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Involuntary Community
- 10/14/07
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One of my ongoing concerns with the way churches tend to be gathered today is that people seek to build very homogeneous communities. Pastors or church planters often choose a target audience and attempt to attract primarily that kind of person, gearing all the church does to one particular audience. Many of these churches have seen dramatic growth, but growth that does not show a lot of diversity. Yet diversity is one of the things the church is known for, or at least that the church should be known for. Our churches are meant to reflect the reality that God’s people is made of those of every nation, every tribe and every tongue. The mixture of ages, cultures, and even languages is meant to stand as a testimony to God’s amazing ability and desire to draw to Himself people of all kinds.
Of course we feel much more comfortable around people who are like us. It stands to reason that we prefer to gather with people who are our age, who look like us, who talk like us, and who we would otherwise be glad to spend time with. As I was recently reading A Journey Worth Taking by Charles Drew, I came across a quote that I found convicting.
“Church” is not an event. It is people—people whom God calls us to love. What is more, it is in a very important sense an involuntary community of people: we don’t choose our brothers and sisters—God does. And sometimes (oftentimes) those people are not terribly compatible with us—not the people we would choose to hang out with. But it is this very incompatibility that is so important, for at least two reasons. First, learning to love the people I don’t like is by far the best way to learn how to love (it’s easy to love people I happen to like). Second, the church is supposed to be a sociological miracle—a demonstration that Jesus has died and risen to create a new humanity composed of all sorts of people.
This challenged me to learn to love and appreciate the people in my community of believers who may not be like me. They may bear little resemblance to me, to my family, or to the way we live. Yet instead of allowing this to keep me from them, I should view this as grounds to learn about them, to get to know them, and to learn to love them. As we build loving relationships between people who would otherwise have little in common, we enjoy just a glimpse of the heavenly diversity we will enjoy for eternity.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ, a husband to Aileen and a father to three young children. I worship and serve as a pastor at
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Comments (17)
too true Tim…I live in the deep south and we have “white” churches and “black” churches…they weren’t planned that way, people just naturally congregated to one of those two churches…we have some that have some racial diversity, but not much….it is sad and makes me want to do outreach specifically aimed at drawing in diversity.
Jesus is our common denominator. Just because a church is populated does not mean it is healthy. Three primary marks of a healthy church is that of biblical authority, the worship and the sacraments, and commmunity. The third of these can make or break a church just as much as abuse of one or both of the other two. I love community like I love the word preached.
Hey Tim,
Another book you may enjoy reading is called “People of the Dream”, a book on multi-racial churches in North America, focusing on a church in Houston called Wilcrest.
I don’t know that I agree with the 3 elements of a Healthy Church, but I do agree that community is critical. Oddly enough, Jesus never said we would be known as His by our leaders (authority), nor our worship/sacraments. but by our love. Love for God, Love for our neighbors. Love for our enemies. When we begin to focus on Jesus’ priority, maybe we will begin to experience what the disciples experienced in being with Jesus.
Hi Tim,
Helpful post. Do you have any suggestions on biblical ways to build diversity in a church? My concern is that my current church seems to have gotten a little overly focused on cultivating diversity. It seems like it’s almost all we talk about now. In the past 9 months I think I’ve heard 15-20 sermons focused on becoming a more multiracial church and maybe 1 sermon that made the gospel explicitly clear. Any thoughts?
I also live in the Deep South and for a time attended a large church with racial diversity. This drew me to that church because I always thought the local body should be made up of all kinds’ people seeking to grow in the Lord and reaching out to the community. However, they were not preaching the Word. Most of the sermons were on health and prosperity. They achieved diversity at the expense of watering down God’s Word.
The church-universal is diverse. The church-congregational, is NOT, which is the condition you are exposing. However, it seems to me that the issue is not necesarily the oftentimes homogeneous appearance of the people who worship in any given church, but rather, the heart attitude of the pastor and congregants with respect to “inclusivity” versus “exclusivity”, not relative to watered down doctrine that embraces deviant behavior, but as relates to welcoming people who differ racially, culturally.
I was intrigued by the first commentor above, who wants to outreach in the interest of diversity. I wonder if he has considered joining a church defined by a race other than his own to accomplish diversity, rather than trying to outreach to balance his own semi-segregated place of worship.
It seems to me it is the Holy Spirit who adds souls to the rolls.
Our little chapel has but five households. We are all white. All with kids home school. Obviously, we all live in the same area. We all earn probably within $50,000 of each other. So I think you could say we are homogenous.
But we have never even been VISITED by a black visitor. We have done ad campaigns in the local campus newspaper, certainly read by all races.
We have had black pulpit supply, and our Bible study teacher is Asian.
Rather than make it a priority to get non-white people in the building, it seems to me that we should have a gut check as to whether we are being racist in our attitudes or actions; and if not, just keep putting out the gospel and hoping for men of all nations to hear and respond.
The issue I see Tim bringing up here goes beyond mere racial diversity. If I am right, and correct me if I am not, Tim seems to be questioning the legtimacy of targeting any sect of the population in doing church - not simply race or national origin, but also particular sects within a particular culture.
For example, I think Tim’s primary concern is that churches/church planters should not say build their ministry around ministering specifically to the trendy college population in a city. This may or may not have racial implications, but this seems to be his focus.
That being the case, I don’t think we can simply relegate all concerns to ministering to a particular aspect of any culture to the trash in the name of promoting diversity in the church. The facts are the facts, when you look at churches the predominant attendars in that ministry are those to whom the ministry is driven. There are exceptions to the rule, but white churches that play the top 100 on ccli.com in their worship services with a pastor under 40 will not be able to help but attract a population of white young couples and college students. The pastor who is over 55 who plays primarily hymns with an organ and wears suits on sundays will naturally, and always, attract an older more sophisticated crowd.
You can want diversity all you want, but how you do things will have an inevitable consequence as to those who attend your church. Unless God moves to bring in diversity, the natural course by which things work will naturally result in a general commanality between people in a given church.
Whether or not a church picks a particular sub culture to reach out to or not is not really that big of a deal. Every time a church gathers it is reaching out to a particular group, there is no such thing as a church that reaches out to every group - not only is it impossible, but it would lead to confusion.
We can want diversity, pray for it, do what we can given our context to work toward it, but lack of diversity within a church is natural. Whether or not this is always the result of sin or failure to be faithful in ministry may or may not be the case (or simply the result of being in a place like rural Iowa!).
Community in scripture is not community because of the number of differing cultures of people who meet together; community happens because whatever people are meeting are walking together in unity and love, serving together and one another to the glory of God, who would include any person of any differnece who loves Christ to join them in that walk.
Tim Challies wrote: “As we build loving relationships between people who would otherwise have little in common, we enjoy just a glimpse of the heavenly diversity we will enjoy for eternity.”
Amen. As a church planter longing for congregational diversity that will reflect our demographic region, I’ve actually been discouraged from seeking such diversity and encouraged to “target” a population instead.
Marc wrote: “”They achieved diversity at the expense of watering down God’s Word.”
That’s bad bull, but not necessary. I think (as Marie noted) every church should do a gut check to determine if their church climate and/or culture has aspects that might be either (a) unattractive or (b) hostile to folks who are different.
This could be seen in a congregation that is overly academic, where knowledge is the mark of spirituality. Someone with a high school diploma could feel woefully inadequate and out of place in such a scenario. In our more Reformed congregation, we have to fight against that, for example.
I’m always open to more suggestions on increasing the potential for diversity, but I think on one hand it can be a by-product of evangelistic efforts in the community (assuming the community contains some diversity) and on the other there’s something to be said for valuing and cultivating that which you desire.
I’m an advocate of making sure everybody knows that’s your church’s desire and that you labor and pray to that end. Diversity is important, because it’s important to God and it shows the world wherein true unity can reside.
We’re having a joint worship service tonight with a predominantly African American congregation and it will be great just to make friendships with those different from us.
I for one and tired of dragging our feet as the world mocks our Plessy vs. Ferguson segregation. We should be leading the way instead where harmony and love across boundaries are concerned.
P.S. I live in Texas (since others shared their locale).
Tim,
I hope all of us can learn to appreciate the strengths we bring as individuals and as denominations.
One of the things that concerns me in the Godblogosphere is the ease in which we fall into ghettos of belief. Anyone from a denomination outside our own soon becomes suspect, as if nothing can be learned from their faith tradition. Not every belief another Christian has is heretical. Our willingness to learn from them is one way we can show diversity and genuine Christian love.
I once received an e-mail from someone who stated that my blog’s sidebar book recommendations showed that I was obviously spiritually confused and double-minded. That sidebar includes classic books by Jonathan Edwards, A.W. Tozer, Watchman Nee, C.S. Lewis, Francis Schaeffer, and Dallas Willard. Intrigued, I went to this brother’s site and, sure enough, all his recommended books were from one narrow stream of Christian thought. So much for hearing ideas outside of one fragment of the faith that is Christianity!
That’s one way in which we can show diversity—by the books we read and recommend to others.
In the same way, I think we need to be willing to learn from other denominations. In my own walk with Christ, I learned grace from the Lutherans, the authority of the Word from Presbyterians, the power of the Holy Spirit from the Assemblies of God, service to others from the Vineyard, and what it means to be a saint from the Pentecostals. If I had said along the way that these widely differing denominations had nothing to teach me because I was so entrenched in my own denominational ghetto, then I’d be greatly impoverished as a Christian today for the want of their unique visions in my life.
Lastly, we must acknowledge that different personality types tend to flock together. I think this has as much to do with the plethora of denominations as anything. We have churches that attract scholars and we have churches that attract artists. Some churches are loaded with introverts and others extroverts. Wealth separates us, too. I’ve been a part of wealthy Presbyterian churches where the average household income was in the high $200,000s and poor Pentecostal churches where most people worked blue collar jobs and barely made enough money to survive.
We are drawn to people who are like us. One of the mysteries of the early Church was it had no choice (due to its small size) but incorporate a wide variety of people, prostitutes, wealthy land owners, thieves, vagabonds, the political elite, and so on. It truly was cosmopolitan.
Today, with Christianity so prevalent in the West, our very numbers allow us the false “luxury” of congregating with our choice of people. Church hopping anyone? I mean, let’s face it, Tim, neither you nor I would be a perfect fit in a black holiness church in Mississippi. But we need to be. Because heaven’s going to be filled with people of all types and personalities and nations and on and on.
Better we start thinking diversity now or heaven may be a shock to some of us!
I’m feeling ya, DLE.
In my world (SBC), there are (far too) many who won’t have anything to do with anybody or anything that is not SBC.
In fact, I was surprised/saddened to learn that often statistics I see from my SBC folks only include SBC churches in their list of Christian churches in the area (i.e., with regard to Christ’s witness in the community).
I know this is to motivate us to plant more (SBC) churches, but it’s bad bull to see everyone else so far beyond fellowship and/or cooperation.
That being said, I’m not against drawing a circle (so to speak), but I think most draw the circle far too small.
Los Angeles is a better anticipation of heaven than Tulsa, Oklahoma. Let the church, strengthened by the grace of God, live out now, as largely as possible, what she will one day be.
duh…Above quote from D.A. Carson.
I’ll throw out a suggestion to anyone seeking first-hand experience in diversity within the body of Christ: go on a few short-term mission trips. Or, if you can’t go, get involved in the lives of missionaries. Support them, communicate with them, learn from them.
I am very blessed to attend a church (in Texas) which has sent and established our own missionaries in places such as Russia, Kenya, Argentina, Mexico and China. We are continually sending short-term teams from our congregation to support the work of the full-timers in these places and others.
I love hearing the reports of our short-term teams upon their return. I enjoy the occasional visits from our long-term missionaries when they are back in the states. I am always blessed by seeing the differences and similarities between our congregation and others in far off places.
I have been to Mexico once and South Africa three times. These trips radically transformed my thinking about church. Hearing and seeing the reports from our missionaries in other places around the globe has also helped me form a broader understanding of how Christ is glorified in a wide variety of cultures.
Perhaps understanding other cultures and experiencing them first-hand is the first step to gaining wisdom in this area of diversity within the local church. I fear there are still many people in my own congregation who are simply ignorant of “how church is done” (so to speak) in other contexts. At some point it sinks in that although these people are really different, they are truly worshiping the *same God*! And He is truly glorified by it, as strange as the dress, language, locale or customs may seem. I think you just have to be there to really *get it*. And once you come home, you’ll never look at your own church or your own community the same way.
While experiencing diversity is not the reason for global missions, it is certainly one of the many blessings God pours out upon those who choose to go.
Even if your church is not a sending agency, you have plenty of opportunity to go on a trip through another church in your area or any number of para-church missions organizations.
Okay, that’s my plug for worldwide missions. ;) Back to your regularly scheduled comments…
Tim, thanks — your post could not have been more timely. The CCDA conference in St. Louis was adjourning. It’s the Christian Community Development Association of Christ-followers across the country who are working in their respective cities… especially inner-cities… It was a taste of heaven. And 360 other days per year, their various ministries are readily available and in fact NEED everyone’s participation. Bond with others in the trenches who expressly are NOT like yourselves… attempting to do the will of God together… city by city… bearing witness to our witness (John 17).
All the live-blogging & photos from the conference are available via this set of tags… http://del.icio.us/indychristian/ccda .
I’m not trying to say anything deep here, and I’m not exactly sure what the point would be, just my experience. In general, the most diversified churches I’ve been in have been Catholic churches. For various reasons along the way I’ve been to mass serveral times in my life and I’ve always been impressed with the obvious wide variety of folks there. Here in Florida that would include persons of Hispanic, African, Asian, and European descent.
You know that I am shouting “glory!” with you here Bro. Tim. Real Church is a taste of the transcendent to every culture, nationality, race, gender, political persuasion, denominational nuance and stack pole…etc.
“You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.” Galatians 3:26-29 NIV
These skins we live in and cultures we are born into will be shed for the immortal. To make too much of them here is to see dimly. When we see each other in Christ we see each other as we really are…creatures being metamorphosed for heaven. Just as we are locked into these destined for decay bodies, we are also locked into some level of prejudice and preference. That too will find its death when the final veil is drawn. Until then, may the Spirit allow us the occasional glimpse of the glory to come as we have opportunity to gather as one with anyone in Christ.