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The Idol of Communication
- 08/09/10
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In this digital world, communications dominates. In 2010 141 million blogs were active, 1,052,803 books published, 4.5 billion text messages sent, 175 billion letters mailed, 247 billion emails delivered. Do you see the scope of it? Communication is all the rage. It is what we do for business, education, entertainment, devotion. While people have always communicated and have probably always wanted to communicate more, what is unique in our time is its sheer dominance. What has changed is not the fact that we can communicate and that we like to communicate, but the scope of the it, the speed of it and the reach of it. It is now the dominant paradigm through which we live our lives. Perhaps amidst all of the communication we are prone to forget that we do not need to communicate all the time or that it is not wise to do so all the time. It may be that communication is not always good, that it brings problems even with all of its benefits.
There are two realities that are important as we consider communications. The first is is this: Any study of technology, and especially technologies having to do with communication, will show that a new innovation brings both opportunities and costs. This innovation tends to wear the benefits on its sleeve while the drawbacks are buried deep within and take far longer to see. The second reality is that there is often a connection between technology and idolatry where technology enhances the existing idols in our lives (so that the man who makes sex into an idol will use his computer to pursue pornography, his cell phone to arrange illicit hook-ups, etc). So here we have two realities—that the benefits of a technology always come at a cost and that technology can be closely tied to idolatry.
Idols are typically good things that seek to become ultimate things. Communication is just the kind of good thing, the kind of very good thing, that can so easily become an ultimate thing. How would we know that there is an idol in our lives? It may be the kind of thing we look at right before we go to sleep and the first thing we give attention to when we wake up. It may be the kind of thing that keeps us awake even in the middle of the night. A 2010 study by Oxygen Media and Lightspeed Research sampled the the habits of 1,605 young adults. The researchers found that one third of women between the ages of 18 and 34 check Facebook when they first wake up, before they even head to the bathroom; 21% check it in the middle of the night; 39% of them declare that they are addicted to Facebook.
We might also know we serve an idol when it is something we carry around with us at all times. A Pew Research study found, not surprisingly, that cell phone use is nearly ubiquitous today. Three-quarters of teens and 93% of adults between ages 18 and 29 now have a cell phone. Cell phone use has grown substantially among pre-teens so that 58% of 12-year-olds now own one. Lisa Merlo is a University of Florida psychiatrist who studies digital addictions--addictions to the Internet and other technologies. She finds that for a growing number of people the need to be in constant communication is so powerful that they cannot even turn off their cell phones in order to sit through a two-hour movie. Their obsession with their phones resembles any other form of addiction. "As with traditional addictions, excessive cell phone use is associated with certain hallmark patterns of behavior, including using something to feel good, building up a tolerance and needing more of it over time to get the same feeling, and going through withdrawal if deprived of it." Meanwhile a recent Japanese study found that children with cell phones tend not to make friendships with children who do not have them. And all of this is really just the tip of the iceberg. Communication is just what we do today.
By all appearances we have made communication into a kind of cultural idol. In most cases it is not Facebook or the cell phone that is the idol. Instead, they serve as enablers, as enhancers, of the greater idol of communication. Christians have proven to be far from immune to this idol, from following along as the culture around us becomes obsessed with communication and dedicates vast amounts of time and resources to it. Christians will do well to remember that in God's economy communication is but a means to the far greater, far more noble end of enjoying God so we can bring glory to him. Communication can detract from this purpose just as easily as it can serve this purpose.
When words serve God, they draw hearts to what is of greatest importance. Such words are full of meaning, full of life. When words serve an idol, they distract, they damage, they focus on quantity over quality. Thus words call us not just to use them sinlessly, but to use them to share what is substantial, to say what is best, to encourage, to bless. In an age that can be almost unbearably light, frustratingly anti-intellectual, woefully unspiritual, words have the ability to draw people to what matters most.

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Comments (17)
Hi Tim. I’m not sure it is ‘communication’ that is the idol. Aren’t we told all the time that it is our lack of communicating that is the cause of relationship-breakdown at work or at home? Perhaps the idol is affirmation, or significance—something closer to the ‘consumption or acquisition of meaning’, know what I mean? I think we have to do some more work on really understanding this phenomenon and problem (seeing you and I are so readily participating in it ourselves).Grace, James.
Saying communication is an idol reminds me of President Bush’s “war on terror.” Terror is a tactic, not an enemy you can fight.
In the same way, communication is not an idol - it is just a tool or a technology. I suspect that what is fast becoming an idol in many people’s lives is friendship. That is who we are communicating with - our friends. That makes the problem even more insidious because God did make us social creatures who desire companions and companionship. We now have a tool in our hands (or pockets) that can allow us to pursue that desire 24/7 - and many are doing so. That is idolatry.
By the way, the article says that if we carry something with us all the time it is probably an idol, yet millions of Americans carry car keys with them all the time. Are cars idols? For some, yes but probably not for most. Cars are just tools… as are cell phones.
Great post and some very valid comments. Anything that we pursue more than God can quickly become our idol. Tools are just that, tools. The danger lies in how we use, abuse, or hide behind them!
Perhaps the idol is affirmation, or significance--something closer to the 'consumption or acquisition of meaning', know what I mean?
I’m open to that and have been thinking a bit along the same lines. I’m not convinced that communication itself can’t be an idol, though.
I suspect that what is fast becoming an idol in many people's lives is friendship. That is who we are communicating with - our friends.
Perhaps, so, but it’s more than that. We communicate with “friends” but only if we first radically redefine friendship. Many of the people we communicate with are only the barest of acquaintances. Just because a person is a Facebook friend doesn’t mean he is in any practical way a “real” friend. So again, it seems like there is more going on here than friendship.
Are cars idols? For some, yes but probably not for most. Cars are just tools... as are cell phones.
Yes and no. Cell phones are tools, but are tools shape us and change us. So they are tools that accomplish some instrumental purpose. And yet they also show us things about our hearts and eventually even change our hearts.
Hey Tim,
In response to this article and the comments associating it, just as anything may become an idol, communication may also become an idol. For many, communication is an idol (let it be known that I am 17 years old and my generation is obsessed with cell phones and Facebook and such).
Simply using a technology for communication often (or carrying a technology with you for communication) does not, however, make it an addiction. For communication to be an addition- a drug-, one must need it. They must need it not on the level of how one may need a car to get to work, but they must need it on a personal level where they can not get by without their daily (or minutely, as is the case for many teens in regard to technology and communication) dose.
Two excellent books to read in regards to technology, communication, and addictions are Technopoly and Amusing Ourselves to Death. Both books are by Neil Postman.
In HIS Service,Nathaniel
I was in a retreat setting in the NC mountains a couple of weeks ago, where most participants did not have their cell service available. It was very evident that this mode of communication has moved from being a tool to becoming an idol. Their widrawal and preoccupation with their lack of service were the evidences of the idolatry. Thank you for your work and your blog.
“We might also know we serve an idol when it is something we carry around with us at all times. ”
Should I stop wearing my glasses? Or is it just an efficent tool over the former land-line communications.
I think you are on to something here. This post could serve well as a brief commentary on Proverbs 10:19:”When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent.”
Excellent article, Tim. Got me thinking and I hope to reread it a few more times to develop some application strategies for myself.I also agree that what we refer to when we use the term “communication” has become a cultural idol.
I also think this is evidenced by almost every job description written in the past 10 years. Invariably included: “excellent communicator” often with the added phrase: “both written and verbal.” In the world of office politics, (whatever is meant by) effective communication is more highly esteemed and rewarded than work ethic, project accomplishments, dependability, problem solving, or any other traditional measure of success.
I’d like to work out the application of you last sentence a bit more: “words have the ability to draw people to what matters most.” I want that to be my goal in all of life.
I think the idol is attention: people want attention through texts, Facebook posts, and blogs (sorry). It also extends to reality shows and publicity stunts (by celebrities and non-celebrities). And the more attention they/we get, the more they/we want.
I still don’t think communication is an idol or is becoming an idol. We communicate with a purpose - to get affirmation, to get attention, to build friendships, etc.
The only people I know who communicate for the raw sake of just communicating are ham radio operators. I’m a ham (N5RXW) and while providing emergency communications in natural disasters what most hams do is switch on the rig and just talk to anybody who is on. There are even contests to see who can “work” the most stations. This is communication for communication’s sake - I don’t know anybody out there, I am not exchanging meaningful info with them, I’m just talking to them to have someone to talk to and to write them down on my list of stations worked.
I don’t know anybody who uses their cell phone like that. People talk to/with a specific someone they know. That’s not communicating just to be communicating - that’s communication with a purpose. The purpose then is the idol, not the tool used to facilitate the purpose.
I think it could be stated in a number of ways. For instance, for women (and some guys) the latest gossip is something to keep up with and share. For many guys, the latest computer gadgets and cars, or music (and for my dad, guns), are fun to talk about. We could extend this to anyone’s interests, by the way, from kids, to sports, fashion, or even the price of oil. That is communication. But to speak of idolatry, I agree that it must depend on the heart issue, and for Christians specifically. “Gunning for attention” is something that takes away from our own love for Jesus and others, and does not frame his purpose well. I think its something we all battle with, from time to time.
In fairness of my perspective, I am studying advertising at a university and worked in video production for almost ten years; I’ve seen both sides. While there’s much idolatry, videocan serve good purposes, too.
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Prescient post! Two more quick thoughts:
1) Cultivating solitude, creating space for God in our private lives takes even more discipline than in days past. Old fogies like me have the benefit of living in the pre-facebook, email, etc. days when the urgency of communications did not drive people to distraction. We need to pray that the Holy Spirit would give wisdom and discernment to the younger generations as they grow up with these pervasive communications technologies.
2) We are at a unique inflection point in history. God scattering the peoples at Babel and the Holy Spirit inspired speaking of tongues at Pentecost bookend the importance of communication in Biblical history. Gutenberg’s printing press, Marconi’s development of the radio and the ARPANET mark important modern-times milestones in man’s attempt to share knowledge and keep connected. However, as Tim pointed out, we need to be mindful that all good things can become idols. Taking periodic “communications fasts” can help submit ourselves before the Lord, so that we can take time to hear Him in meditative study of His Word and prayer.
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I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss “communication” as the idol. Yes, it’s something we use for another purpose, but that’s part of what an idol is — something we believe we can avail ourselves of in order to meet our needs. The ancient idols weren’t necessarily things that the ancients were emotionally wrapped up in and constantly in pursuit of, but they WERE the place people instinctively turned to when they felt the need for something vital. In that sense, we can regard communication as that which will facilitate what we really need out of life. “If I only have access to my apps, life will go well.” “If I can just stay in touch, I won’t miss out on what’s important.” “If I only learn to communicate properly, my relationships will be blessed, and I will prosper.” That last one might sound like cheating because it’s using spiritual language in a context where we would never use it, but actually, that IS what we’re thinking — we’re just smart enough not to mix up the religious language of our Christianity with the religious language of our petty idolatries.