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A La Carte (August 13)

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Westminster Books has set Christopher Ash’s tremendous four-volume commentary on Psalms at half price for the next few days.

Today’s Kindle deals include titles on navigating relationships, youth ministry, helping kids engage their world for Christ, and more.

All the Ways I’ve Hated Myself

Brittany Allen has a moving article about the greatest bully many of us face—the bully within. “I am in Christ. To hate myself, would be, in a sense, to hate him too. To berate myself over not meeting my own self-imposed standards would be to try to add to Christ’s work on the cross. It’s actually prideful. And I know where to go with that. Straight to the cross, where he waits with his mercy and grace.”

Order and Openness

“Many Christians wrestle with a perceived tension between thorough preparation and spontaneous worship. Some worry that detailed planning might quench the Spirit’s movement, while others fear that spontaneity could lead to disorder in our local church gatherings. But what if preparation and spontaneity aren’t competitive opponents, but cooperating partners in facilitating meaningful worship?”

A Conference for Pastoral Couples

Hosted by Focus on the Family and featuring, among others, Mark Vroegop and Virgil Walker, the Focused Pastor Couples Conference is a space created just for pastors and their spouses—a place to step away from the demands of ministry and be reminded that you’re not alone. This 3-day event is all about rest, encouragement, and equipping couples to serve together with joy and unity. (Sponsored)

The Missing Ingredient in the Mission of the Local Church

I appreciate this take on one of the missing ingredients in the mission of so many local churches.

An Open Letter to Parents of an Engaged Christian Couple

Deepak Reju has penned an open letter to parents of an engaged Christian couple. He wants to help the parents think through a couple of important matters.

I See Pornography Every Day

John Perritt explains that he sees pornography every day, even though he doesn’t want to and doesn’t go looking for it. The same is likely true of you and me.

Loving Someone Else’s Gifts

“Let’s be honest with ourselves for a moment. James is right. Most of our conflicts are rooted in the fact that someone else has something—a position, a perk, a privilege—that we don’t have. And we want it. You desire and do not have.

Flashback: Why We Love to Read

The avid reader takes in book after book, day after day, searching each one, looking carefully for those few but important ideas. Four hundred pages—or eight hundred—is a small price to pay for an idea.

Suffering is unbearable if you aren’t certain that God is for you and with you.

—Tim Keller

  • Remember

    It Doesn’t Matter What You Remember

    I have a memory like a … what do you call it? That thing in the kitchen you use to sift the stuff you want from the stuff you don’t. A sieve! That’s it. I have a memory like a sieve. I joke about it at times, and about how I have to outsource remembering…

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    A La Carte: Always being right / Sex advice for newlyweds / Making Christianity look good / Soul care / Stop straining for shortcuts / When writing feels like a chair / Rare Kindle deals / and more.

  • Post Woke

    Are We Post Woke?

    It is too early to tell, I think, whether the “wokeness” craze has already peaked and even begun to slip into decline, or whether it’s just pausing to gather energy for another surge. What seems clear for the moment, though, is that it has lost at least some of its initial momentum, probably because it…

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    A La Carte (January 13)

    A La Carte: A cautionary tale / Raising hands in worship / Freshen your prayer life / Exposing adultery to the light / Reject the religion of efficiency / Kindle deals / and more.

  • Petty Fight

    Petty Annoyances and Minor Insults

    I wonder if you are like me in that, as you look back on your life, you realize that most of the circumstances that have troubled you, most of the annoyances and disgruntlements, were produced by circumstances that were hardly worth noticing.

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    A La Carte (January 12)

    A La Carte: Happy 80th, John Piper / Practical principles for marriage / Benefits for daily Bible reading / Philip Yancey / Stingy-generous / From sermon to article / Kindle and Bible study deals / and more.