We Really Did It!

When I was a child my father would occasionally take me to work with him. Dad did not work in an office so this was not a typical “take your child to work” situation. Dad was a landscaper and a day with dad was a day in the hot sun. It was a day of hard work, hauling, digging, planting, watering, tending. As a child I would grow discouraged at how little I could do in comparison to dad. By the time I had hauled a couple of flats of plants from the truck to the garden, he would have hauled a hundred. By the time I had dug a hole big enough to fit a rose, he would have finished a dozen. Even when I did get something done quickly, he would almost inevitably tell me that I had done it poorly and would tell me to go back and do it properly. After a while I would wonder if there was any reason at all to even help him. What could I really accomplish in comparison?

And yet at the end of the day dad would thank me for my help and would stop and buy me an ice cream or another treat. And he would give me a few dollars as payment for what I had done. Despite false starts, despite carelessness, despite weakness, I really was able to help dad out. Together we got the job done, even if my half of the work was, well, a lot less than half.

A few days ago I was reflecting on how good God is to allow us to work with him and to sometimes do his work on his behalf. When we share the gospel with unbelievers or when we preach the gospel to our brothers and sisters in Christ, it is easy to see our own inadequacy, our own shortcomings. It is easy to grow discouraged, knowing how little we can accomplish. Why bother with our fractional percent when God is the one who must provide all of the power?

As I was thinking about these things, I came across a great illustration in Gorden Cheng’s Encouragement: How Words Change Lives (published by Matthias Media). He describes an occasion where his work, foolish though it may seem, really does make a difference.

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When the entire family decides to plant baby lettuce on a Saturday afternoon in the backyard, certain realities apply and certain home truths about family dynamics and gardening knowledge must be taken into account. My wife is extremely well aware of these realities; the rest of us are somewhat aware in a descending order that begins with me, and gradually drops down to our seven-year-old (who, truth be known, is starting to get quite good and is beginning to ask question about my ability in this area), down to our four-year-old and finally to our three-year-old. The latter two contribute enthusiasm and a certain degree of, let’s say, unrestrained passion about how things ought to be done and who ought to do them first. As a direct result of this scenario, it is fair to suggest that every single task that needs to be completed in the garden takes three to five times longer than if Fiona (my wife) were to do it herself. Digging a furrow takes longer. Putting plants into the furrow takes longer. It is an activity fraught with risk both to the baby lettuce and to the dogs underfoot. At least one adult is employed for the entire gardening period keeping an eye on the most recent location of the pitchfork, and helping recover small plants from under a layer of newly thrown mulch. Snails, as the oldest of us have now realized, are not potential pets—but we haven’t yet had the heart to tell the two youngest, and so the location of their mollusc collection has also turned out to be one of those things that just has to be carefully monitored.

But for all the slow, distracting and sometimes dangerous things that happen in our garden, there is no doubt that all of us really are gardening. Every single one of the children’s mistakes, and a good number of mine as well, will be overruled by grace. The good things we do really are good things. In the kindness and providence of God, the children (and I) are becoming better gardeners than when we first began. When we stand in the garden in the summer sunshine we will be happy because we really did it.

And that is how it is with God and us, his fellow workers, in his church. We really are helping him. Those who see our efforts may laugh at what we do. We ourselves may become frustrated and upset by mistakes and lack of competence. We may become dimly aware, from time to time, that what we thought was useful and helpful was, unfortunately, nothing of the sort. But provided that we keep our focus on what God says in his word, and continue to speak that same truth in love, the gospel we speak will continue to transform our own lives and the lives of others. And that gospel work will result in a growth that bears fruit into eternity.

Comments (8)

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Anonymous's picture

Every now and then I’ll read comments where people write how the post of the day really strikes a cord, because it deals with something they have just experienced. Well this is that kind of post for me. Yesterday I was in my front yard with my four year old son and I was trimming the roses and pulling weeds. My son didn’t understand that the weeds needed to be pulled by the roots and I could have picked up all the rose branches in half the time without him, yet I could tell it meant so much to him to be out there working with me, and it became more than just house chores for me because he was with me. What a blessing to read this post after having just lived it.

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Anonymous's picture

Tim, connect this post and its implications to your review of Unfashionable…the final lines speak of transformation of our lives and others. I am assuming this means: what we do, how we think, how we live, how we create, how we treat others, what sort of institutions we shape…no?

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Anonymous's picture

Tim,

Paul uses the phrase “fellow workers” in the NIV numerous times when talking about his partners in the battle for souls:

2 Corinthians 6:1 NIV As God’s fellow workers we urge you not to receive God’s grace in vain.

Philippians 4:3 NIV Yes, and I ask you, loyal yokefellow, help these women who have contended at my side in the cause of the gospel, along with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life.

Colossians 4:11 NIV Jesus, who is called Justus, also sends greetings. These are the only Jews among my fellow workers for the kingdom of God, and they have proved a comfort to me.

Philemon 1:24 NIV And so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke, my fellow workers.

Romans 16:3 NIV Greet Priscilla [ Greek Prisca, a variant of Priscilla] and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Jesus.

Here he speaks specifically of our usefulness to God:

1 Corinthians 3:9 NIV For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building.

In Christ,

Dan…

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Anonymous's picture

That’s encouraging. How much more our Father in heaven loves us who are His in Christ, when we stumble about in our faith sowing mustard seeds, and even half mustard seed faith in love.

Our Father loves us more than we love our own children. Take your greatest affection for your son or daughter, and make that same love everlasting (Jer. 31:3), and even infinite, and that’s Jesus’ love for us, those He died for; those He called, who love Him now, because He first loved us.

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Anonymous's picture

This one’s going in the file… Thanks, Tim!

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Anonymous's picture

Very beautifully put. Thanks.

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Anonymous's picture

Dan H,I was thinking about some of those texts that you quoted. Right on!

Tim thanks for sharing this perspective. God really is at work in us both to will and to do for his pleasure. Amazing…..Matt Troupe

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Anonymous's picture

I appreciate your words of encouragement Tim! I have often felt like my fathering abilities have come very short, and they have, and I have often hung my head in shame before God. However, Last week my daughter gave her testimony before her church which is quite “t4g reformed” and in another state then mine, fairly large congregation and she gave credit to me for her understanding of the gospel stating that I would always challenge her to articulate the gospel and what it means, now she is preaching to me about Calvinism and Piper and not “wasting your life” and all that! I thought she never heard a word I said. My son on the other hand does not like the church says its boring and to religious, I actually agree with him to a point but I’m more mature, he says its not Jesus he doesn’t like its going to church, he has what I would call a more emergent mind set though he would not term it that way, he does like Driscoll, and my other two teenage daughters are more of a charismatic mind set and in fact attend a charismatic church, which consists of about 90% college and high school age kids with loud music and a young pastor, that’s right my kids don’t go to church where I and my wife attend, however, In my house my kids are challenged quite consistently to make a clear statements of the gospel and it is based on Bridges book Discipline of Grace, chapter 3 Preaching the Gospel to Yourself. They may roll their eyes but they’ll do it. My garden is full of weeds I will not be in denial or downplay it but in and above the weeds I am seeing the fruits of eternal life, if you ask any of my kids to explain the gospel they would be able to give a clear explanation, and they BELIEVE IT. Are they perfect? NO, but I see movment in that direction. So yea tim our shortcomings will be over ruled by Gods grace and ultimatly God causes the growth not us. I would be in absolute and total dispair if that were not the case.