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A La Carte (December 20)

A La Carte Friday 2

As we head into the holiday season, you’ll see me focus on sharing some year-end material—roundups of the year’s best songs, best books, and recommendations for resources that may serve you in the year ahead. Stay tuned through the rest of December to see that.

Today’s Kindle deals include a book about some of the key women from church history, a biography of David Brainerd, and a book on living in community.

Finally Transformed: From Transgender to Christian

Jonathan Gass tells of being convinced he was transgender before accepting Christ (and, therefore, his true identity). “My attempted transition impeded my growth socially, professionally, and spiritually. But my biggest regret is that I was trying to spread the word of my physical changes rather than the Lord’s precious gift of salvation. I feel a great deal of guilt for encouraging friends to continue in their transgender experiences, and I fear they will also come to regret their decisions.”

Forgive Us Our Debts

J. V. Fesko writes about confessing sins generally and confessing them specifically.

Did the Son of God Leave Heaven When He Came to Earth?

We often hear of Jesus leaving heaven to come to earth. But strictly speaking, did Jesus leave heaven? Kevin DeYoung answers well.

Does THIS Prove Mary Wasn’t a Virgin? (Video)

Tim Barnett takes on a recent claim that Mary wasn’t a virgin when she conceived and gave birth to Jesus.

9 Ways to Help Those Who Are Suffering

This article offers nine different ways you can help those who are going through periods of suffering. “While we feel compassion, we often find ourselves at a loss for what to do. Whether it’s a struggling spouse, a grieving friend, or a hurting member in our church, we want to help, but we’re unsure of the best approach. We walk a fine line between giving people space and showing up, between speaking truth and offering a listening ear. We fear doing or saying the wrong thing. It’s difficult to navigate. So, how do we help those who are suffering? How can we grow in showing up with love and wisdom?”

Gift Giving

Brandon tells about coming to terms with one aspect of his heartbreaking loss. “The thought of not praying for Isabel anymore crushed me. Absolutely crushed me, and I wept for so long afterwards. I could not believe that this sweet girl I prayed for since she was a tiny little one in her mama’s womb no longer needed me to pray for her.”

Flashback: Sin Is Immaturity

Sin is iniquity, premeditated rebellion against God. And lately, especially as I’ve been examining my own life, I’ve also been seeing sin as immaturity. Sin is a failure to grow up.

It is natural to quarrel, to be selfish, to live a small-minded life. It is supernatural to love unconditionally, to serve others, to live a life of vision and faith.

—Sally Clarkson

  • Praying together

    We Neglect it at Our Peril

    We know that prayer is a crucial discipline for the individual believer, but how often do we consider that it is also a crucial discipline for the assembled church? The Bible prescribes only a few elements for local church worship, but among them is prayer.

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    Weekend A La Carte (June 7)

    A La Carte: The most important quality in church musicians / Don’t make friends with doubt / The midlife spiritual plateau / There’ll be no sighing there / Because Jesus said so / and more.

  • The Tech Exit

    Help Your Family Make a Tech Exit

    We are now several generations into digital living, several generations into learning to live with the constant presence of connected mobile devices. For most of us, it is rare that we are beyond the glow of a screen or outside the influence of an app.

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    A La Carte (June 6)

    A La Carte: No chance of survival / I just don’t get why she’s sad / Trusting God after losing everything / We rehearse the acts of the Lord / The ministry of prayer / and more.

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    A La Carte (June 5)

    A La Carte: The dangerous secret young men are keeping / Gratitude for closed doors / Sex, love, and marriage in Africa / Why and how to begin Scripture writing / Seeing myself more clearly / Trust the process / Kindle deals / and more.