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Weekend A La Carte (6/29)

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Christians Are Not Called to Have Amazing Sex – There is some wisdom in this article at Relevant magazine: “While the movement is great at detailing–and exaggerating–the benefits of saving sex for marriage, it is dishonest about the challenges abstinence presents to couples who eventually tie the knot.”

Worst Phone Call of My Life – David Murray writes about receiving the worst phone call of his life.

Marrying the Wrong Person – “After two years, there’s no hiding behind the dinner-and-a-movie facade of dating life any longer. I can’t buy enough flowers to conceal it. I can’t open enough doors. I can’t say enough ‘I love you’s.’ She knows (and painfully, so do I) that she married the wrong person.”

The Best Question – J. Warner Wallace: “Ever found yourself looking for a way to initiate a conversation about God, but not sure exactly how to start? … I’ve tried a number of approaches. I continue to return to one simple, effective question, however, to start the most important of all conversations. I’ve come to believe this is the most essential evangelistic question we can ask: ‘What do you think happens when we die?’”

Is a Boyfriend’s Porn a Deal-Breaker? – I have thought a lot about this question: “Is My Boyfriend’s Porn a Marriage Deal-Breaker?” I intend to write about it at some point soon. John Piper has a good answer here.

Image Determines Value – “Well-meaning, dear parents would describe their [special needs] son or daughter and almost invariably end up justifying their child’s existence by the contribution they made to society. ‘Well, she will never be a surgeon, but she brightens every room she enters. We need more girls like that in the world!’ I don’t reject the sentiment, but I abhor the logic.”

Bible without the Holy Spirit is a sundial by moonlight.

—D.L Moody

  • Gods Great Big Global Church

    Announcing: God’s Great Big Global Church

    Coming soon: God’s Great Big Global Church—my new children’s book that introduces kids to ten churches around the world and the joy of worshiping God together. Pre‑order is now open.

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    A La Carte (March 26)

    Decisions in the room / What does the Bible say about demons? / Why rationalists are asking AI to read their future / Tiny changes, massive payoffs / Stop scrolling and start singing / Kindle and commentary deals / and more.

  • Marriage

    When Your Spouse Stops Being Your Project

    Many marriages stall at the same point: each spouse convinced the breakthrough will come only when the other finally changes. What if the real breakthrough begins somewhere else?

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    A La Carte (March 25)

    Embracing slow sanctification / Men are lost / Your attention isn’t failing, your environment is / Notes on justice / Ships passing in the night / It is Christ who saves, not Christians / and more.

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    A La Carte (March 24)

    Check your guns at the door / Counseling the victim identity / Christian sexual ethics / Leaders are readers / Missionary meditations from the Middle East / Personal callings / and more.

  • Here We Stand! A Call from Confessing Evangelicals for a Modern Reformation

    Thirty years ago, evangelical leaders gathered in Cambridge, MA, to take a stand for truth. That moment led to the Cambridge Declaration—and sparked a call for a modern Reformation. Now, Here We Stand! returns in a newly revised edition from Alliance Publishing with new insights from leading voices like Carl Trueman, Sean Michael Lucas, and…