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12/27/07
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The Routine-Driven Life

It doesn’t look like I’m going to be able to do my weekly John Owen “Reading the Classics Together” post today. And for that I apologize. Being away from home has completely disrupted my ability to keep this site operating as it usually does. I’m a routine-based person, it seems, and being away from my usual day-to-day life really changes my ability to do what I usually do. I woke up very early this morning and, with a touch of panic, my first thought was, “Today is John Owen day.” Yet I haven’t read the chapter carefully yet. In fact, I haven’t even thought of doing so. Most weeks I read it at least twice prior to Thursday morning and once more write before I write about it. This week I haven’t even thought about the book. I blame the disruption of my routine.

I’m a routine-driven guy. Case in point: my side of the bed. A few weeks before our youngest was born Aileen and I began planning how we would restructure certain parts of our lives to accommodate an entirely helpless infant. As we did with our first two children, and to the great chagrin of all the Ezzo followers out there, we decided to have the baby sleeping in our room for the first few weeks (or months, depending on how soon we would get tired of having a baby in such close proximity). Because the master bedroom in our new house was oriented differently than in our old house, we realized that, for sake of convenience, it might be easiest if Aileen and I changed sides of the bed. That way, when she needed to nurse the baby at night, she would not have to climb over or around me. So on Friday night we changed sides. I didn’t sleep. On Saturday night we tried again. I didn’t sleep. Finally, in the middle of the night, when my tossing and turning had woken her up, we switched back. I slept like a baby. My routine survived.

My ability to carry on normal operations on this site depends on routine, I guess. As soon as I travel, I find that the time I usually spend reading the Bible, praying, reading good books, reflecting on life, and so on, is very hard to come by. I stay up late yacking with my siblings and then sleep in late the next morning. When I’m usually writing, I’m now sleeping. When I’m usually sleeping I’m now talking. Of course it’s great to have some time off and time away from the day-to-day, but it certainly does impact my ability to keep this site going.

So please just hang on for a few more days as I continue to focus on lighter fare at this site. Beginning tomorrow I’ll be spending the weekend at the Reality Check Conference and look forward to bringing some good updates from what promises to be a really interesting event. Sunday evening I’ll be speaking at Lyndon Avenue Baptist Church in Chattanooga. Monday I’ll be driving home. Tuesday is New Years and then on Wednesday life returns to normal. As much as I love being away and love being with family, it will be good to be home and it will be good to be back to my beloved routine.

The Routine-Driven Life

Comments (15) »


1. Victoria Lynch
December 27, 2007
10:27 AM

Tim—I have checked on your itinerary page and do not see you scheduled for the Shepherd’s conference this year.

You always live blog that conference and many of us look forward to it.

If I missed something on that and you have already commented, I apologize.


2. Jerry
December 27, 2007
10:49 AM

Is the discussion on Chapter Seven postponed to next Thursday, or only for a couple of days? I am another one who has had his routine disrupted lately, and am trying to make sure to stay on track.


3. Scott D. Andersen
December 27, 2007
10:50 AM

Hey Tim,

A couple of my good friends will be at the Reality Check Conference traveling from Sioux City, IA. That’s exciting. I too have had my routine disrupted - so it’s kind of nice for me to have a opportunity to catch up.

sda


4. Wayne Layton
December 27, 2007
10:53 AM

Actually I am glad you had the interruption. First, we are looking forward to you being with us at Lyndon Avenue Baptist on Sunday evening. Second, I just learned about your book reading club so this will give me a little time to catch up with you. See you soon.


5. Jacob Douvier
December 27, 2007
11:21 AM

My father and I were just talking about how even on days off, we’re like chickens running around with our heads cut off. What’s really bad is when I come home after camp counseling for two months. After nine weeks of structure and knowing where and what I would be doing at every moment, coming home is often disorienting.


6. Bibliomaniac
December 27, 2007
11:35 AM

I can emphathize with the “my side of the bed” routine. A couple times early in our marriage, my wife and I changed sides of the bed for nighttime breastfeeding and rocking to sleep a colicky baby, but, like you, I was immensely uncomfortable and could not sleep. The disturbance in the universe ceased as soon as I returned to “my” side of the bed. For 25 years now we’ve slept on the same sides of the bed everywhere we go—hotels, retreats, other people’s homes. I never deliberately set out to make this a routine. But for some odd reason, I cannot sleep on the other side of the bed.


7. Marilyn B.
December 27, 2007
12:20 PM

I so appreciate your post! I understand completely. When we gather with family, which is rare, we spend as much time as we can soaking in relationship. Right now my son is home for Christmas, and after having him out of the house for three years (Army Iraq vet), I want to spend every minute I can with him. The laundry is piling up, the dishes sit overnight in the sink, there is still a huge pile of gift boxes waiting to be flattened for storage.

I can’t help but think of Mary and Martha. I have generally tended to being a “Martha” but I don’t want to waste time with busyness that I could spend enjoying my kids. We so rarely have all 4 together at the same time.

Take this as a “Sabbath”. Everyone needs to “cease from creating” once in a while. Enjoy!


8. donsands
December 27, 2007
12:50 PM

Routine is a good thing. But every now and then it may be a good idea to break free of it. Could being too routine lead to apathy? Could having no routine at all lead to laziness?

John Owen Day can surely wait for another day.


9. Jason
December 27, 2007
3:09 PM

I know that I am someone who is easily disrupted if I don’t have routine. If I don’t get in my prayer time, bible reading, and exercise before the rest of the house wakes up it generally is not going to happen that day.

Keep trying to solve “Who’s on First?” and maybe that will make you feel better. Works for me.


10. John Portman
December 27, 2007
3:12 PM

Just a word of appreciation for your succinct and informative presentation to the 2007 Basics conference of which I have the CD’s. I do not blog but write a few paragraphs each month for our fellowship’s website. As I review your presentation, I hope more ideas for the beneficial use of this medium will be brought to me by the Holy Spirit. Thanks


11. David Bailey
December 27, 2007
3:20 PM

Even your “light” fare is always appreciated!


12. Tim
December 27, 2007
3:53 PM

Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish a routine from a rut.

I think this break will help to avoid the latter.

I’m praying your speaking engagement goes well and I’m looking forward to your notes from the conference.

Is my book in the mail?

Happy New Year!


13. GUNNY HARTMAN
December 27, 2007
4:31 PM

After nearly 15 years of marriage, it’s inconceivable to me to sleep on HER side of the bed.

Even in a hotel, we sleep on our God-ordained sides of the bed.

It gives me the hebe gebes just thinking about sleeping on the other side. Way to fight through it a few nights, brother.


14. Veronica Mitchell
December 27, 2007
10:25 PM

I always expect to get so much done when I go away from home. I am always disappointed. That has become my routine away from routine.


15. Ken
December 28, 2007
7:03 AM

Tim,

I am glad for your sake that you are out of your routine and so enjoying your time with family and others. I think these recent posts have perhaps furthered your “encouragement goals” in a subtle but important way - reminding us that the Christian life is more about embodied rather than disembodied relationships. As much as the internet and this blog in particular are encouraging and help believers connect, there is no substitute for spending time with one another (whether family or friends) in real time and “real life”!

Ken

PS: Excited to buy the book. I’ve wanted to wait till the new year budget, but now I regret that my book wasn’t part of that stack.