shame of poverty. Today Julia lives in a slightly nicer home—though dark and musty and sad by our standards, it was positively luxurious compared to many we saw and compared to what she had known as a child.

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We sat in Julia’s living room, on benches and chairs and the floor, and asked her mother about what Compassion meant to her, having seen it support two of her girls. She had no words. Tears filled her eyes, and ours. I guess words really weren’t necessary. We asked Julia about her sponsors and she told us of Roger, the sponsor in New Zealand who had supported her from age six all the way through her graduation from the Sponsorship Program. For twelve years Roger had supported her, written her cards and letters, sent her gifts, and even written her asking for advice on whether or not he should ask his girlfriend to become his wife! For twelve years he had prayed for Julia and she for him.

“What would you tell him if you could talk to him?”

“I love you so much. I still read your letters and cards and still have the pictures you sent to me!”

“What does Roger mean to you?”, we asked.

“He is my superhero.”

A superhero. It was not the only time this week I heard the word. For all the talk of the extraordinary men and women who have made such a difference in the lives of children, when I went to the homes of the girls and they proudly showed off the letters and photos they had received, the sponsors, whether from America or New Zealand or anywhere else, looked awfully ordinary to me. And I guess this is what Compassion is looking for. They aren’t looking for the rich and the famous, the notorious or the renowned. They are looking for ordinary people to play an extraordinary role in the lives of children who so desperately need help. They’re looking for a few ordinary superheroes.

I’ve been here for four days now and have seen Compassion in action. I’ve seen women being trained in how to care for their children. I’ve seen projects where the children receive an education and receive the good news of Jesus Christ. I’ve seen future leaders who are attending university through the Leadership Development Program. I’ve seen a water filtration system built to supply an entire neighborhood—thousands of people who drink water that leaves them with fungi and lesions—with pure, clean water. I have met Compassion staff who were sponsored children themselves and who are now dedicating their lives to serving children through the organization that so ably served them.

I came to Dominican Republic on something of a fact-finding mission. I do not sponsor a child. I’ve thought about it many times, but have never had confidence that Compassion is what they claim to be. But having seen it in action, I now have no doubts. I’m willing to stake my reputation on it. When I get home we will be visiting the web site as a family to choose at least one child to sponsor. Frankly, I’d like to have each of my kids sponsor one child (though I still need to talk this over with Aileen!). Compassion is all that they claim to be—more even. They were true to their word and allowed me to open every filing cabinet, look behind every door, and so on.

Today I want to encourage you to consider sponsoring a child. You know the pitch—for the price of a cup of coffee a day you can make the difference in the life of a child. I know now that this isn’t just idle talk. You really can (and will!) make a difference. But don’t just sponsor a child—write to him, have your children write to him, pray for him, send him a birthday gift. These things will get through to him, they will mean the world to him, they will change his life.

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Comments (15) »


1. Laurie
November 6, 2008
5:02 PM

Thank you for doing this. I will take this matter before the Lord and my husband and see what comes of it. We’ve often wished we could adopt, but are far too poor. Perhaps this is something we could do.


2. Reg W Schofield
November 6, 2008
5:19 PM

I have a good friend that is a representative in our local Church of Compassion . After talking with others and much prayer , my wife and I have sponsored a little girl . We have 2 boys and thought why not a little girl . But it was hard as we scanned the website. So many children and families in need . But it is good to read your first hand, on sight info. Thanks for some very insightful articles.


3. Glenn
November 6, 2008
6:15 PM

As I wrote you privately - I know that God has carved off a bit of your heart and left in the DR! You won’t be the same & neither will the next child that is sponsored because of yours & Nick’s firsthand experience. Thanks, Brother!

Under the Mercy,

Glenn


4. ally
November 6, 2008
6:42 PM

Thank you for going on this trip and writing this post. I’m sure that there are a lot of us who have skepticism about these sorts of organizations and how funds are actually used, so your endorsement is valuable to me—and to Compassion and these children.


5. Dave Bissett
November 6, 2008
6:43 PM

Tim, This is great to have your “review” and input. Would you say that Compassion’s work in other countries [eg: Tanzania] is on a par with this country? Please let me know. dave bissett


6. Thomas Sullivan
November 6, 2008
6:47 PM

Tim wrote: As much as I’ve enjoyed this experience, I can’t deny that I’ll be glad to be home.

I can identify Tim. I have a love-hate relationship with the D.R. I love my family there, I love the sea “El Malacon” I love the national aquarium, and the food, but there are so many mopeds, I still don’t have the courage to drive there, and no matter what time of year we are there, the heat kind of wears you out.

I always go to the capital - Santo Domingo, so the exhaust wears on me, the late night bachata and merengue music, and no matter where you go, someone is trying to sell you something.

But if we can see the child we are sponsoring, it is all worth it, if we can bring her even a smile. She lives in Juan Tomas.

http://www.partnersnchrist.org/

The gospel is flourishing there,as well. For proof, go to www.ibsj.org

TMS


7. Tim Challies
November 6, 2008
7:12 PM

Tim, This is great to have your “review” and input. Would you say that Compassion’s work in other countries [eg: Tanzania] is on a par with this country? Please let me know.

I think so. The model here is the model they use everywhere. In all cases they work exclusively with local churches and base all ministry around churches. Small details would vary, but the base program is the same everywhere in the world. I think my encouragement would be to sponsor a child in a country that maybe, just maybe, you could visit someday. Compassion wants you to visit your sponsor child and will help arrange a visit if you can get to that country or participate in one of their sponsor trips.


8. Crystal
November 6, 2008
11:14 PM

Thanks for your honesty and your reassurance that Compassion is a great organization. I had that sense and it’s good to have it confirmed. I’m going to miss your updates.


9. Thomas Sullivan
November 7, 2008
5:13 AM

We have a spokesman at our church for Compassion International. He did an excellent presentation of their services one morning in Sunday School.

If, however, 32.00 a month is just too much for your budget, you can sponsor a child in the Dominican Republic for 20.00 a month.

http://www.partnersnchrist.org/

But they only serve the Dominican Republic.

The good thing is that the person who heads it goes to the Dominican Republic 4 times a year and we mail him clothes or small items to take with him to give to our child we sponsor.


10. Juli Jarvis
November 7, 2008
11:04 AM

I’m so glad to hear the good news! Your family will be so blessed by this sponsorship—and you will find that you need that child as much as they need you.


11. Dan Sudfeld
November 7, 2008
11:14 AM

I admittedly skimmed your previous posts, so you may have covered this there. What I was looking for from you is …

The degree to which Compassion is concerned about sharing the Gospel with the sponsor-children.

In this post, you talked about their concern for education, water, health, etc. You did say, I’ve seen projects where the children receive an education and receive the good news of Jesus Christ.. Could you flesh this out a little? Do they place a priority on the Gospel, and if so, is it a Gospel presentation that you were comfortable with?

I ask because we have sponsored two children from Thailand through Compassion for a number of years, and some of the letters caused some concern for us on their understanding on the exclusivity of the Gospel.


12. Tim Challies
November 7, 2008
2:34 PM

The degree to which Compassion is concerned about sharing the Gospel with the sponsor-children.

Compassion works exclusively with local churches. So every project is managed by a local church. Everywhere we went, we met pastors. Now they work with many kinds of churches (brands, franchises, denominations, whatever you want to say). They do have a statement of faith but it is necessarily somewhat ecumenical. I do not mean to say that they work with the Roman Catholic Church (they do not) but that they have a Nicene Creed kind of statement of faith the churches need to adhere to. Because of that you will find some variety of Christian theology and expression. Add the fact that they have many thousands of projects (and 1,000,000 children in their programs) and there are bound to be some exceptions—churches where the gospel may not be properly understood and taught. All this to say, I think they do what they can, but because of the nature of the organization, there are probably going to be some unfortunate exceptions.

From what I saw, the Christian faith is taught a lot. The kids were constantly singing, praying, reading Scripture, and so on. I’ll grant that they are more likely to show guests that than math drills, but the fact remains—they are definitely learning Scripture.


13. beatrice81
November 8, 2008
12:29 AM

Can you tell us how much of each donated dollar actually goes to the needy … versus being eaten up by the promoters on overhead and advertising and non-essential items?.

For instance, it can’t have been cheap to send a bunch of bloggers from North America down to the Dominican Republic for a 5-day Caribbean junket — in exchange for a positive article, of course. How much of their budget is for PR and advertising and the like?

And, hate to sound too skeptical, but since you were there on their dime, whatever you saw was exactly what they wanted you to see. That’s why investigative journalists have their travel paid for by their publication, not by the subject of their investigation; that would represent a conflict of interest.


14. James Hong
November 8, 2008
2:54 PM

Thank you sir, for doing this series. I sponsor two children in Uganda who are orphans. For awhile, I was wondering whether or not I should stop my support. I am a single seminary student and am barely making ends meet. But this series you did really encouraged me to continue supporting the children, not just financially, but also with prayer. Thank you for the wonderful insights and the thorough posts. Stay strong and God bless!


15. owlhaven
November 8, 2008
7:40 PM

Great post, Tim. I couldn’t agree more!

Mary