The Masculine Mandate

There is little doubt that masculinity has fallen upon hard times. Differences between men and women, between masculinity and femininity are downplayed in favor of sameness, in favor of androgyny. Suggesting that the biblical vision of masculinity has fallen prey to a foolish culture, Richard Phillips writes that his new book The Masculine Mandate “is written for Christian men who not only don’t want to lose that precious biblical understanding, but who want to live out the calling to true manliness God has given us. We need to be godly men, and the Bible presents a Masculine Mandate for us to follow and fulfill. But do we know what it is? My aim in writing this book is to help men to know and fulfill the Lord’s calling as it is presented so clearly to us in God’s Word.”

Looking to God’s command to the first man in the Garden of Eden, Phillips teaches that men have a dual calling before the Creator: they are to work and they are to keep. “To work it and to keep it: here is the how of biblical masculinity, the mandate of Scripture for males. It is my mandate in this book, therefore, to seek to specify, clarify, and apply these two verbs to the glorious, God-given, lifelong project of masculine living.” To work is to labor to make things grow, to nurture, cultivate, tend, build up, guide and rule. To keep is to protect and to sustain progress that has already been achieved. It involves guarding, keeping safe, watching over, caring for, maintaining. Words that may be useful in summarizing the terms are service and leadership, terms closely related to servant and lord. Men are to be servants and lords under the authority of God. “This is the Masculine Mandate: to be spiritual men placed in real-world, God-defined relationships, as lords and servants under God, to bear God’s fruit by serving and leading.”

Through a short series of chapters Phillips provides the doctrinal underpinning for this mandate. He looks at a man’s sacred calling to work, to bear the image of God and to be a “Shepherd-Lord,” one who tends and cares for all the responsibilities God has placed him over. He looks both to calling and to character, showing how a man must live if he wishes to carry out his mandate in each area of life.

The book’s second part provides wisdom on living out that mandate. Since most men will find that a significant portion of their mandate involves the marriage relationship, Phillips writes three chapters dealing with the design of marriage, the redemption of marriage, and the way to live out both working and keeping within that relationship. He spends two chapters looking at discipling and disciplining children and then shows how the Masculine Mandate plays out in friendship with other men and then in the context of the local church. 

I found The Masculine Mandate helpful on several levels. I appreciated that Phillips defined a man’s role independent of marriage. This is a trap many authors have been unable to avoid. Yet many men will remain single all their lives and this in no way reduces their masculinity. Jesus himself never married and was more of a man than any of us! And Jesus, despite never marrying, devoted his life to both working and keeping. At the same time, I admired Phillips’ call to most men most of the time to get married. Marriage is, for the majority of us, a way God calls us to fulfill our mandate and too many Christian men seem eager to view marriage through a worldly lens. I appreciated as well that Phillips spoke both from Scripture and from personal experience. Many of his examples and exhortations were based on examinations of passages of Scriptures; many more were drawn from his own life and experience. It makes for a powerful combination.

Well-written and presenting tough truths within such a simple grid of work and keep, this book is a very useful call for men to live out their mandate before God. I feel challenged and equipped for having read it and am glad to recommend it to any man. Read it, apply it, live it.

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Comments (13)

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Anonymous's picture

I think I might read this book and would encourage other women to also. Through messages by Carolyn Mahaney and McCulley, I’ve recently been challenged to delve deeper into an understanding of my role as a Christian woman. And now I am realizing that to understand my role, I need to fully understand my husband’s role. Our culture has made the lines fuzzy, allowing women to believe men should be doing things God didn’t create them to do. I also believe this would be a good read for parents of boys like me. Thanks for the review!

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Anonymous's picture

There is a definitive & desperate need for my generation to understand masculinity, now if only I could figure out how to get them to read a book…

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Anonymous's picture

I think I’m going to join Jane in reading this book. While I’m unmarried, I interact with men every day and want to understand better how I can encourage them (and the boys who I teach at church). Even though I may never be married, I think masculinity is a helpful subject to explore.

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Anonymous's picture

That sounds awesome. Reminds me of the book Wild at Heart. I was just having a conversation with a friend the other day about this very same subject. True masculinity and femininity has been completely lost and marred in our culture. It’s sad.

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Anonymous's picture

Ben, I think Rick Phillips would be appalled that his book reminds you of “Wild at Heart.” From what I remember of the interview he did with Ligonier Ministires, he wrote the book because one of his elders recommended “Wild at Heart” to him, and Phillips wrote this in response to it.

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Anonymous's picture

Tim, do you really think this book defines man’s role independent of marriage? From page 58, “This statement makes an essential point that every man needs to take to heart: you and I are designed incomplete. Men are made by God not to stand in isolation but in need of companionship, and the one companionship who fulfills God’s intention in our lives is a woman.”

As a single man — who is 800 years and several miracles away from getting married — I would like to see my purpose defined by my relationship with God and people in general. I think marriage and fatherhood can be some aspects of a man’s life, but the way it comes across is that these two are the ultimate and penultimate criteria for manhood — everything else is there to support those goals — like Samuel Johnson said, “…every man is a worse man, in proportion as he is unfit for the married state.”

I feel my impact and worth are diminished when I am viewed as incomplete because I am single. I am to the point that I have to wonder if singleness is even considered a Christian concept. Single men have been trampled by those rushing to confront modern gender issues and the disintegration of marriage.

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Anonymous's picture

Tim,

How do you think this book will work towards single men? I understand that he writes about the complexities of marriage, which single men need to hear, but often times they skip over what single men need to be doing. The proper way to pursue a relationship when one comes. The proper way to connect with God to have Him change them while they are single. Does this book address any of this?

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Anonymous's picture

I’m sorry if I’ve misread you here Tim, but is it really true that he attempts to define masculinity using only Adam as his template?! Surely our masculinity MUST be founded on what Jesus teaches and models of it!

That is, it’s insufficient to say ‘we started from this’ (Adam) without also saying, ‘but we’re heading towards this’ (Jesus).

Naturally, this will mitigate the emasculation implied in being unmarried, a state which every man on earth spends a sizeable number of years experiencing.

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Anonymous's picture

Promise Keepers Redux

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Anonymous's picture

I’m always intrigued when other bloggers write on similar subjects that I do.

The book is definitely on my list of books to check out. I appreciate the above commenter who points out that we must concern ourselves with the second adam as well as the first. I’ll be interested in hearing what the book has to say firsthand.

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Anonymous's picture

Tim, I’m not sure that I agree with your first sentence. What I’ve noticed is that there’s a resurgence (even among non-Christians) in stressing differences between men and women. I can’t think of a single person I’ve come across, Christian or non-Christian, who favours androgyny. That’s not to say that there aren’t any, but I doubt that such people constitute a majority. In fact, I think they’re probably a tiny few.

That said, I do absolutely agree that there is a significant difference between the Biblical vision of manhood and what passes for being a man in contemporary Western culture. That, I think, is an area deserving more attention among Christians and based on your review, Phillips’s book seems like a helpful corrective.

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Anonymous's picture

I second that. Wild at Heart is a very pop-cultural-driven version of “manliness”. And this is far from the Biblical exegesis foundation of masculinity that Rick Philips writes from, it’s the antithesis of it.

If you want sound doctrine of masculinity and manhood this book stands out.

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Anonymous's picture

The book sounds very interesting. I’ll definately be checking it out.

I recently wrote about masculinity and it’s role in leading worship at my blog. A bit controversial for many but I feel it is a topic that needed to be addressed.

http://sounddoxology.blogspot.com/2010/04/effeminate-worship-leader.html