Closer than a Brother

So the Olympics are over. While I remain somewhat uncomfortable with the games in general, wondering if we could possibly convince the impartial outside observer that they are anything other than religion, I cannot deny that they pull together the nation in a completely unique way. Already I can see that the Olympics were good for Canada.

There were lots of great stories coming out of the Olympics. We saw Joannie Rochette win a bronze medal in an event held just days after the sudden death of her mother. We saw Clara Hughes win a bronze medal in long track speed skating, putting an exclamation mark and the end of her career as the only athlete in history to win multiple medals in both the summer and winter games. Last night we witnessed the men’s hockey team win a medal that will be talked about in Canada for years and years to come—an overtime goal that claimed for our country a gold medal in Canada’s own game. Overall we saw Canada win the greatest number of gold medals any nation has claimed at a Winter Olympics.

But there is one story that is going to remain with me more than the others, I’m convinced. Coming into these games, Canada had twice hosted an Olympics but had never won a gold on home soil. That all changed when Alexandre Bilodeau skied the greatest moguls event of his life (his name is pronounced ahl-ehx-AHN-druh BEEL-oh-doh - let your inner French Canadian come out and try saying it). In one of those great new Olympic sports they’ve added in recent years, he dominated, pulling out all the stops, combining heart-stopping jumps with incredible speed. He won the gold and Canada celebrated. Bilodeau went from an unknown to a national hero. You can with the video of his performance here.

But there was more to the story. Alexandre has a brother named Frdric. Frdric has cerebral palsy and, as his brother became the face of the nation, Frdric became the face of cerebral palsy. Alexandre says that his brother is his inspiration, that when he does not want to climb out of bed in the morning to face another day of training, he thinks of his brother, confined to a wheelchair and barely able to talk, and there he finds motivation to work hard. And Frdric finds great joy in his brother’s success. As his brother won his gold medal, the camera kept going to Frdric, celebrating with his arms raised high in celebration, his mouth agape. It was a moment of pure joy.

 Here are brothers who deeply love one another. Here are brothers who inspire one another and, in their own way, inspire anyone who watches them. On that day they inspired a whole nation. 

Two things stand out. First, I loved seeing disability in prime time. There was a time when everyone knew a child or two who had a significant disability. But today, in the age of abortion, most disabled children are eradicated before birth. Disability of this kind is rare and it was so good to see it featured both prominently and positively. And second, I loved seeing the love between brothers, brothers who are so different in ability and yet equal in their love for one another. Watch the videos of Frdric and you’ll see that he won the gold medal just as much as his brother did.

Last night I played and replayed the video of Sidney Crosby, seeing how he managed to get the puck in the net from a tough, tough angle. That memory will stay for a long time. But honestly, I much prefer the video of the Bilodeau brothers. As I watch Alexandre’s win, time and time again, I think of the words of Proverbs 18:24: “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” Though those two boys love one another so much, I hope and pray for each of them that they come to know the One who sticks closer than even the most committed, most loyal brother.

Comments (14)

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Anonymous's picture

I enjoyed reading this. Thanks

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Anonymous's picture

I am with you, Tim. I teared up every time I saw the Bilodeau’s. There mutual love and respect was so authentic.And great to see a person with special needs teaching us what uninhibited joy can look like!

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Anonymous's picture

Its is great to hear of these gold medal champions of character. Thanks for sharing the story that makes this more meaningful than a one time event.

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Anonymous's picture

I agree Tim, the games indeed seem to be a religion. My wife and I were wondering about the cost of the flashlights and white ponchos for the opening and closing ceremonies. While they added to the effect, perhaps that money could have helped Haiti or Chile…we wondered the same about the Super Bowl and some effects.

Regardless, the games do provide many wonderful stories and life lessons. Redemption, perserverence, dedication, injustice, and loss were played out for us. The Bilodeau’s and Joannie Rochette will stay with me for a long time.

As an American, I have a greater appreciation for Canada and it’s people as our good neighbor to the north. I hope to visit someday.

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Anonymous's picture

Good article. I would like to add that there seemed to be some “Oh isn’t Frederic cute” stuff going on. The way he was portrayed and discussed had an air of paternalism. The interview with Brian Williams was, frankly, a little embarrassing. People seemed to think that cerebral palsy is a mental handicap.

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Anonymous's picture

Thanks for this article. It was inspirational. In a day and age of sports-marketing excess, and self-centered sports celebrities, stories like this keep the good side of sports in view. Thanks again.

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Tim's picture
Good article. I would like to add that there seemed to be some “Oh isn’t Frederic cute” stuff going on.That is definitely true. A couple of times I was a bit uncomfortable at how they were treating him. All the more reason to raise awareness, I suppose.
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Anonymous's picture

A very good perspective, Tim.

Congrats to Team Canada, too.

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Anonymous's picture

I was a but cynical about this whole Olympic thing but I have to say the stories like you mentioned , grabbed me and I cheered as our country won the most Gold medals in any winter games. But the stories moved me and one couldn’t help but be draw in to cheer.

As to the cost , I did have a problem with the money being spent but my wife made the point that craftsmen,artist,cleaners,etc… all benefited . It helped them feed their families and who knows what charity’s they gave to . We can become very cynical and no question there can be much access but there is nothing wrong in being paid well for ones labor.

Overall as a Canadian I was proud of the games .

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Anonymous's picture

I watched the Olympics but this is the first i have heard of these two brothers…maybe cause my coverage was American? I’ll have to try to watch the video.

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Anonymous's picture

Great reminder, Tim. In fact, there are those who would say it is precisely people like Frederic who have the most to teach us about what it means to be human.

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Anonymous's picture

I second all the above praise for the article. It’s great to see praise for the athelete’s character as well as performance.

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Anonymous's picture

Great article. Thanks for sharing.

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Anonymous's picture

I don’t have to tap into my inner French-Canadian. I am French-Canadian.

That’s a good post, Tim. Thanks!

R.