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Outgrowing the Need for Grace
- 02/25/08
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It’s no secret around here that I love the book of Proverbs and consider it my “home page” in the Bible. I read through Proverbs at least once a year and, whenever I’m not sure what else to read, I turn to it. And while I love Proverbs and envy the wisdom of Solomon I find something really sobering about his life. Whenever I consider Solomon, I am faced with the question of how a man of such great wisdom and discernment could end his life so far from the Lord. How did such a wise man become so foolish? How did such a discerning man stray so far?
I’m far from the only person who has wondered this. Just last week I received an email from a friend and reader of this site who had just finished reading The Discipline of Spiritual Discernment. He asked a question that went something like this: If Solomon was the most discerning man who ever lived (besides Jesus, of course), and discernment is the application of wisdom, then how do we account for his spiritual digression? How can a truly discerning man be disobedient?” I’ve written about this a little bit in the past but it seemed like a good chance to say something more. How did Solomon, who was so wise and so discerning, end up so far from the Lord?
Solomon’s wisdom is unparalleled by any other human. The Bible tells us that the Queen of Sheba once came to Solomon, having heard of his great wisdom, and “told him all that was on her mind.” There was nothing she asked that he could not answer, for “Solomon answered all her questions; there was nothing hidden from the king that he could not explain to her.” We know that “God gave Solomon wisdom and understanding beyond measure, and breadth of mind like the sand on the seashore, so that Solomon’s wisdom surpassed the wisdom of all the people of the east and all the wisdom of Egypt. For he was wiser than all other men…” In the history of mankind, there was no one like Solomon. He was extraordinarily gifted by God.
“Thus King Solomon excelled all the kings of the earth in riches and in wisdom. And the whole earth sought the presence of Solomon to hear his wisdom, which God had put into his mind.” He was richly blessed, with wealth and power beyond measure. “He had 1,400 chariots and 12,000 horsemen, whom he stationed in the chariot cities and with the king in Jerusalem. And the king made silver as common in Jerusalem as stone, and he made cedar as plentiful as the sycamore of the Shephelah. And Solomon’s import of horses was from Egypt and Kue, and the king’s traders received them from Kue at a price. A chariot could be imported from Egypt for 600 shekels of silver and a horse for 150, and so through the king’s traders they were exported to all the kings of the Hittites and the kings of Syria.”
When the Queen of Sheba witnessed Solomon’s wisdom and gazed at all his wealth, the Bible tells us that there was no more breath in her. She was completely overwhelmed. I have felt the same as I’ve read about his life and have read his proverbs. The man’s wisdom and discernment is clearly unsurpassed (except by Jesus). And yet there is more to the story.
It is always a shock to turn to the tenth chapter of 1 Kings and to read about Solomon’s downfall. It is awful to hear how a man with such wisdom strayed so far from God. “Now King Solomon loved many foreign women, along with the daughter of Pharaoh: Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite women, from the nations concerning which the Lord had said to the people of Israel, ‘You shall not enter into marriage with them, neither shall they with you, for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods.’ Solomon clung to these in love. He had 700 wives, princesses, and 300 concubines. And his wives turned away his heart.” I find the next verse instructive. “For when Solomon was old his wives turned away his heart after other gods, and his heart was not wholly true to the Lord his God, as was the heart of David his father.” His wives turned away his heart so that it was not wholly true to the Lord his God. Solomon’s heart was at first divided between women and God, but it soon turned away altogether. He allowed the lust of his heart to overcome and overwhelm his love for God.
This is sobering, is it not? A man with the wisdom of Solomon, a man who had had the Lord appear to him twice and who had heard the Lord directly command him not to turn after other gods, turned away nonetheless. Though a wise man, the Lord told him “you have not kept my covenant and my statutes that I have commanded you.” How could this happen?
Ironically, I believe that we can find the key to Solomon’s downfall in one of his own proverbs. In Proverbs 19:27 we read “Cease to hear instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge.” There are some proverbs that are multi-layered and which require great thought. This is not that kind. That meaning of this one is plain. Those who cease to listen to wise instruction, instruction based on the fear of the Lord, will quickly stray. While we cannot know for certain, I am increasingly convinced that this is what happened to Solomon. While he was young, he was visited by God and was endowed with great wisdom and discernment. When he was only a young man, but still a king, he called out to God in what seems to be a healthy apprehension of the difficulties he would face as king:
At Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night, and God said, “Ask what I shall give you.” And Solomon said, “You have shown great and steadfast love to your servant David my father, because he walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart toward you. And you have kept for him this great and steadfast love and have given him a son to sit on his throne this day. And now, O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of David my father, although I am but a little child. I do not know how to go out or come in. And your servant is in the midst of your people whom you have chosen, a great people, too many to be numbered or counted for multitude. Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, that I may discern between good and evil, for who is able to govern this your great people?”
God was pleased with Solomon’s request, replying “I give you a wise and discerning mind, so that none like you has been before you and none like you shall arise after you. I give you also what you have not asked, both riches and honor, so that no other king shall compare with you, all your days. And if you will walk in my ways, keeping my statutes and my commandments, as your father David walked, then I will lengthen your days.” Solomon knew his weakness and, in humility, cried out to God and asked for His strength. As a little child cries to his father for help Solomon cried out in dependence on God. God was pleased to hear, pleased to answer, and pleased to give to Solomon far more than he asked. Solomon asked for discernment, but was also given great wisdom, great wealth, and great power. God lavished gifts upon him.
But as Solomon grew older, he began to depend less on God. I believe he began to depend on his own wisdom and to stray ever-further from God’s instruction. Where there was once humble dependence on God, there was now dependence on himself. In so doing, he strayed from words of knowledge, and strayed from God Himself. John Anderson once preached a sermon in which he said, “Erring from the words of knowledge is direct rebellion against the authority of God, whose law binds us to believe whatever he reveals. The language of obstinate error is, I prefer my own wisdom and my own will in such a particular to the wisdom and will of God himself.” Solomon preferred his wisdom to God’s wisdom, his ways to God’s ways. The whole earth once “sought the presence of Solomon to hear his wisdom, which God had put into his mind.” But I believe Solomon soon allowed his own earthly wisdom to overtake his mind. He ceased hearing instruction and strayed from words of knowledge. He strayed from wisdom. He strayed from God.
Wisdom and discernment, then, are character traits that, like the moon, can wax and wane. They are gifts of God, but gifts that we can throw away. They are gifts that need to be nurtured and maintained. We cannot take them for granted, taking refuge in the fact that we may be wise and discerning right now. We need to continue to strive after them and to seek them. We need to learn from Solomon that even the wisest man today may be the greatest fool tomorrow. We depend on grace, even to sustain our wisdom and discernment.
If Solomon could stray so far from the Lord, I know that I can too. This is a sobering thought. This is a terrifying thought, even. But the solution to avoiding the folly of Solomon is clear. I need to take care that I never cease to hear instruction. I must live with an intense focus on God’s Word, never believing that I have learned enough, never believing that I’ve arrived. I must know that from this day to the day I die, I need to maintain a humble dependence on God. I must trust that His words of instruction will continue to edify and strengthen me, protecting me from straying from the words of knowledge. I will never outgrow my need for His sustaining grace.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ, a husband to Aileen and a father to three young children. I worship and serve as a pastor at
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Comments (21)
Hi Tim. Reading Doug Wilson’s short commentary on Ecclesiastes, Joy at the End of the Tether, made me wonder if Solomon did end his life in repentance. Do you think the wisdom and faith evidenced in Ecclesiastes gives us some hope that Solomon experienced God’s mercy in the end?
Not to diminish the lesson we should learn from his straying!
“Cease to hear instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge.” (Pr. 19:27)
As we stand before those in our spiritual care with God’s word open before us, it seems there is sometimes a temptation to skip over the “easy stuff:” “Oh, they’ve heard this so many times before. Let me give them something really profound.”
But Peter emphasized that we should teach the “easy stuff” just as vigorously as (more vigorously than?) the difficult: “So I will always remind you of these things, even though you know them and are firmly established in the truth you now have. I think it is right to refresh your memory as long as I live in the tent of this body… (2 Peter 1:11-14)
As you say, I wonder if Solomon didn’t get a little bored with the “easy stuff” and end up in the ditch.
And is it my imagination, or does the reformed community have a peculiar challenge in this regard?
Yeah, probably just my imagination. . ..
The problem as I see it is not knowing more or reading more or having more wisdom. It is simply having the will to be obedient to the Word of God. It is a long way from wisdom to obedience - about the same distance as from the brain to the heart.
“I need to take care that I never cease to hear instruction. I must live with an intense focus on God’s Word, never believing that I have learned enough, never believing that I’ve arrived. I must know that from this day to the day I die, I need to maintain a humble dependence on God. I must trust that His words of instruction will continue to edify and strengthen me, protecting me from straying from the words of knowledge. I will never outgrow my need for His sustaining grace.”
I’ve long felt that these observations number among the most important we can make in our interactions with God’s word. As far as I’ve seen, these attitudes comprise the most basic foundation of Christian epistemology and any other view (conscious or otherwise - shown in practice) on these issues inevitably results in a chaotic downward spiral in my life.
God’s word is truly the “bottom line” for knowledge and living. Any self-directedness on my part in these areas is a broad road leading to destruction, always.
In a sense, I need to be a lot less like Solomon than I may seem to be. Wise in my own eyes and perhaps even the eyes of others (based on action), but incredibly self-reliant and fallen and urgently in need of help from Someone who can change me and create reality in my mind and life.
Tim, there is a strong parallel, I believe, between Pro. 1:7 and Matthew 6:33. In the passage in 1st Kings you quote in the post Solomon has an appropriate sense of the fear of God that leads to wisdom. As his life went on the unsettling events of his childhood &youth (Amnon, Tamar, Absalom) grew more distant. The clarity of Pro. 7 became obfuscated by the material blessings of his kingdom. Jesus tells us to seek the Kingdom of God first. Solomon certainly had a wonderful sense of this value in Proverbs, especially the first 9 chapters. But as you say, he wandered from that sense of awe. The protection for us is the continued sense of awe of the true riches of the kingdom of God and not necessarily the benefits that flow from it. Grace and not the benefits of grace must be our focus. Thanks for the post.
I’ve commented on some of these issues, Tim, and some may find the comments helpful (see link below).
In a nutshell, it is clear that Solomon did not follow Deut 17:14-20. It was not just foreign women that led to his fall (1 Kings 11); already in chapter 10 we see him importing horses from Egypt and heaping up wealth. His pursuit of possessions, power, and pleasure were the result of disobedience.
http://www.deinde.org/2007/08/24/social-location-and-interpretation-wealth-in-1-kings-10-11/
It is interesting to note that the very areas in which Solomon most obviously strayed were anticipated in Deuteronomy 17:16-17. I also find verses 18-20 to be very powerful: ” When he takes the throne of his kingdom, he is to write for himself on a scroll a copy of this law, taken from that of the priests, who are Levites. It is to be with him, and he is to read it all the days of his life so that he may learn to revere the LORD his God and follow carefully all the words of this law and these decrees and not consider himself better than his brothers and turn from the law to the right or to the left. Then he and his descendants will reign a long time over his kingdom in Israel.”(NIV)What a reminder that not even the wisest of the wise can cease to be diligent in exercising biblical discernment. What a challenge to us who have such wide access to the full cannon of scripture to be learning, steeping and constantly evaluating ourselves and our culture against that which God had provided as our standard.
It looks like Jason Hood had a similar thought. I guess that’s what happens when I work from home and get distracted by life happening in the middle of posting a comment!
700 wives = 700 mother in laws. Man. THAT is how we know that whole wisdom thing was trailing off there at the end of his life.
Solomon’s wisdom is unparalleled by any other human.
I’m sure you didn’t mean to not mention Jesus, who made certain claims regarding his own wisdom that would seem boastful coming from anyone else! (Mt 7:24-27)
But the comparison between Solomon, the wisdom teacher, and Jesus the greater wisdom teacher (indeed the very Wisdom of God) matters a great deal—maybe you have some more thoughts on this?
I agree with you that Solomon’s example is instructive, and not a little frightening. I would also see that he is a good reason for thanking God that through the Lord Jesus we have the Holy Spirit, whose wisdom is spoken of in 1 Corinthians 2.
7 But we impart a secret and hidden wisdom of God, which God decreed before the ages for our glory. 8 None of the rulers of this age understood this, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. 9 But, as it is written,”What no eye has seen, nor ear heard,nor the heart of man imagined,what God has prepared for those who love him”— 10 these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God.
(1 Cor 2:7-10, ESV)
In fact in reading those early chapters in 1 Corinthians, I wonder if there may even be a contrast between the wisdom of the cross, taught by Paul, and some of the wisdom that Solomon taught, which represents the very best and greatest wisdom of the world. So when Solomon says
A bribe is like a magic stone in the eyes of the one who gives it;wherever he turns he prospers.
(Prov. 17:8, ESV)
you have to suspect that as wise as this observation is, it is wisdom that would have delighted the Queen of Sheba more than it would have delighted the Lord Jesus.
Tim, thanks very much for this.
Not hard to understand by any means but fundamental for all of us, regardless of level of discernment and wisdom, to remember to apply what we know. The biggest limitation on the Christian is rarely not knowing better … it’s usually refusing or neglecting to apply what we’ve known all along.
Obviously with human nature it gets more twisted and more complex than this but often, speaking for myself, this is why I sin.
Clarification: it is not quite correct to say this is why I sin. Rather I should say that my sin usually stems from disobedience, not ignorance.
This is a good and sobering analysis of what happened to Solomon, and a pretty strong corrective for us. May God’s Word keep us humble all the days of our lives.
I think it’s helpful to note that Solomon did in fact repent at the end of his life (Ecclesiastes).
A reponse to a blog you made on spiritual gift assessments in 2005. I think it might be interesting to think about spiritual gifts as things that are already apart of us at the time we are born but are not manifest in a godly way until the Holy Spirit indwells us at our conversion. This may be why the assessment tests can be rightly completed by both christians and non-christians. I like to think that a better test regarding our spiritual gifts might be a video of a waitress delivering her food to a table….but trips and spills the food everywhere. What would you do at that moment if you knew you needed to help? Would you start helping her pick up, would you console her, would you direct the people nearby and organize an efficient clean up program, would you, well you see my point. Aren’t our natural reactions a reflection of how we see our purpose in the world, and isnt it the goal of our mentors, church, disciplers, to develop those gifts and send them out to be fruitful in their community? Just a thought.
Jedidiah = “beloved of Jehovah”
you who share in a heavenly calling, consider Jesus, the apostle and high priest of our confession, who was faithful to him who appointed him, just as Moses also was faithful in all God’s house. For Jesus has been counted worthy of more glory than Moses—as much more glory as the builder of a house has more honor than the house itself. For every house is built by someone, but the builder of all things is God. Now Moses was faithful in all God’s house as a servant, to testify to the things that were to be spoken later, but Christ is faithful over God’s house as a son.
Galatians 5:17; Philippians 2:12; Isaiah 45; Philippians 1:6
The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this Solomon.
So Jacob said to his household and to all who were with him, “Put away the foreign gods that are among you and purify yourselves and change your garments. Then let us arise and go up to Bethel, so that I may make there an altar to the God who answers me in the day of my distress and has been with me wherever I have gone.” So they gave to Jacob all the foreign gods that they had, and the rings that were in their ears. Jacob hid them under the terebinth tree that was near Shechem.
How is it that Jacob kept these gods of his wives? Which were by the way the gods that Abraham had worshipped in the land of the Chaldees which he brought out with him. How is it that they were hidden by Jacob and not destroyed? How is it that they remain hidden in the heart of Israel? What does that mean, O Israel, the church of the living God?
Take care, and do not be so quick to condemn Solomon, for the gods that were hidden in the heart of Israel, are still hidden in yours. Repent then for God desires that all his children, like the grandfather of Jesus, come to repentance, for he is not willing that any should perish.
Solomon was able to offer sacrifice acceptable to God as a priest, he was king, and prophet, the builder of the house who is the son of promise. It would seem quite a stretch to think that he was never saved. Now, work out your salvation with fear and trembling and pray that your life as a Christian has not been marked out along the lines of this one.
If ever there was a compelling case for a man to be the husband of but one wife (and no concubines) this was it!
This is my first visit to your blog and what a wonderful visit it was. Thank you for sharing this perspective on Solomon.
I recently “retired” at the age of 50 and I certainly understand the issues of pride and arrogance that must have crept into Solomon’s life. It smacked me right in the head when I sold my business and realized that I had allowed my “faith” to drift from its creator to the created.
I am currently under re-construction.
Thanks again!
Thanks for the blog! Personally, the most important lesson in Tim’s blog, and perhaps in Solomon’s disobedience, was a part of the closing statements: “…I have to maintain a humble dependence on God.” For me, this is one of the keys to discernment and wisdom as it should also be the source of all our prayers. In humility, we should recognize our dependence on God and pray as Daniel did “…[not] because we are righteous, but because of [His] great mercy” (9:18). Daniel was calling out because of Israel’s rebellion to God’s law and negligence in acknowleding God’s provision. Solomon, it seems, perhaps as a result of his riches and many women had forgotten about his reliance on God and that God was the source of his successes. He began to hold himself as righteous and neglected to remember and honor the Source. We must discipline ourselves to daily remember and honor our Source and, like the young Solomon, seek God’s wisdom above all else ever giving Him the glory in our gain.
Thanks Tim for this post!
I have always wondered the same thing about King Solomon too! Namely, how could the wisest man who ever lived … really screw it up so badly at the end of his life.
One would think that the character trait of perseverance would accompany wisdom.
Solomon forgot that what the Lord provides is usually ours for a time only - and not to use as we see fit or forever without replenishment. His failure was in not returning regularly to the source for a “refill” of the discernment he originally was granted.
Lean not on you own understanding…
Another random thought:
It has been said that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.
Solomon had enough power to become corrupted (and failed to realize that he needed to seek God for continued discernment), but not absolute power (reserved for God). Since he was only partly - and not fatally - corrupted, he was able to be redeemed to the Lord by the time of Ecclesiastes.