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On the Giving of Thanks
- 10/13/08
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If you’ve been reading this site for a few years, you may remember the time I wrote about my old van leaving me stranded on the side of the highway. My lease was nearly over and I had to drive across town (about one hour each way) to visit a car dealer and have him put a price on my van. This happened to be a rare occasion that I did not have my cell phone with me. The charger had disappeared, the battery was flat, and I just left the phone at home, setting off without it.
As I was making my way home, zipping along the area’s busiest highway, I heard a strange sound and thought, “I hope that’s not my car.” I looked around and couldn’t see any other vehicles close enough to me that it could be anything but my car. Within a couple of seconds the car began to shake and then it began to vibrate so strongly that it became a chore to hold it straight. It did not take long to realize that I had blown a tire at 100 kilometers per hour. It so happened that I was on a bridge at the time and one that offered no shoulder to pull onto. I threw on the hazard lights and crept along, driving as fast as I dared on three tires and one rim. Trucks, cars and buses were honking and swerving to avoid me on the slick, rainy pavement. But finally the bridge ended and I was able to pull over to the side and stop. While it was not exactly my choice, I could hardly have picked a worse place to stop. I ended up parked in the middle of a triangular area right where two major highways converged—between the inside lane of one highway and the merging outside lane of a second highway. Cars were tearing by on the right and the left, joining the flow of mid-afternoon traffic. I had no phone, it was pouring rain, and this was definitely no place to attempt to change the tire. I knew no passerby would stop, as there simply was not a good place to do so.
And so I did the obvious thing. I said, “God, I’m kind of stuck here. I’d really appreciate it if you’d send along a police car or a tow truck. It would be a long, dangerous, wet walk to a phone and really, the only building nearby is a Kingdom Hall and it doesn’t look like anyone is there, so I’m just going to stay here and wait for you to send help.” And that’s what I did. With cars hurtling by on both sides, I sat and looked expectantly out the back window. Sure enough, it took only ten or fifteen minutes for a tow truck to show up. Handily, it was a flat bed truck—it would have been very difficult for him to get behind my van to tow from the rear. Equally handily, it was a CAA truck (CAA is the Canadian chapter of the American Automobile Club) and, since I am a CAA member, the towing would cost me nothing. Within five minutes he had hoisted the van onto his truck, secured it, and pulled back into traffic. He had a good laugh at me, saying what I already knew—that I really could not have picked a worse spot to break down. He even took the opportunity to call his manager and laugh about it.
I asked him if someone had called him on my behalf or if he had just happened by. “No,” he said. “I just dropped someone off in Georgetown and had decided to take the side roads back. But then I changed my mind and figured I’d take the highway just to see if anyone out here needed a tow.” Imagine that.
This really isn’t much of a story. I was never in great danger and really only suffered a couple of hours of inconvenience while waiting for the tires to be changed. But as I was sitting in Wal-Mart, munching on a McDonald’s burger and wondering what the tires would cost, I thought back to my reaction when the tow truck showed up. I realized I had blurted out, naturally enough, “Thank you, God” as I saw the truck turn on his lights and pull in just ahead of me. I was not the least bit surprised that the truck had shown up and had shown up quickly. God knew I was in a tight spot and I had asked Him to provide for me. He seemed glad enough to do so. “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent; or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”
It occurred to me then that it is really only the privilege of the Christian to be thankful. I spoke about this a few days later with a friend of mine who is ambivalent about the possibility of God’s existence. I asked her how she would feel in a similar situation. Would she be thankful? And if so, to whom would she express thanks? Without God we can only believe in fate or karma. No one offers thanks to fate. Fate is nothing. It is impersonal, directionless. No one asks anything of fate and no one offers thanks to fate. I could be thankful to the driver of the tow truck, and I was of course, but who was it that so ordered things that he was returning from Georgetown just at that moment? And how was it that he changed his mind and decided to take the highway home rather than the faster back roads? Surely not fate, chance or karma. The God who knows the number of hairs on my head is the same God who took care of me that day. And I am thankful.
Today is Thanksgiving day up here in Canada. It is a day set aside specifically to offer thanks. It is sad to think of how many Canadians will sit with their loved ones around tables loaded with food and will be unable and unwilling to thank the One who has provided it for them. They may thank mothers for making food or fathers for providing it, but they will not be able to thank the God who has given them the talents, the abilities, and, well, everything else. My expression of thanks in the car that day was natural. It was really just an outpouring of the faith God that has given to me. It was an expression of worship to the God who proved again that day that He is in control. Where there was faith-based expectation, gratitude naturally followed. I was filled with thanksgiving for thanksgiving. I was filled with thanks for the ability and the privilege of giving thanks. God is good to provide and is good to allow us to thank Him for His provision.

I am a follower of Jesus Christ, a husband to Aileen and a father to three young children. I worship and serve as a pastor at
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Comments (10)
Tim,
Thanks for the reminder of how we ought to give thanks when we think things aren’t going well for us. And remember, the God who provided the tow truck is also the God who foreordained your tire to blowout! He provided the opportunity for you to be thankful, too.
SDG
Rob
Happy Thanksgiving. Thanks for this wonderful post. :)
Was a great story last time I read it, and it remains a great story now! I was just invited to attend my first Canadian thanksgiving - and I’m in Norwich, England. Turns out there’s a Canadian girl in one of my mate’s houses and so they’re chucking her a surprise one. I’m looking forward to it!
GREAT STORY.. Live in No. Calif. in the hill country. Going to chruch, must drive 15 miles on a busy two lane road. Would not think of driving it, without prayer to keep me safe both ways.Have a beautiful day with the Lord on your Thanksgiving Day.Blessings… :)
Rob,Excellent point regarding the Provider of the opportunity for Tim to be thankful. And if I may build upon that point, it is also interesting and very humbling to remember that even our thankfulness is the result of His work in us. A holy work of the Spirit to which we can add nothing.
Tim,I’ve had similar experiences and found myself blurting out a heart-felt thank you to the Lord in response. What lingers with me at times and bothers me is the fact that sometimes I’m a bit surprised when my prayer is answered. I don’t know if my surprise is an indication of weak faith, or is it that I realize that not all prayers are answered in the way we want them to be. I’m hoping that the latter is the case for me… It is something I’ve meditated over for some years now. I can’t help but think that even Christ’s disciples were at least a bit surprised when they, for the very first time, healed the sick in the Lord’s name, and the person was actually and immediately healed!
I believe fully that what we perceive as un-answered prayers, are in fact prayers that have been answered in God’s way. For His purpose, in His timing, and ultimately and most assuredly for His glory. Thanks for sharing your story!
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!!!
In Christ,
Dan…
Have fun with mom and dad and hope Rick’s turkey recipe works out for you! Wish we could be there!:)
I hope you and your family have a blessed Thanksgiving celebration. Thanks for sharing that story.
Tim, thank you for sharing a wonderful story of our God’s provision in the lives of His children. Happy Thanksgiving!
Love to all brothers and sisters in Christ!The Darrs :)
An alternate ending occurs to me…
It starts raining. No, sleeting. Visibility terrible. I wait, and no one, no one at all, stops. It gets dark. I decide to sleep in the van, and try to solve the problem at dawn. I worry about my family worrying. I miss a big contract meeting the next day. Money is tighter than ever. Or… I try to flag down another driver, but that only causes an accident. I learn later that the breadwinner in another family was killed. Or… as I am examining the wheel, I get hit by a driver who was talking on their cell phone, and the result is…
While stories with tow trucks coming at the right time can be told, and will prompt spontaneous thanksgiving, it seems to me that for many Christians the miraculous intervention of God in a materially providential fashion is not so immediate, or so apparent, and the big question is, will we still choose to pen lines like your last ones:
“My expression of thanks in the car that day was natural. It was really just an outpouring of the faith God that has given to me. It was an expression of worship to the God who proved again that day that He is in control. Where there was faith-based expectation, gratitude naturally followed. I was filled with thanksgiving for thanksgiving. I was filled with thanks for the ability and the privilege of giving thanks. God is good to provide and is good to allow us to thank Him for His provision.”
It is an ongoing challenge to see just how big the Lord is in the absence of material interventions, or even as situations appear to be deteriorating.
Yes, I celebrated Thanksgiving today, too. Had the best turkey I can ever recall. (Get fresh, not frozen, is my new commitment to try to remember every October.) And I am indeed thankful for so much. But today I also read the article in the Telegraph about Iran passing a law calling for the execution of Muslim males who convert to Christianity, and the article in the NYT about Hindus killing, or running out of town, Christians who do not renounce their faith…
I just think it’s really important that serious, deep, profound thankfulness not be linked only to visible material provision.
I know you - and most readers here - know that, too. My post is simply my reaction to your story of a very fortunate rescue.
This is an awfully sweet post. Thanks for sharing about your breakdown and the tow. Love it when God answers our prayers so clearly to us, and you definitely needed His help!
Btw, just read your review of ‘The Shack’ at Amazon. A friend is reading it now, and has offered it to me to read when she finishes it. Glad to hear of what you think, but after reading briefly in her copy, I was hesitant anyway.
Thanks.