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Free Stuff Fridays (Focus on the Family)

This week the giveaway is sponsored by Focus on the Family.

The demands of ministry can sometimes leave little time for anything else. Between serving your congregation and fulfilling your calling, it’s easy for your marriage to take a backseat. But here’s the truth: your marriage is critical to the success of your ministry.

Michael McKinley once said, “If a pastor and his wife do not enjoy a close and healthy relationship, his service to the church will be significantly weakened.” Your relationship with your spouse directly impacts your ability to lead and serve effectively. Without a strong bond at home, ministry can feel overwhelming.

That’s why Focus on the Family wants to bless you and your spouse with a FREE 3-day, all-inclusive Marriage Getaway at one of Focus on the Family’s beautiful retreat centers. This is your chance to step away from the busyness of ministry and focus on nurturing your relationship.

You and your spouse can choose from the following retreat locations:

  • Branson, Missouri
  • Greenville, Michigan
  • Wimberley, Texas

This getaway is more than just a break—it’s a gift that will help strengthen your marriage, renew your energy, and equip you to serve.

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