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I Left My Heart in Lanark
- 10/03/07
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Last week I had the joy and privilege of watching my cousin get married to the love of her life. The wedding was held in Ottawa, about 5 hours from where we live. Because it was an early morning wedding, we knew we would need to leave at least a day in advance in order to get there on time. So we booked ourselves in at the home of my aunt and uncle (unrelated to the cousin getting married, as it happens) and asked if we could stay there for a couple of nights. My aunt and uncle live in Lanark County, less than an hour from Ottawa. It is easily one of the most beautiful places in all of Ontario.
My uncle is an artist—a painter—and in my estimation (not that it’s really worth anything with my knowledge of art) an exceptional one. I am unable to go to his house or visit his web site without seeing at least a painting or two that I just need to have. He lives in Lanark at least in part because of its beauty—the sheer magnificence of the area gives him nearly endless opportunities to find scenes and landscapes that he can capture with his brush. And while Lanark is always beautiful, I’m convinced it could be no more beautiful than it is right now, resplendent in autumn colors. This time of year, with summer fading into fall and a Canadian winter fast approaching, the trees are in full glory, every one of them a work of art testifying to the loving hand of the Creator. As the trees begin to lose their leaves, the rest of the landscape begins to show just a little more—rocks that were hidden behind summer foliage peer out beneath the trees. Rivers, streams and waterways appear from behind increasingly bare branches. It’s glorious.
Southern Ontario, the portion that is sprawled out along the American border is largely developed but Lanark has retained a kind of purity. It still has huge portions that are wild. There are bears, wolves, coyotes, deer, fishers, and all other kinds of wildlife. Rumor even has it that cougars have made their way back into the area. I was overwhelmed by the beauty all around.
I’m a city guy, or a suburb guy more correctly. I’ve lived in suburbs of Toronto for nearly all my life. Rarely have I desired to be in the midst of a downtown and rarely have I desired to be in the middle of nowhere. But stepping outside of my aunt and uncle’s house, early on a Saturday morning, with no sounds of traffic and no neighbors to be seen anywhere, my heart nearly melted. I went and sat down near the river that flows through their property and just sat and enjoyed the silence, broken only by the trickle of a nearby waterfall, reduced to just a small flow after a dry summer. Before long the silence was broken as my daughter toddled up to me and attempted to scamper right into the river. But in that moment, for the first time I remember, I wanted to live in the country—I would have marched right home, sold my house, and come back to Lanark. Just around the corner from my aunt and uncle is a beautiful property with a huge house and plenty of land. Property prices being what they are in that area, we could probably sell our townhouse with its tiny plot of land and buy the massive property with the proceeds. I was tempted.
My senses soon returned. They had to, really. We’ve planted ourselves in the city where we have friends and a church and where we look for opportunities to share the gospel. We would miss being within a few minutes of a massive grocery store, would soon long for more companionship and would not be able to exist for long without high speed internet and cell phone access. We’re suburb folk. So we piled back into the van and headed home—back to Toronto. We returned to the city and all the amenities it offers. But I think I left my heart in Lanark.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ, a husband to Aileen and a father to three young children. I worship and serve as a pastor at 


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Comments (14)
I was a bride’s maid in Kate’s wedding (Dave is my bro. in law) - and am also from Lanark County (Beckwith Twp.). I’ve been reading for a few years now, but had to post for the first time today. You’ve been spot on many times before, but I couldn’t let this post go without mention. Lanark is beautiful.
I wanted to let you know that I linked to your uncle’s site and those paintings are true art. Beautiful! And so peaceful. I’ve already e-mailed him about a price or two. I love to see people who recognize their talents as gifts from God and use them accordingly.
Thank you so much for sharing!
I love your uncle’s artistic style. His paintings are beautiful!
I can also relate to the refreshment you felt as you absorbed the beauty of creation in semi-solitude. I’m glad you had the chance to do it!
Tim:
As a refuge from big city living (Austin to Dallas to Houston to San Antonio and finally to a small town in the Texas Hill Country), I can tell you that there are friendships to be made, churches where you can continue to “meet together” and more opportunities than time, to share the gospel. We live 30 minutes from the closest “massive grocery store” and one hour from our former suburban SAT neighborhood. A few adjustments were required, but cell phone service eventually caught up to us and satellite internet service (not as fast as DSL, but not so bad) and satellite television have satisfied whatever longings we had for those big city conveniences. I’ll admit that the one thing I really miss is our old church family, but the body of Christ dwells in rural communities as well. And it is ONE body!
I don’t presume to know all that you do professionally, but my hunch is that much could be done from a place like Lanark. Is it possible that your heart is telling you so?
Wow. Your uncle is very Group of Seven-ish. Your estimation of his work is not over stated. Great Stuff. Thanks for the link.
I understand all that absolutely, and likewise love your uncle’s work! I think you’ve linked to his website before, but having moved recently, I think I may see just the thing for that still empty wall above our sofa!
Thanks Tim, nice article. And glad you enjoyed Mobile and those good Southern Amens, without the grits.
Wow. Your uncle is very Group of Seven-ish. Your estimation of his work is not over stated. Great Stuff. Thanks for the link.
Good catch. He grew up with Group of Seven paintings in the house so they are a definite influence. And as good as the paintings look on the web site, I can testify that they’re even better up close and personal. I love ‘em. And the prices are really very reasonable. Surprisingly so.
Tim, what time of morning was that wedding? My wedding, eighteen years ago last July, was held at dawn. It cost us $US50, to pay the pastor. His wife played a song on the guitar (“Meet Us Here,” if you’re interested). The dress was borrowed, and there were a total of about 30 people in attendance (including the Pastor and his wife, my best man, my parents and some other close friends.
You really know who loves you if they’ll get up and get dressed to be at a wedding by 6:30am!
It was her idea, not mine, but after watching countless couples wait all day, till 3pm, sometimes later, to tie the knot, I always think to myself, what agony. And then I think to myself, how lucky I am. No bills to pay for the elaborate trappings; we were on our way to our honeymoon about the time most folks were putting the dishes away from breakfast. Neither of us had slept for 3 days before, so we were beat, and we slept good that first evening after the long drive to the B&B where we honeymooned.
The pictures start with me and my best man, moon over our shoulders, looking for my bride-to-be to arrive, then get lighter and lighter as the daylight fills the sky around us. There’s a lesson in that for married couples, and for me, even today. (I) Never regret the dawn. It is glorious, everywhere, in the wilderness, in the city, in the suburbs…We were made for it.
Tim,I am right there with you. That whole area is beautiful…and their home is so lovely and peaceful. Katie’s wedding was gorgeous as well. I miss Canadian falls.
Tim,
We made the move to the countryside and have not regretted it for a second. In fact, I believe that nearly every aspect of life is better where we are now. People are closer-knit, churches are more intimate and less (suburban) stuffy—well, I could go on and on.
That longing for something quieter calls as we get older. I’m not surprised you felt it. Perhaps the Lord is speaking to you!
If it wasn’t so far from church, school, and work, I’d move to Lanark. Have thought about it many times!
Tim-
I agree with you about Lanark. But being snowed in for weeks on end and all might tire after a while. I think the visit is probably a better fit for you all…..:)
Ahhh… This reminds me of Aspen, Colorado, where I spent the summer. Unfortunately, Aspen is not exactly a refuge from people, but you can get away up in the mountains much more easily. Where I live, in the desert, one usually doesn’t feel the urge to walk a mile away from town….
I thanked God so often for the refreshment he gave my soul, by giving me the opportunity to be in beautiful Aspen. He also has nurtured a great church there, which blessed my heart.
Your aunt and uncle belong there, thought I do wish they lived closer as we see them less often. I recommend visiting with them in February. Michelle and I went with the kids several years ago with 2 students, one from Japan and one from Brazil. Talk about a truly Canadian experience! Everything was frozen and great for skating on the river and sledding. It was fantastic and our visitors could not believe it and they’ll certainly never forget it.