Reading Classics Together - The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment (V)

The more I read of this book the more comfortable I am declaring it one of the best books I've ever read. I hope that is no small praise as I've read an awful lot of books. But this, at least through the first half (or nearly half) is speaking to me in a way few books do. The teaching is powerful, the illustrations superb. I have read and enjoyed Burroughs in the past, but never as much as I am enjoying reading The Rare Jewel.

Summary

Having dedicated three chapters to "The Mystery of Contentment," Burroughs turns now to two chapters that explain "How Christ Teaches Contentment." I had taken this to be a look at Christ's modeling of contentment through his life and ministry, but this is not quite it. Instead, he shows how Christ teaches contentment through the Word and through the Spirit. In the first of these chapters he offers six ways Christ does this:

The Lesson of Self-Denial. "Just as no-one can be a scholar unless he learns his ABC, so you must learn the lesson of self-denial or you can never become a scholar in Christ's school, and be learned in this mystery of contentment." He looks at ways that Christ teaches self-denial and how each brings about contentment. 1) Such a person learns to know that he is nothing. 2) I deserve nothing. 3) I can do nothing. 4) I am so vile that I cannot of myself receive any good. 5) We can make use of nothing when we have it, if God but withdraws himself. 6) We are worse than nothing. 7) If we perish we will be no loss. 8) Through self-denial the soul comes to rejoice and take satisfaction in all God's ways. (Has anyone else noticed that he has a bad habit of flipping between the first person singular and the first person plural? Where was his editor?)

Here is one of my favorite quotes from this section: "Christ teaches the soul this, so that, as in the presence of God on a real sight of itself, it can say: 'Lord, I am nothing, Lord, I deserve nothing, Lord, I can do nothing, I can receive nothing, and can make use of nothing, I am worse than nothing, and if I come to nothing and perish I will be no loss at all and therefore is it such a great thing for me to be cut short here?' A man who is little in his own eyes will account every affliction as little, and every mercy as great."

The Vanity of the Creature. Let me just quote Burroughs here as he uses one of his trademark illustrations: "Many men think that when they are troubled and have not got contentment it is because they have but a little in the world, and that if they had more then they should be content. That is just as if a man were hungry, and to satisfy his craving stomach he should gape and hold open his mouth to take in the wind, and then should think that the reason why he is not satisfied is because he has not got enough of the wind; no, the reason is because the thing is not suitable to a craving stomach. Yet there is really the same madness in the world: the wind which a man takes in by gaping will as soon satisfy a craving stomach ready to starve, as all the comforts in the world can satisfy a soul who knows what true happiness means. You would be happy, and you seek after such and such comforts in the creature."

To Know the One Thing Needful. Just as Jesus taught this lesson to Martha, he teaches it to us. "I see that it is not necessary for me to be rich, but it is necessary for me to make my peace with God; it s not necessary that I should live a pleasurable life in this world, but it is absolutely necessary that I should have pardon of my sin; it is not necessary that I should have honor and preferment, but it is necessary that I should have God as my portion, and have my part in Jesus Christ, it is necessary that my soul should be saved in the day of Jesus Christ."

To Know One's Relation to the World. Through the Spirit Christ teaches the Christian in what relation his soul is to the world. He teaches that the Christian is just a pilgrim, a sojourner, on this earth. His true home is in heaven. "Consider what your condition is, you are pilgrims and strangers; so do not think to satisfy yourselves here. When a man comes into an inn and sees there a fair cupboard of plate, he is not troubled that it is not his own.- Why? Because he is going away. So let us not be troubled when we see that other men have great wealth, but we have not.-Why? We are going away to another country; you are, as it were, only lodging here, for a night. If you were to live a hundred years, in comparison to eternity it is not as much as a night, it is as though you were travelling, and had come to an inn. And what madness is it for a man to be discontented because he has not got what he sees there, seeing he may be going away again within less than a quarter of an hour?"

Wherein the Good of the Creature Is. Christ teaches that the good of the creature consists in the enjoyment of God in anything, everything. "When a Christian, who has been in the school of Christ, and has been instructed in the art of contentment, has some wealth, he thinks, In that I have wealth above my brethren, I have an opportunity to serve God the better, and I enjoy a great deal of God's mercy conveyed to my soul through the creature, and hereby I am enabled to do a great deal of good: in this I reckon the good of my wealth. And now that God has taken this away from me, if he will be pleased to make up the enjoyment of himself some other way, will call me to honor him by suffering, and if I may do God as much service now by suffering, that is, by showing forth the grace of his Spirit in my sufferings as I did in prosperity, I have as much of God as I had before. So if I may be led to God in my low condition, as much as I was in my prosperous condition, I have as much comfort and contentment as I had before."

The Knowledge of One's Own Heart. According to Burroughs, "a Christian, next to the Book of God, is to look into the book of his own heart, and to read over that, and this will help you to contentment in three ways." The three ways are: 1) By studying your heart you will come soon to discover wherein your discontent lies. 2) This knowledge of our hearts will help us to contentment, because by it we shall come to know what best suits our condition. 3) By knowing their own hearts they know what they are able to manage, and by this means they come to be content. I particularly enjoyed this third point--that when we study our own hearts we will realize that some of what God takes from us, he takes because he knows we would not be able to manage it. He knows our limitations far better than we do. "We would not cry for some things if we knew that we were not able to manage them."

This is growing long so I will stop here! But suffice it to say that I consider this the best chapter and I am (literally) excited to get to next week's reading.

Next Week

For next week, just press on with chapter 6, "How Christ Teaches Contentment (Concluded)."

Discussion

The purpose of this program is to read these classics together. So if there is something you'd like to share about what you read, please feel free to do so. You can leave a comment or a link to your blog and we'll make this a collaborative effort.

Comments (17)

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Anonymous's picture

I too think this is one of the best books I have ever read. The subject's importance to the Christian life and our ability to glorify God simply cannot be overstated. I have read this book a few times now trying over and over to glean from the many complex, detailed and spectacular facets of this rare jewel. I don't read too many non-fiction books multiple times but this one, I think, is well worth a second read. This is one of those that renders a highlighter useless because there is just so much to highlight that your markings would be almost indistinguishable one from another!

Your commentary on this book and the reflections of others is a blessing!

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Anonymous's picture

I agree: this is turning out to be a fantastic book for me, too. I’ve really appreciated that Burroughs uses so many concrete examples to flesh out his points. Otherwise, I could easily get lost in them at times.

Here’s my at-a-glance look at Burroughs’ 6 lessons on “How to Be Content:

1. Learn to deny yourself.2. Don’t seek contentment in things of this world.3. Understand that only one thing is necessary: peace with God.4. Remember you’re only passing through.5. Use every situation to draw nearer to God.6. Study your own heart.

I posted a little more here.

I look forward to reading what others have to share about this chapter.

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Anonymous's picture

Tim,

you've taken the words out of my mouth...again: The more I read of this book the more comfortable I am declaring it one of the best books I’ve ever read. I hope that is no small praise as I’ve read an awful lot of books. But this, at least through the first half (or nearly half) is speaking to me in a way few books do.

I think this is a reflection of my lack of contentment...this book is hitting me between the eyes with every chapter.

Here is the concluding paragraph from my blog:This is hard tonic to take even from the humble among us, let alone the egotistical. Burroughs clarifies these thoughts with interesting examples and proofs. He shares Scriptures and quotes to give substance to his argument. However, I thought it fitting to leave all of us narcissism-bent creatures the shocking and jarring Lesson of Self-Denial without the sometimes soothing details. If Christian contentment is the aim then all narcissists should proceed at their own risk.

Read the rest here.

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Anonymous's picture

I agree this is one of the best books I've ever read. I think I've said this before here, but I would recommend reading this book every year or two. If there's one thing the world system seems hell bent to do, it's to ensure we are discontent. It was the state the serpent induced in Eve to bring about the fall of mankind, and as long as we find ourselves discontent, we are susceptible to temptations of every kind - it becomes the ring in the snout by which we may be led around.

Anyway, I've posted an overview and a few additional thoughts here: http://lauriemo.blogspot.com/2009/07/rare-jewel-chapter-five.html and plan an additional post on self-denial as it related to contentment later in the week.

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Anonymous's picture

I was struck by the 7th lesson point that was made, “If we perish we will be no loss”. In recent days while doing family tree research I have realized that my grandparents and great-grandparents, who I had the gift of knowing for many years before they passed away, have been entirely forgotten by all but a couple of people, myself being one. They lived full rich lives with many friends and were a witness of Christ to others, but in just a few relative years, their lives and who they were have been blotted from the memory of all but just a handful of people. We all need to live our lives with the realization that we are but a blade of grass that quickly perishes and is gone forever. It does a lot to put our concerns and worries into perspective.

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Anonymous's picture

"By knowing their own hearts they know what they are able to manage, and by this means they come to be content." I also enjoyed this last point. In His sovereign wisdom, God knows our hearts and teaches us to know them also, so that we understand why He takes something away from us or does not allow us to have something that we desired. He knows what we can handle, and we can, therefore, rest content in whatever condition we find ourselves in. I don't know about the other readers, but when I read this point, my mind immediately jumped to several circumstances in my life where I now realize this as true. If I had been given my way, like the illustration of the child wanting a knife, it would have been disastrous, and so God gave me instead exactly what I needed, what I could manage.

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This quote was one of my favorite of the 5th chapter: "In the same way you were in a prosperous estate, and there God was calling you to some service that you took pleasure in; but suppose God said: 'I will use you in a suffering condition, and I will have you to honor me in that way.'? This is how you honor God, that you can turn this way or that way, as God calls you to it. Thus having learned this, that the good of the creature consists in the enjoyment of God in it, and the honoring of God by it, you can be content, because you have the same good that you had before, and that is the fifth lesson."

This to me is the ultimate, in our lives, of submission to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. It really does say that The Lord Jesus Christ knows what is best for us, to bring about His own glory.

As Paul said in Romans, "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." Many times in my life I have to ask myself do I really believe that ALL things work together for good? May we press on in this book, to learn more helpful ways to be content!

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Anonymous's picture

Wow, I think I've been missing something in not joining in this reading. I will add it to my reading list forthwith and put it at or near the top. I felt that it didn't fit my schedule to join in this time, but in reading your post Tim and the comments, believe it will be quite timely and helpful! Thanks.

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Anonymous's picture

The reading of this book has been such a balm to by heart. All of it has been so applicable to by life so helpful and comforting, thank you for the opportunity share in the reading of it with you.Because the chapters keep better I also am finding it a highlighters nightmare!As I was reading Chapter 5 I was reminded of a phrase from one of my favorite missionary books " In Search of the Source A First Encounter with God's Word” By Neil Anderson with Hyatt Moore.... one of the Folopa men had just truly understood a deep spiritual truth from God's word and his response was written down as this..."He looked around at the others, the whites of his eyes flaring in deep-set sockets. He leaned back with a sigh, like it was beyond his grasp. Then he said what they always say when something hits them at the deepest level: "We are dying of the deliciousness of this talk."This book is truly delicious. A few things I found particularly good were....those whose hearts are enlarged and make public things their ends, and can deny themselves, have room to walk and never jostle with one another... and ...If we are well versed in our own hearts, when anything happens to unsettle us, we soon find out the cause of it, and so quickly become quiet.

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The reading of this book has been such a balm to by heart. All of it has been so applicable to by life so helpful and comforting, thank you for the opportunity share in the reading of it with you.Because the chapters keep better I also am finding it a highlighters nightmare!As I was reading Chapter 5 I was reminded of a phrase from one of my favorite missionary books " In Search of the Source A First Encounter with God's Word” By Neil Anderson with Hyatt Moore.... one of the Folopa men had just truly understood a deep spiritual truth from God's word and his response was written down as this..."He looked around at the others, the whites of his eyes flaring in deep-set sockets. He leaned back with a sigh, like it was beyond his grasp. Then he said what they always say when something hits them at the deepest level: "We are dying of the deliciousness of this talk."This book is truly delicious. A few things I found particularly good were....those whose hearts are enlarged and make public things their ends, and can deny themselves, have room to walk and never jostle with one another... and ...If we are well versed in our own hearts, when anything happens to unsettle us, we soon find out the cause of it, and so quickly become quiet.

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Anonymous's picture

Concur with the others; this is becoming one of my favorites. There's so much help here, and it is given is a pointed yet gracious way, such that I feel motivated but not condemned. His illustration about how we content ourselves with many things while we are traveling that we would not put up with while at home was nothing short of incredible. I mean, this gave me real, tangible meat that could change the way I think and live. Surely I am here do carry out the Master's business, and while I'm doing this, I will not have all the accomodations of "home." But I have "home" to look forward to, and thus I can be content with the Master's provisions here. This struck immediately at how I am pursuing my wife. I love her deeply and want her holiness; but if I expect my wife to bring a level of satisfaction that cannot be had, I will not joyfully endure the slings and arrows of our marriage. This was incredibly life-giving for me. Thanks again, Tim. I will heartily recommend this book to others.

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Anonymous's picture

I love this book. Reading it has been timely in my personal life as my husband's place of employment is directly impacted by the poor economy and therefore he's always in danger of loosing his job. And yet, as I read Burrough's book I have really been convicted that our contentment should not be in things (a no-brainer but I think we need constant reminding) and that the things of this world are temporary. That anxiety is not a quality connected with a mature Christian. But what really struck me this week is how opposite Burrough's teaching is to what the world teaches, including many Christian teachers. I am nothing. I can do nothing. I deserve nothing. Not exactly self esteem teaching.

One of my favourite quotes too is : A man who is little in his own eyes will account every affliction as little, and every mercy as great.”

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Anonymous's picture

Tim,

Thanks for sharing your thoughts as well as the author's on contentment. My soul was downcast today and has been recently; after reading your post I feel as though I can pretty much place my finger on the problem. How quickly I forget what I really deserve (wrath) and how quickly I forget what I really have(peace with God).

Steve

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Anonymous's picture

I guess I am not as gushy as most of the commentors about this text as I was with Jonathan Edwards. Nonetheless, I am finding continued comfort as I begin to wrestle with the concept of contentment.

One is not going to find contentment as long as self is allowed in the picture. Further, I have found the divorce of self to be a far more daunting task then imagined.

I am happily on the great Surgeons table, and handing Him scalpel, and suture, and longing for the day when I can truly profess that Christ is indeed my all.

My lips profess it, my head professes it, but my heart is still apt to abandon the quest.

Take my heart Lord, take and seal it, seal it for Thy courts above.

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Anonymous's picture

I've added a post on self-denial as it relates to contentment here: http://lauriemo.blogspot.com/2009/07/contentment-and-self-denial.html

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Anonymous's picture

I've added a post on pilgrimage and contentment here: http://lauriemo.blogspot.com/2009/07/contentment-comes-to-travelers.html