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To Be Full of God
- 03/30/09
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According to a new “Video Consumer Mapping” study by Ball State University, Americans aged 65 and older spend an average of 420 minutes per day in front of a television screen. 420 minutes per day. Let that sink in for just a moment. That is seven hours; seven full hours. Every day. On average. That means that half of the days it would be more than seven hours. Is that three hours in the morning, perhaps 8 until 11 and then four more in the evening, maybe 7 until 11 PM? How is it even possible? It is unbelievable. And it does not even include time spent watching DVDs or Tivo.
But perhaps it should not be that surprising considering that the average American of any age spends just over five hours per day watching TV. Older Americans, those who have retired, simply add a couple of extra hours onto the television they have already been consuming. America is obsessed.
I read this study and had to think about my life and whether I am on the kind of trajectory that will lead me to a useful, profitable, godly “retirement,” or the kind of retirement that will leave me spending endless hours in front of the tube. Some day I do hope to retire from the day-to-day money-earning responsibilities I have now. If God wills it, a time may come when I can dedicate more time to other things. But I hope and pray that it is something better, more spiritually-profitable, than television.
This was on my mind as I went to church yesterday. At Grace Fellowship Church we had the privilege of recognizing the hand of God in the life of one of our brothers as he was set apart as a pastor and elder. He is a man I’ve come to know well in the past few months and one I’ve come to respect a great deal. The gifting and call of God on his life is so clear, so obvious, that it was a joy to recognize it and to celebrate it together. Our pastor preached a sermon that, while it was directed specifically at this new elder, had application to all of us. He preached from 1 Timothy 4. There were a few words from that passage that stood out to me and resounded in my mind. “Rather train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come. The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance.” The pastors’ charge revolved around this: “The greatest gift you can be to our church is to be full of God.” In other words, “Be godly!”
“Godliness is of value in every way,” said the Apostle, “as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.” And surely if it has value for now and value for eternity, it also has value for the time between now and eternity! So it must be that godliness will protect me from being a senior Christian, a gray-haired retired old man, who has nothing more to do with my time than to spend seven or eight hours of every day in front of the television screen. This passage was speaking to me, challenging me to be a godly man, a godly Christian. In his commentary on these verses, Philip Ryken says, “The word “godliness” (eusebeia) occurs fifteen times in the New Testament, but nine of them are in this epistle. If someone had asked Timothy what Paul’s letter was about, he might well have said, ‘Well, I suppose it was mostly about the life in God’s household, but the thing that impressed me was my personal need for godliness.’” And like that Timothy of so many years ago, I want to be godly.
Ryken says as well, “Above all else, God wants his people and his ministers to be godly. This is why Paul did not give Timothy seven steps to boost church attendance, or helpful tips about becoming a better administrator, or a thorough critique of his preaching style. Instead, he gave him the most practical instruction of all: a good minister is a godly minister.” And, of course, a good Christian is a godly Christian. Though this letter is directed at Timothy as a pastor, it is directed as well at all of us as believers. “When it comes to physical conditioning, it usually helps to have a trainer. These days, if people want to get their bodies in top condition, they hire a personal trainer. The trainer’s job is to set up a schedule of exercises to get the client into shape. There is a sense in which every Christian has a personal trainer: the Holy Spirit, speaking in Scripture. The Spirit of God uses the Word of God to produce the life of God in the soul. What makes people godly is reading, hearing, studying, and meditating on the Bible. As John Stott points out, ‘We cannot become familiar with this godly book without becoming godly ourselves.’”
John Piper has recently released a little booklet called Rethinking Retirement. This is what he says about finishing life to God’s glory: “So finishing life to the glory of Christ means using whatever strength and eyesight and hearing and mobility and resources we have left to treasure Christ and in that joy to serve people—that is, to seek to bring them with us into the everlasting enjoyment of Christ. Serving people, and not ourselves, as the overflow of treasuring Christ makes Christ look great.” I suppose it is obvious that taking eight hours of every day to watch television would radically reduce a Christian’s ability to live that kind of a life. It is difficult to make Christ look great while basking endlessly in the glow of a flickering 37-inch rectangle.
In Piper’s booklet he quotes Ralph Winters of the U.S. Center for World Missions who says this: “Most men don’t die of old age, they die of retirement. I read somewhere that half the men retiring in the state of New York die within two years. Save your life and you’ll lose it. Just like other drugs, other psychological addictions, retirement is a virulent disease, not a blessing… .Where in the Bible do they see [retirement]? Did Moses retire? Did Paul retire? Peter? John? Do military officers retire in the middle of a war?” Piper says, “millions of Christian men and women are finishing their formal careers in their fifties and sixties, and for most of them there will be a good twenty years before their physical and mental powers fail. What will it mean to live those final years for the glory of Christ? How will we live them in such a way as to show that Christ is our highest Treasure?” Will that involve seven or eight hours of television every day?
Just a few more words from Piper: “When I heard J. Oswald Sanders at the Trinity Evangelical Divinity School chapel speaking at the age of eighty-nine say that he had written a book a year for Christ since he was seventy, everything in me said, ‘O God, don’t let me waste my final years! Don’t let me buy the American dream of retirement—month after month of leisure and play and hobbies and putzing around in the garage and rearranging the furniture and golfing and fishing and sitting and watching television. Lord, please have mercy on me. Spare me this curse.’”
I was convicted yesterday that to avoid this kind of a retirement, this kind of a curse, I need to be and to become a godly man. I need to continually recommit to godliness, knowing that godliness will profit me now and in eternity, but also in all of those periods of time between now and eternity—and perhaps especially in those years when so much else is being taken away. Godliness is of value in every way.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ, a husband to Aileen and a father to three young children. I worship and serve as a pastor at
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Comments (15)
A hardy Amen to that.
When we went through the Don’t Waste Your Life study, the following paragraph completely shifted my paradigm about retirement (and, actually, work and saving in a general way):I will tell you what a tragedy is. I will show you how to waste your life. Consider this story from the February 1998 Reader’s Digest: A couple took early retirement from their jobs in the Northeast five years ago when he was 59 and she was 51. Now they live in Punta Gorda, Florida, where they cruise on their 30-foot trawler, play softball and collect shells… . Picture them before Christ at the great day of judgment: ‘Look, Lord. See my shells.’ THAT is a tragedy. And people today are spending billions of dollars to persuade you to embrace that tragic dream.
It just hit me square in the face.
See my shells.
Thanks as always, Tim, for the great pointer!
Yeah, Brian, that was a great example that Piper gave in that study. Very sad to see how many people fall for the lie about a hedonistic retirement.
This is two-sided. I don’t think our society - or the church - values age. Maybe these older folks would have more to do if we engaged them more. We visit my mother in law who is cared for in a nursing home (she’s 60, but in the late stages of Alzheimers.) We walk past room after room of patients who are left in there and forgotten; many of them have family in the area who pay a ~monthly 30-minute visit (if anything). They beg us to come in, chat, visit, let our daughter play on the floor. We are usually there for hours. Where are the believers who are engaging these people? (Watching t.v., maybe?) If we value what the elderly are able to do in retirement, we also have to be committed to engaging them.
I can’t blame others but I don’t think I’m dispositionally suited for retirement. I have to plan my relaxation as it is and I’m only in my late 20s.
Having no set schedule and nothing of signficance to do every day is as close to hell on earth as I ever want to get. I hope to die quickly while living purposefully - if the Lord chooses a slower end to my earthly life, I hope to live purposefully for as long as my mental capacity allows.
I don’t collect shells. I collect people… lives touched… gospel shared… ideas exchanged…
We’re a ways from retirement, but realized recently that we were allowing our kids to develop an ever increasing appetite for ‘screen time’. The way you get to 7 hrs/day at age 65 is start with 3 hrs/day at age 5.
So, we started the 5:30 rule. No screen time before 5:30. Even on Saturday. Guess who wanted to break the rule worse than anyone? ME!! (The Mom.) Screen time means nobody’s begging for snacks. Screen time means no arguments about who’s lego guy it is. Screen time even means no checking the window to make sure all eight roller skate wheels are still rolling down the sidewalk. During screen time I can relax because the kids are safe and sound, in front of a screen with their mouths hanging open and their brain waves in a steady ……………………………… pattern.
But I’ve stuck with the 5:30 rule, and it’s fruit is sweet. More games and puzzles are covering our floors. More drawings and coloring pages are covering our fridge. More mud on shoes. More scabs growing on knees. More talking and working and parenting and forgiving. I think our house is more full of God.
I remember my grandpa who died in his nineties, wanted to plant acorns so the squirrels wouldn’t eat the walnuts (he was in his late eighties or so)He never retired, he just shifted his focus from one kind of earning activity to another as his bones grew older and the hard work needed to be done by his mind instead of his body.That’s how I see myself and it begs the question “What does God want me to be doing when I’m … ?”
Every elderly member of my family that I know about basically started to camp out in front of the tv around age 65 and did nothing else. Sometimes, they’d get up for the bathroom (sometimes not :)) My MIL eats there, sleeps in her chair there, doesn’t even go to bed.It’s terrible.
None Christians, either.
I’m a granny now living overseas showing God’s love to an unreached people group. What a joy! No TV, no radio but yes a laptop. Praying when we return we will not fall victim of being entertained. In fact we’ve talked about when or if we return to the states and how this type of living spoils you for the ordinary life.
I believe the survey is a bunch of hooey.
I also don’t believe I saw the words: “Fixed Income”, “Poor” or “Poverty”. in the article.
This is the mindset of those who find themselves fortunate enough to be able to hire a “personal trainer” and believe that their wealth is a blessing and reward. This is the type of preaching and teaching that comes from those who minister to the well-off and know nothing about ministering to an entire congregation of elderly folks who don’t have enough money to pay for the gas it takes to go across town more than once a week.
Men make their plans but the outcome is of the Lord.
I will say straight up , I plan to retire from labor. But that does not mean I plan to retire from life and being engaged in the kingdom business. Plus I take a bit of a different view on leisure. I don’t think its wrong for a person to play golf or even collect sea shells , but the question is , is that all they do . How do we know if that person playing golf isn’t talking and witnessing to those around him . We judge people so quickly and don’t stop to think first. As to TV , yes it is a problem if one is consuming too much,it can become an idol but at the same time it is a tool nothing more.For some retirement is forced on them. My father was so crippled up that he had to at the age of 54 . He is limited to having good days and bad days. I know many people like him . My wife suffers from seizure disorders so it will affect her in the future and even her ability to be as active in the church . So to some they would see an over abundance on leisure time . But like many they only see half the picture and make judgments based on a lack of information. I think one can enjoy all the good gifts God has given us , even leisure for his purposes and yes that’s even playing hockey , soft ball ,bowling or whatever . Because I think you can collect shells and say , look at the people that God placed in my contact area to scatter the gospel . That is the key.
Amen to this insightful article. How tragic it is that so few retirees seem to realize the great opportunities for increasing in godliness and being useful in the work of God. Thanks, Tim, for your insight.
I don’t know but I think God in his mercy may be bringing a shift into society where people will be unable to retire, from work at least, if Obama gets his way, I believe our inordinent dependence on wealth, riches and ease will be severely challenged in the coming years. Us Christians included.Just my personal opinion.
Great focus and thoughts. Thanks.
I was told recently in a talk of a lady in her eighties now in China riddled with arthritis, teaching and reaching out to the chinese people with the Gospel.
I bet one could use their retirement very much for God’s glory as they live among the retirement community, if that is the situation in which they are placed. I married a few months ago and now live and interact in a community that consists of many retired people (I’m 28, so a bit out of the normal age range). The church here is not largely Christ centered, I think, but my husband had the opportunity to give a sermon there once. I have participated in some social things here and have gotten to know some people here. They’ve been very welcoming. Church groups go on short term missions trips. It could be neat if some of them chose to go to a local retirement community. There are a few Christians here, at least a few. But I think so many people aren’t genuine believers, and retired people can have time for leisure activities or volunteering.
I know my grandparents are very active with volunteering in their retirement community, a different one than from where I live. Theirs is a Christian one, but perhaps to some they are a testimony in their love for the saints…