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Thursday October 11, 2007

Calling Chattanooga

I have an older brother named Andrew who lives in the fine city of Chattanooga, Tennessee. Andrew needs help with something and I’m hoping that someone here—perhaps someone who lives in Chattanooga or who knows people who do, may be able to offer assistance.

Now I would not generally create a post such as this one, but the fact is that my brother has some special needs. He was diagnosed just a few years ago with Asperger’s Syndrome. Asperger’s is one of several autism spectrum disorders and is characterized primarily by difficulties in social interaction (though motor clumsiness seems also to be a defining characteristic). It is distinguished from the other similar autism spectrum disorders in that it is not often marked by delays in language or cognitive development. People with Asperger’s are not much like the more seriously autistic people you may have seen might rock back and forth and who are often entirely unable to communicate. Most of the time they act and appear perfectly normal.

When Asperger’s is diagnosed early in life there are many programs available. We’ve seen evidence of this in the lives of the three boys who live next to us, all of whom have this syndrome. Since my brother was diagnosed later in life (in his early thirties) these programs are not available to him. Thus he’s looking for a job but has had to do so largely on his own, without the benefit of the counseling and support that would otherwise be available to him. Needless to say, it has been a tough proposition for him.

Because of the difficulties in social interaction he is really unable to present himself confidently in a job interview situation. To this point he has gained several interviews but, for various reasons unrelated to his skills, has been unable to secure employment. He is looking for something in the field of data entry or clerical work and should be well suited to this. I could see him doing well with filing or data entry and working in a church or office situation. He is not necessarily looking for full-time work and may well qualify for some kind of special needs program for his employer (assuming such a thing exists in Chattanooga). Andrew is a hard worker, a good friend for those with the patience and interest in getting to know him and he is a man who loves the Lord. He is just now learning to live on his own and he desperately wants and needs a job. I’m hoping and praying that someone who is part of this mysterious family we call “the church” may be able to assist a brother.

If you are aware of a potential position that might be available to him in the Chattanooga area or you know of someone who might, I’d sure be grateful if you would contact me.

Comments (21) »


1. suziannr
October 11, 2007
2:53 PM

Tim, I’m not in Chattanooga and dont know anyone there but I can, and will, pray for your brother, my brother in Christ for the position the Lord has for him.


2. Andrew Moody
October 11, 2007
4:25 PM

Tim, I’m not in Chattanooga either but will definitely pray for Andrew! My youngest son Job has Asperger’s Syndrome, however is doing very well although he’s quite different than other 4 year olds we know. We didn’t realize until about 6 months ago that there was a reason for all of his idiosyncrasies. So my wife and I are still in the learning process of figuring out how to help him integrate into social settings as much as possible.

Grace and Peace,
Andrew Moody


3. Tim Challies
October 11, 2007
4:29 PM

My youngest son Job has Asperger’s Syndrome, however is doing very well although he’s quite different than other 4 year olds we know.

There’s certainly an “advantage” for children born with the Syndrome today. It is really only fairly recently that it has been widely diagnosed so there are more and more programs in place to help children who have it. Unfortunately they all came along too late for my brother!


4. Brenda@Coffee Tea Books and Me
October 11, 2007
8:04 PM

My sister in law was not diagnosed until in her 40s. It was long assumed she had slight brain damage at birth but that never explained how she could go on to receive a college degree.

It is sad to think what might have been if she had treatment as a child. She never married, never had her own children, people have never understood her (she even drives us a little batty at times).

I am thankful so much has been learned about it since then.


5. Bill Dodrill
October 11, 2007
9:55 PM

I do live in Chattanooga. However, I’m strictly a blue collar worker and personally might not be much help. I do go to church that averages about 750 so there has to be someone who knows someone. I’m going to send your post to my Sunday school’s email list. I have a 5 year old grandson with autism so I understand the social issues involved. Perhaps your brother and I can work our schedules so I can accompany on his job interviews.


6. Richard Campeau
October 12, 2007
12:40 AM

Andrew will be in my prayers.

Blessings,

R.


7. Susanna
October 12, 2007
2:26 AM

“she even drives us a little batty at times”

????? Don’t we all drive people batty at times, much less ourselves?

Andrew called me on the phone today and despite his tough circumstances, he still wanted to mainly talk about me and my life-how his New York nephew is doing, etc-such an incredibly selfless, kind person. Such a man of God. He is such a dignified, talented individual and I know God has something for him whether through someone reading Tim’s site or another means.
I do pray as well that someone in the Chattanooga area has/will speak up on behalf of Andrew!


8. Stephen Newell
October 12, 2007
4:48 AM

Tim, I’m including what I’m sending you here in the comments for anyone else who may have need.

As a Deaf individual who has utilized such services, here’s the thing: you want the Department of Vocational Rehabilitation. They work with all manner of “disabled” individuals (physical/mental/developmental/etc.), and I think your brother would qualify for their services. When I was still living in Tennessee (30 minutes from Chattanooga, incidentally) they had an office in my hometown, and they have a branch office in Chattanooga. I don’t have the numbers on me right this minute but you can do a search and get the numbers you need immediately. I kept misplacing my contact cards so Google searches got me right where I needed to be.

VR does a lot of great work. They help people pay for school, get jobs, get living assistance if needed, all sorts of good services. They made it possible for me to go to college and seminary, and helped me get the hearing aids, interpreters, and anything else I needed during that time. My wife, who is also Deaf, has used them for the same things as well as utilized their resources to find jobs for herself. Give VR a shot and in the meantime I’ll nose around a bit more. Praying for your bro!


9. Simon
October 12, 2007
7:04 AM

Tim,

I’m not in the U.S but do know that the Precept Ministries (Kay Arthur et al) is based in Chatanooga. You could give them a try.


10. A. Ben Harsevoort
October 12, 2007
8:21 AM

I just recently found your blog, recommended by one of my nephews, Tim. It brings back a flood of memories to read of you, your brother Andrew, and a post from your sister Suzanna. I have fond memories of your family from our Willowdale Christian School days and later in Ancaster. It’s sad that we knew so little of Andrew’s condition. I have fond memories of him and am not at all surprised that he is a kind, talented, and godly adult. I know a family in the Chattenooga area who are involved in the Christian schools there, including Covenent College. I’ll forward this information to them.
God’s blessings to you and your loved ones.

Ben Harsevoort


11. Jackie
October 12, 2007
8:50 AM

Well, I wanted to add an idea, but the VR program and your friend Ben sound like some great leads. As well as the lady who is offering to go with your brother on his interviews!
I was just thinking that here where we live, the Catholic church has some really great services for disabled kids. I know, not the same, but if you didn’t have those leads mentioned before, I would have at least tried that route. We are not Catholics, but we see the great compassionate programs they offer. God is good.


12. Jackie
October 12, 2007
8:56 AM

Oops! I meant the GUY who wants to accompany him on interviews! Sorry Bill! :-)


13. DLE
October 12, 2007
9:53 AM

Tim,

I’m very sorry to hear about your brother’s trials in finding work. I prayed for him just now.

I don’t think we in the Church in the West understand the responsibility we have to make certain that unemployed people in our congregations find work. I can think of no other experience in life that we consider to fall under the mistaken idea that “God helps those who help themselves” than our jobs. We act as if it’s not our problem that people in our churches can’t find decent work, but it is. Frankly, it is to the shame of all our churches that any individual goes for months at a time eagerly seeking work but getting little to no help from his/her church. Shameful. True Christian community would not allow this to happen.

We need some serious repentance in this regard, especially since we will probably face another recession in North America soon. We have to start looking out for each other and get off this godless individualism we practice in the West. The first thing the new Church did in Acts after being filled with the Holy Spirit was ensuring that those with the Body did not lack for basic needs. A decent job is as basic a need as exists. Time for us to start helping the brethren find work. That’s one of the simplest ways we can say that we love others as we love ourselves.

To Tim’s readers:

If you live in Tim’s brother’s area in TN, don’t just talk about helping him find work, make some effort to ensure that job comes about!


14. DLE
October 12, 2007
10:21 AM

Tim,

Is your brother willing to move out of TN to find work? I recently tried remotely to help someone from that area find work and it was quite difficult since I had no contacts in the area.

If he is willing to move, I’ll see if there’s anything I can locate in the Greater Cincinnati area.


15. Tim Challies
October 12, 2007
10:21 AM

I don’t think we in the Church in the West understand the responsibility we have to make certain that unemployed people in our congregations find work. I can think of no other experience in life that we consider to fall under the mistaken idea that “God helps those who help themselves” than our jobs.

I quite agree with you (and am certainly as guilty of this as anyone). Seems to me that the first place (not the last place) we should look when needing employment is the church. And as employers we should be making efforts to find work for those who, for whatever reason, are without.


16. Tim Challies
October 12, 2007
12:42 PM

Is your brother willing to move out of TN to find work?

Not for now. My parents are only about an hour away from him and I have a sister and brother-in-law living there as well. So he wouldn’t want to move too far away from the family.


17. Lorin Barr from Christ Fellowship
October 12, 2007
3:53 PM

Hey Tim,
Thank you so much for coming last week to the Expositor’s Conference. I appreciate the work you do. Now, I have a cousin with the same thing. He is 14 and having a hard time adjusting. I am with the AA affiliate in Mobile with the Mobile Baybears. There is a AA team that is in our Southern League called the Chattanooga Lookouts. I am the Chaplain here and work in the office during the season. Maybe Andrew would be interested in some part time work there. We will truly pray for this timing as we know God is Sovereign over all our light afflictions and looking for the weight of glory to come. 2 Cor. 4:16-18
Soli Deo Gloria
Lorin
Christ Fellowship Mobile, Al


18. Joy
October 13, 2007
8:49 PM

I live in Chattanooga. I know that Goodwill industries is in the business of assisting those with disabilities find employment. I’ll think & pray on it & share this with my church family in the morning.


19. Jackie
October 14, 2007
10:43 AM

Tim
It didn’t occur to me to ask before, but is your brother a believer and does he attend a church there in Chattanooga? Are they willing to help him out in some way as far as a job or placement goes?
So many good leads from this post so far!
DLE has a very valid point about the body of Christ for sure.


20. bchallies
October 16, 2007
12:22 PM

I would like to thank everyone for their prayers, suggestions, and offers of help regarding my son,Andrew’s, situation. Thank you, especially, Bill, for offering to accompany Andrew to job interviews. He does have someone to do that, but would love plain old friendship! If you are interested, Tim can give you Andrew’s number!


21. Jeffrey S Adams
October 24, 2007
6:27 PM

Tim, I lived in Chattanooga 3 years ago & highly recommend the First Presbyterian Church of Chattanooga, a PCA, to your brother. I have a few connections in the medical field there if that would be of help. Let me know!