Monday Ramblings

Some of the people who read this site love the book reviews. Other people hate them. Those poor souls must be frustrated as I have posted an awful lot of reviews over the past few days. I can’t bring myself to apologize for this. I have had a long and strange week and somehow found myself reading even more than usual. That has resulted in a large number of book reviews (including a few that have not yet been posted). I will try to find something else to post for tomorrow and then, beginning Wednesday, I hope to begin live-blogging the Together for the Gospel Conference (featuring John Piper, John MacArthur, R.C. Sproul, etc).

Speaking of which, I’d like to thank all of those who have been praying for my wife. I was quite successful in keeping her offer her feet last week. Over the past seven days I have made 28 breakfasts (7 breakfasts for 4 people), 28 lunches, 28 dinners and 28 after-dinner snacks. I’ve done the shopping, washing, cleaning, walking, bathing, banking and a whole lot of little-kid-bum-wiping. I’ve also managed to work a 40-hour week up in my office. I have seen clear evidence of God’s grace in my life in that I have not resented this work, have not complained about it, and have not been seeking validation in Aileen’s expressions of gratitude. It has been a blessing to be able to serve and I’ve enjoyed taking care of her. I can’t help but think that this would not have been the case a year or two ago. Humble service has always come hard to me, but it seems that God has been working on this with me.

Tomorrow at noon she has another midwife appointment and we’ll get the final word on her blood pressure. If it is above a certain threshold, she will have to consult some experts and they will take over that area of her care. Depending on the obstetritian they consult, this could require Aileen just going home and continuing on as-is or being immediately induced. It is that subjective. So we’re just hoping (Aileen even more than me) that she’ll check out just fine, she’ll be able to return home and wait another few weeks for the baby to come, and I’ll be able to head to Kentucky for the two-day conference. My sister will be arriving tomorrow to spend the week with Aileen.

So please continue to pray. There is no great likelihood of harm to mother or baby, but depending on the circumstances, it could prove to be a very difficult, inconvenient three weeks before that due date rolls around.

In other news, I am going to make a major announcement tomorrow about a project I have been working on for a long, long time. Be sure to check in and see what all the fuss is about.

And now, it is just after 5:00 PM and I have got work to do. Dinner has to be made, dishes have to be washed and the cupboards need to be restocked…

Comments (10)

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Anonymous's picture

It is an honor to pray for your family.

What a marvelous testimony of how God can provide exactly what is needed… a servants heart to see such things as a holy privilege instead of mundane drudgery!

To HIM be ALL the glory!!!

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Anonymous's picture

Praying. . .

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Anonymous's picture

I really thank you for sharing how your week has been going. I appreciate your words because my wife had surgery on Friday and she has had to stay off her feet as well. I’m appreciating all that my wife does taking care of three kids all day. WOW. Saturday was non-stop action. At one point I had three bums to wipe within 10 minutes, and then while I was wiping one bum my daughter came over and said, “Daddy I want something to drink.” I just told her that I was a little busy right now and I’d get it in a minute. Today took the cake, because I fixed 5 different meals for lunch, and during lunch I had two breaks with little bums to wipe. It seemed like lunch time lasted 2 hours, and then I was able to eat.

When going through times like this, I’m very appreciative of my wife and all the work that she does around the home. I’m truly humbled by her expression of love and devotion to our family.

Blessings to your family.

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Anonymous's picture

Praying for a healthy delivery!

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Anonymous's picture

I can’t bring myself to apologize for this.”

Oh, go ahead. We won’t mind.

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Anonymous's picture

God’s grace for sure! Nothing sweeter than to watch a family go through the “dailies” with Him at their sides.

Praying !

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Anonymous's picture

The most important ministry any man has is to his own family! In my mind the greatest struggle is thankfulness, which God has graciously given me! The last six weeks of my wife’s last pregnancy were extremely difficult. She dislocated her hip, and due to hormones that relax the ligaments her hip was unable to heal until after the delivery. So I was in your position, getting our 3 little ones dressed and fed before heading up to the church building, coming home to help with lunch, and doing the regular night-time routine. After the first week or so, I got into a nice routine and found it to be enjoyable. I also started doing laundry for the first time in my life ;-).

Peace Brother,Andrew

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Anonymous's picture

Praying for you and Ailleen! See you at T4G. —Phil

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Anonymous's picture

Well done, Tim.

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Anonymous's picture

It’s great that you can be in your wife’s shoes for a while—it’ll help you to appreciate all the more what she does to take care of your family. Will keep up the prayers. (I have to admit I’m amused at your method of calculating how many meals you’ve made. We have a family of six, but when I make the meal, I count it as one, not six….)

And don’t ever apologize for the book reviews. Keep them coming. Looking forward to your liveblogging in the next few days.