Of all that is unique about the Christian faith, this aspect stands apart: Its leaders are not called to their positions because of rare skill, raw talent, or overwhelming desire. They are not qualified by the charismatic personality, the ability to draw a crowd, or skilled rhetoric. Rather, Christian leaders are called and qualified by godly character. In passages like 1 Timothy 3:2-7, Titus 1:6-9, and 1 Peter 5:1-3 we read what a man must be if he is to serve as pastor (or elder, if you prefer). But D.A. Carson has rightly pointed out that the list of qualifications for elders is “remarkable for being unremarkable.” Why? Because “the criteria mentioned are demanded of all Christians everywhere. Which is another way of saying, elders are first of all to be exemplars of the Christian graces that are presupposed as mandated on all Christians.” Every church is meant to be full of men and women who display these traits. And if every Christian is meant to display them, every Christian should pray for them. This little guide lists each of those qualifications and suggests a few prayers related to each one. Personally, I pray for one of these traits each day, using the bullet points as a guide. Perhaps you will find it helpful to do something similar. (Note: I have a booklet on this topic meant for individual or group study.) Above Reproach I pray… A One-Woman Man (or a One-Man Woman) I pray… Sober-Minded I pray… Self-Controlled I pray… Respectable I pray… Hospitable … Continue reading How to Pray Like a Pastor